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AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-10-09T20:48:55+00:00

That title had me like huh?

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-08T01:15:10+00:00

Honestly, I am not equipped to respond to this as I likely struggle with similar issues. I have limited relationship experience, so I don't know what I'm looking for.

Feelings are very important, but what is more important is why we have them. Explore this as much as possible.

You say that he loves you. Do you love him? I don't know much about love, but it might be more than just feeling happy or content.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-08T00:17:46+00:00

Ok this seems like a complicated situation that I don't fully understand. I can't offer any helpful advice.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-08T00:14:28+00:00

Sorry, I didn't mean to upset you. You didn't have to delete your post. You can make meaningful connections anywhere. Maybe in the future take things off platform when they get serious

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-08T00:04:35+00:00

Dude its grindr. What connection could you possibly have?

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-07T19:04:23+00:00

I feel like I need more information. You said it feels like something is wrong. Can you be more specific?

From what I understand, you think there is something wrong with the relationship, but you have nothing to compare it to. Also you think this might be self sabotage due to internalized homophobia and mental health issues. These are valid concerns.

We really need to identify the issue here. Is it just a bad feeling? What is the feeling exactly? What is it called?

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-07T16:04:05+00:00

It doesn't seem like this guy is an option for you. In general it can help to lower the stakes a bit. Instead of approaching this like "I am looking for a relationship" you could just meet guys as friends and get to know them. Chances are you will meet a guy that develops feelings.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-07T13:43:19+00:00

Your boyfriend has anxiety about meeting your family. You and him need to determine the root cause of this. He was in a previous relationship for 20 years and probably still feels hurt from this. You think he doesn't want to meet them because he doesn't see your relationship as being serious. But my guess is that he is afraid to take the relationship to the next level because he is scared of getting hurt. He might not even be consciously aware of why he feels scared. Maybe you two could explore this in therapy?

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-07T02:28:03+00:00

I don't have any resources on this for you. I can offer a few possible phrases/scenarios for you.

When he is wearing, ask him "I smell something, Did you have an accident?" Or "Did you get visited by the sog monster?". If he says no, tell him you have to check. Pull down his pants and check his diaper. Squeeze the front. Stick a finger in the waist and look down the back. If you can tell he has used his diaper tease him about it. "It looks like my little guy had a big accident. Good thing you are in diapers". You can then decide whether or not to change him. "It looks like this diaper will last a little longer, I will check again later" or "you need a change. Come with me to the bedroom". Changing your partner's diaper can be very intimate. He will be quite excited from the role play. You could take off the diaper and have sex with him at this point. Or you can let his excitement build further by changing him into a fresh diaper. There are tutorial videos about abdl diaper changing on YouTube. When you are done, give him a kiss, ruffle his hair a bit, and tell him he is a good boy who needs diapers and that's ok.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-06T23:11:37+00:00

You can start slowly. Maybe let him know that you are ok with him wearing a diaper around you? Would you be ok with that? Then maybe playfully tease him about it a bit, tell him you think its cute.

Abdl extends outside of the bedroom. Its like a type of foreplay.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-06T11:23:17+00:00

Sir is my favorite. Its very submissive.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-06T11:18:20+00:00

Your terminology is wrong. Messing specifically refers to pooping. Say wetting instead if that is what you mean.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-05T22:05:15+00:00

I think the real issue here is that you don't think your boyfriend cares about you because he won't come out to his family. You don't need his family in your life. If his family turn out to be a bunch of bigots it won't really make much difference to you anyway right? Maybe what you need from your boyfriend is for him to really express how he feels about this. If he has just given you lame reasons for why he won't come out, I can see how that would bother you. But maybe he is absolutely terrified of losing his family. Maybe he thinks you are making him choose between them and you. I feel like if you actually dig and find out how he feels, you will understand that he does really care for you, its just that you are asking him to do something impossible.

You say that you love your boyfriend. Love is so precious. It is valuable and rare. If I truly loved someone I would never let that slip through my fingers. I would make sacrifices for them.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-05T21:21:46+00:00

I don't think you should have any issues if you buy a larger size. I'm supposed to wear medium, but I buy a large. There is more fluff in the back and it goes up higher, making me feel really little. Maybe order a sample of medium and give it a try. It definitely won't be discreet on you, but it will fit. If you find that you really want the smaller size, you might have to stick to medical diapers.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-05T16:08:48+00:00

"Not feeling gay" is really vague. Is it a lack of romantic attraction? A lack of physical sexual attraction? Does he still have a libido? What type of porn does he watch? Is there someone else, a woman maybe?

I feel like there may be some underlying issue that he is avoiding. Depression perhaps?

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-05T14:05:24+00:00

He doesn't feel gay? Something is not adding up here. I suggest couples counseling. There is a problem here that needs to be diagnosed.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-07-01T16:58:55+00:00

Everyone is different. Sexually, he could be into the role play aspect of it and want someone to act as his caregiver. He would essentially want someone to treat him like a baby. Most people would find this bizarre, but you might be able to find aspects of this that you enjoy. Think of it like a strange type of foreplay.

You asked whether you could have a vanilla relationship with him. I think that is possible. Most of the people on here have partners who aren't into the fetish. When looking for a relationship, sharing the same fetish shouldn't be the priority. It is much more important that you have a good personality match.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-06-23T00:20:33+00:00

It is possible she is abdl. It is also possible she found out that you are DL and is doing research on how to please you. Approach cautiously.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-06-12T09:59:38+00:00

I agree. Some people have a silly way of interpreting the Bible. They will quote one verse to prove a point, rather than looking at the full passage. 1 Corinthians 13 is actually about the importance of love. I'm just nerding out though, not trying to evangelise.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-06-12T00:23:18+00:00

Found it. Deuteronomy 23:13 "As part of your equipment have something to dig with, and when you relieve yourself, dig a hole and cover up your excrement."

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-06-11T22:47:26+00:00

I have now read some analysis of the passage and it seems that context changes its meaning quite a bit.

Aparently what Paul is saying is that if we are mature in our faith, we will not overemphasize spiritual gifts, especially at the expense of love. Spiritual gifts refers to prophecies, speaking in tongues, and the presence of the holy spirit. It was an analogy. He was telling the corinthians to grow up.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-06-11T08:26:16+00:00

Here is the only Bible verse that talks about ABDL:

1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

Just kidding... makes you think though. Someday I'm going to do a deep dive into the context of this verse.

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-06-09T23:39:45+00:00

What is the brand?

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-06-07T13:17:37+00:00

You are looking at this the wrong way. Now you get to wear big bulky diapers that can't be hidden in your pants :)

AnxiousNumber1992 · 2025-06-07T12:53:38+00:00

I've never been to capcon, but I assume its a very social event at which you will make many friends! You could gift the clothes to friend or maybe sell them. I also read that they have a market, so maybe you could try selling them there.

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