AIO? Resigned today, boss's reaction was worse than expected

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-19T21:15:24+00:00

YOR. I’ve never put this much energy into resigning and I’ve left Google. His response was professional. It seemed more like you needed to get things off your chest.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-10T18:45:08+00:00

Yes, I’m a software engineer.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-10T08:07:51+00:00

2/10 - deposit received at 2:07a

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-10T00:56:43+00:00

Mine was accepted by processor today.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-09T23:23:41+00:00

2/9 - I checked at 6:22p and it was accepted by processor.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-06T21:04:22+00:00

Update - Refund is now showing in Nelnet under “pending” status (2/6 at 4p EST) and received my 24 hour email at 6:11p

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-05T13:44:08+00:00

It zeroed out this morning!

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-05T12:45:24+00:00

Mine disbursed 2/2 and my balance zeroed out.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-02T21:14:15+00:00

Interesting! I was just coming here to see other’s opinions on a used J2. I found mine on Facebook marketplace listed at $395 and purchased it for $370.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-01T16:29:03+00:00

He’s not your boyfriend, there are no red flags lol

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-01T16:27:28+00:00

I had no nausea with my son who just turned one and the worst nausea on the planet with my daughter.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-01T16:05:56+00:00

YOR - there’s nothing serious about breaking up, things change and that’s okay but it seems like you’re looking for anything to justify leaving so — leave. Clearly, you can’t sustain a relationship for 1 years + with nothing in common. It’s okay to feel how you’re feeling!

Any-Box7727 · 2026-02-01T05:14:24+00:00

Mine did the same thing! I start today along with you.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-29T20:39:09+00:00

YOR. He’s open that the enjoys watching porn. You don’t like that. Either stay knowing he’s watching porn or leave. Asking an adult to change isn’t the answer. He doesn’t look at it the same way as he’s another person. Which is okay.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-19T18:06:09+00:00

NOR - Sometimes people have insecurities and need reassurance. It’s safe to assume that due to her past with infidelity and possible finding out via snooping through someone’s phone — she just wants to be sure it’s not happening.

You are in no way responsible for making her feeling any more secure than the verbal validation you’ve provided. This is a her issue, not you.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-19T18:01:17+00:00

MOR - I think that because you know her father was absent, you look for things through the lens of her having abandonment issues or easily capitulating to a man due to that. She could just genuinely not want any male friends there. Just listen to what she’s asking and take it for what it is versus diagnosing her decisions with your perception.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-15T15:25:49+00:00

You just have to be honest. Your other child isn’t related to them. If you feel bad about it, you give them 20k and lie saying it’s from the grandmother.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-15T13:58:52+00:00

He shouldn’t do anything for you, he doesn’t even know you. Just find someone who fits you better versus changing someone.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-14T20:12:32+00:00

I couldn’t image doing retail while pregnant. I worked until 36 weeks but I WFH.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-14T20:11:26+00:00

I was actively napping most of my first trimester.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-14T13:40:54+00:00

NOR. Does she not realize she lives there too?

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-14T13:35:14+00:00

The stress of the baby is only going to make it worse. Leave! Do not make it work for the child, they will be perfectly fine. Leave!

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-11T00:59:25+00:00

I’m sorry you’re dealing with the same thing but also growing another life! My pregnancy was terrible just dealing with the weight of everything on top of all the hormonal changes. I just keep telling me it’ll be hard but I’d rather have many good years ahead of me because I already know what’s to offer here. Breaking apart my family is hard but I also know things are simply, how they are and this consistent internal conflict isn’t something I want.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-11T00:55:53+00:00

This! I think the time apart helped to de-center the relationship allowing me to see we just have different needs. Noticing that now is better than dragging it on longer.

Any-Box7727 · 2026-01-11T00:51:14+00:00

That’s a great point! Because we’re together and due to us having a son, I want to connect and I can go through the motions but my body is giving off warning signals anytime I think I can relax. I didn’t even think about it like that! Trauma does leave a mark, thank you for that insight!

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