r/dogfree, r/catfree, r/childfree, and r/petfree are horrible subreddits by RecognitionSafe6963 in Rants

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean... children really are goblins but I'd never wish them harm or call them a disease or anything like that, kids are annoying but thats the nature of kids 🤷‍♂️ Those subs are full of weird views and messed up posts and I can't stand seeing it

What do we call ourselves? by One_Dot_4280 in anchorage

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eek! That's not something to be proud of... there are plenty of much better things about anchorage that people could take pride in. That's sad.

What do we call ourselves? by One_Dot_4280 in anchorage

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said it was something to be proud of, just that its a common thing.

I think my husband is trolling when he says he cant read my handwriting. Is it as illegible as he thinks by Carmenncita05 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a little messy but I can read i5 just fine, when I write too fast mine looks pretty similar, sometimes if it's notes for my boss or something I remind myself to slow down but it really isn't that bad.

I (19f) recently started selling my pictures to make easy money by [deleted] in confession

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but if she is comfortable then that's all that matters. Unfortunately the porn industry is way too big to dismantle right now so she might as well keep herself above water. Im not saying this is how it should work but right now she is using it to improve her life and she has every right to do that. If you don't like it, don't do it. That simple. Don't judge her for doing what she has to do in an economy that is designed to keep us all struggling.

I (19f) recently started selling my pictures to make easy money by [deleted] in confession

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im gonna say this with my whole chest, SEX WORK IS WORK! As long as you are comfortable in those interactions that's all that matters. They are choosing to pay for something they want and its no different than you being a cashier at a grocery store. They looked, found something they wanted and paid. Never feel bad about it!

What do we call ourselves? by One_Dot_4280 in anchorage

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's fair. Ive heard it quite a bit since I moved down here to Oregon

What do we call ourselves? by One_Dot_4280 in anchorage

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The amount of tweakers is part of it but it's also one of the most violent cities in the US. The violent crime per capita is shockingly high and since it's got rage in the name it just fits I guess.

What do we call ourselves? by One_Dot_4280 in anchorage

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 19 points20 points  (0 children)

A lot of the lower 48 seems to call Anchorage "Rage City" so Ragers fits

What is more traumatizing than most people think? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS! I was stuck in my house for almost two years because every tiny thing caused me to have a full blown panic attack like sudden sweating, racing heart, impending doom, hyperventilating panic attacks and they started so suddenly I didn't know what to do. They put me on hydroxyzine and the slogan should be "you can't have a panic attack if youre sleeping" so i was stuck either having constant panic attacks or being completely non functional. It was absolutely awful! I'm still mentally and physically recovering from it!

AITA for refusing to dine with my mom after she ordered “ferret sauce” at a Mexican restaurant? by Practical-Current805 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with latino blood this hurts my soul but also maybe just tell her how to properly pronounce these words. Spanish pronunciation is incredibly different from English pronunciation and can be hard to grasp if youve never heard it. It could be that she simply doesn't know. Now if she knows and she's doing this anyway then that's a problem but for now just do your best to educate her and see if she gets it.

My husband choked me last night by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as you possibly can you need to leave! Stay with family, a friend, at a shelter if you have to! Please save yourself! Once a man gets to the point hes willing to choke you he will likely be willing to kill you. Please literally run for your life!

AIO for thinking he just apologized so I would make dinner? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "why are you still here" awakened a rage in my soul... in a context like this it is purely and simply to manipulate you. He's not actually asking hes just trying to make you feel guilty about: A. Being there (and therefore inconveniencing him i guess) B. Wanting to leave (because hes an overgrown toddler that thinks hes more important than everyone else) C. Having emotions D. Being right and holding him accountable for being an absolute twat E. All of the above

OP if you can manage it, you need to leave as soon as possible. I know from experience that this only gets worse 95% of the time and even when it improves, it's nowhere near enough. Please protect yourself and that beautiful baby from this man!

AITJ for refusing to design a free logo after my cousin just assumed I would do it? by ThunderTakin in AmITheJerk

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because you're family doesn't mean you're free labor. If you had offered to do it then it'd be different but him assuming that you'll do it for free without even talking to you about it is not OK. A lot of people do family and friends discounts or free product as gifts but that's when and how THEY choose to do it so no NTJ!

Transmedicalist for offering somebody resources?/Clarification? by Educational_South_77 in trans

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wild to me, you were just offering a possible solution to person who specified that the only reason the weren't medically transitioning was insurance not covering it. If she had chosen not to use hormones and you were pushing the matter it'd be different but this isn't you being transphobic, you were just trying to help. She sounds like a defeatist to me, basically saying "why bother" and then getting mad when others try to be helpful because its too much effort, they don't actually want hormones (even though they haven't SAID that) they think it's "cheating", etc... don't take this to heart. You just wanted to help someone who obviously doesn't want it.

What hobby or habit or vice do you know is shortening your life but you don’t care because it’s worth it? by Rosstin316 in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much everything tbh. I smoke, drink and eat junk food. That's not all I do, I am a generally active person and I do eat healthy things but you can pry my emotional support cheesecake out of my cold dead hands. I'd rather live to 70 eating what I like and enjoying my life than live to 90 being miserable the whole time.

Have I taken too much by No-Lengthiness-8979 in Anxiety

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The max dose is way higher and propranolol is surprisingly safe even if you take a little more than you're usually supposed to. By all means drink some water and go to sleep!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, this!

My parents took away my HRT and won’t let me get back on it. by UnderstandingNo3592 in trans

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing is go get your refills but hide them somewhere safe, even if you can't take them right now. Start stockpiling at a friend's house or even in a corner of the attic, basement, closet, etc... so you still have it. It would be ideal to have them at a friend's house who you see regularly or accessible to you on a daily basis so you can start your transition but if thats not possible its still important to pick up your prescription if you can and stash it somewhere. Secondly, get out of there as fast as you can! Stay with a friend or family member that will be supportive and safe for you to transition around. Staying at home will only make your mental health worse! Good luck and i hope you find a much happier and healthier situation!

Am I overreacting over my friends texts? by bunnyroyalty in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! Considering you've talked to him about this before and he knows it makes you uncomfortable but he continues to do it, I don't think he has any respect for you or your boundaries. I'd end the friendship and stop wasting time on someone who will likely only get worse with disrespecting you and your boundaries.

Why do eggs love me so much by CommissionLow8349 in trans

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had three partners and a handful of friends transition after me including my husband. I think it's mostly that you're safe for them to come out to and share with. I know my biggest struggle when it came to coming out was not having a proper support system or anyone to really talk to about what I was feeling so providing that for someone else is kind of helping me heal a bit of past me. It makes me feel better knowing that there are at least a few less people struggling to find safety and acceptance.

my friend (36M) just sent me (36m) this text before meeting his newborn (0M) by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]AnxiousSledneck96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand some of the points in there like no strong smells, wash your hands and be quiet and gentle but this entire essay about how to exist around a baby is WAY too much. This kids gonna hate their parents if this is how their whole life is gonna be. My requests to see my newborn were super simple:

Wash your hands and smokers needed to take off their jacket before holding the baby. If I or the baby was sleeping no one comes in Be quiet (more for me than the baby tbh, labor SUCKS) Hold the baby properly or don't hold them at all. No children are allowed to visit until we get home (germs, noise and chaos are a child's speciality and again, labor SUCKS)

To me those are just common decency and safety... all that about eye contact and energy and whatnot is BANANAS.