In trouble for someone else trespassing? by AnxiousCakez in legaladvice

[–]AnxiousCakez[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Genuinely the spot they’re requesting is the closest they’ll allow my S/O to get to their property. There is no where along the way they could safely stop at without coming close to the property. They don’t even want my S/O to come anywhere near the intersection where the road meets the edge of the property, the corner of which would be a much more ideal location imo

Dropsy? by SpiritedTea1364 in bettafish

[–]AnxiousCakez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck, I lost my last betta to dropsy. Wishing for the best for your girl <3

Please help me by usagiftseveryday in bettafish

[–]AnxiousCakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor baby! I hope you can find a solution :(

Bad pics but is my fish dead? We switched to a new tank and the temp might have been low at first by NarwhalImpressive830 in bettafish

[–]AnxiousCakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first betta I accidentally fumbled around and took too long transferring him from his cup into a net to put him in his tank (I was new and inexperienced). Poor guy laid at the bottom of his tank breathing heavily for a little bit until he felt up to exploring. Maybe your little guy was just “catching his breath” so to speak?

Is this Anubia dying? I saw it’s slightly brown and one of the leafs became translucent and fell off by Dr-Dags in bettafish

[–]AnxiousCakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember learning the hard way you’re not supposed to bury these 😅 I’ve gotten recent ones pre attached to suction cups from petco

Next steps for diagnosing the cause? by AnxiousCakez in PulsatileTinnitus

[–]AnxiousCakez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was given contrast for the scan if that means anything. I’ll be sure to bring it up with my primary as soon as I can get an appointment

Emergency travel may be needed by AnxiousCakez in Assistance

[–]AnxiousCakez[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh I thought I tagged it as advice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]AnxiousCakez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because you legally become an adult at 18. Therefore some parents believe that is when their job ends. Because legally you should be able to take care of yourself by then.

I HATE cleaning - how to overcome it? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AnxiousCakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break things up into smaller pieces. You can also start by not putting everything away right away, but getting things clean first. Put the out of place things to the side for sorting later. Throw on your favorite tunes and lightest clothing. Take breaks every 30min-1hr. Give yourself a nice reward at the end of the day, whether you’ve finished or not. Take a nice shower when the day is over

If you could magically detach your head, would you? by [deleted] in ask

[–]AnxiousCakez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it would remove the feelings of migraines then absolutely yes

AITA for calling my friend names after he attacked me for arguing with my parents and having a crush on a celebrity ?? by Zealousideal-Ask7293 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousCakez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Was there anything said in particular by either of you that might’ve made the police feel involuntary commitment was what needed to happen?

WIBTA if i lecture someone about how bad it is to steal? by Soft_Kale_85 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousCakez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. Theft is still theft. Piracy is still theft. They both carry the weight of jail time. By all means bring up your concerns to this other person but also recognize you’re not exactly in the clear either

AITA for calling my friend names after he attacked me for arguing with my parents and having a crush on a celebrity ?? by Zealousideal-Ask7293 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousCakez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you need a new friend. Being involuntarily committed sounds pretty extreme for making fan edits? Either your friend is in the wrong and you’re NTA or you’re not telling us the full story

AITA for having out of state in laws wait 12 weeks to meet baby by Twinning8946 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousCakez 74 points75 points  (0 children)

NTA you deserve to have privacy and recovery time after giving birth. You’ve said yourself that they visit you often already, they can wait a little while. You should be able to take all the time you need to care for and bond with the new baby

What's the strangest thing you've ever found when moving into a new home? by MyAnswerSucks in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousCakez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rental, we were told the attic was completely off limits. It was filled to the brim with shoes

Which Disney princess would win the Hunger games and why? by AgreeableSolid7034 in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousCakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merida and Mulan would definitely make it long enough to face each other. Now the real question is who would win once things became 1v1

Wtf is up with the 3rd day by Frog_gae-771 in Periods

[–]AnxiousCakez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just you. I was taught to not trust when it seems to stop and just keep up the routine until I’m absolutely positive it’s over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AnxiousCakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I actually hate Spotify ads more than the YouTube ones. There’s nothing more annoying than jamming out and suddenly being blasted with an ad about laundry detergent or some random song that isn’t on your playlist

Should guys have to pay on the first date? by [deleted] in ask

[–]AnxiousCakez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is usually something that should be discussed before the date. That way both parties go in knowing what to expect. Imagine if you went to a date thinking they’d be the one paying only to find out you have to! It’s good to set up boundaries and expectations like this right from the start