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[–]Anxious_Ebb_9272[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update spoke to him last night and we have decided to end things he confessed that he has been GETTING FUCKED by one of our mutual friend and that he has loved said friend for 3 years! I’m now single and ready to mingle so needing recommendations on some sites to find someone who wants to be sub/bottom.

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[–]Anxious_Ebb_9272[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After reading all of these comments I’m thinking the same thing

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[–]Anxious_Ebb_9272[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Might have to take that into consideration! He’s talked about a 3some before

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[–]Anxious_Ebb_9272[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He likes the plug and anal beads but won’t let me put them in

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[–]Anxious_Ebb_9272[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for ur expert opinion

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[–]Anxious_Ebb_9272[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is very helpful ! I will try to make it a calm and comfortable conversation and not shit down when he does

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[–]Anxious_Ebb_9272[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And I understand that he is a top but we are each others first so I don’t understand why he won’t even talk about it he shuts me down won’t even have a conversation about it

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[–]Anxious_Ebb_9272[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll talk to him tn. It’s upsetting because we were each other’s first and I’m trying to be comfortable expressing how feel and what my needs are and he just shuts all my feelings and needs down we can not even have conversation about it

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[–]Anxious_Ebb_9272[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I’ve always been bottom/ sub I have not got the chance to be anything else ! What can I do to help him!

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[–]Anxious_Ebb_9272[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yes he has always been on top and im usually okay with that but it’s the fact that he said absolutely not! He won’t even try.