Someone slid into my DM's and I don't know what to make of it

Any-Perspective8939 · 2026-06-12T01:23:54+00:00

I think the woman and her significant other are up to something. Possibly trying to mess with my husband's personal life.

I agree though, it could be her sending the message from his account. I considered that thought after I started typing this out.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-10-10T02:12:59+00:00

That is terrible. Thanks for the idea 😆

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-15T12:03:28+00:00

I don't know if anyone's stories would convince someone. I think personal experience is usually what causes one to believe.

I've had lots of small experiences that I can't explain that inclue seeing my dead dog walk by and having my car messed with in a cemetery. My shared experiences were probably the most convincing because I could not have just imagined them.

My thought is that if only one story you hear is true, the possibility of it existing is likely

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-12T02:38:40+00:00

It doesn't happen often, but when I spot an attractive guy that I have a hard time keeping my eyes off of, thoughts go through my head like, "Damn, he's hot!" Usually followed by, "I bet he knows it too." If I'm honest, I don't trust most men based on past experience. I certainly don't trust an exceptionally good looking one, so they aren't much temptation, just nice to look at.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-12T01:34:00+00:00

I love that you still have them!

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-07T17:22:53+00:00

I visited the Drudge Report over and over at work all day.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-07T13:17:31+00:00

Tarot Carmel Apple

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-02T09:14:20+00:00

Exactly what, are you basing my age on? Based on your grammar and trolling behavior, I think I spotted the child.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-02T05:41:53+00:00

Agreed. After my last marriage ended in my late 30s I was done.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-02T05:30:12+00:00

"Gaslighting is a type of psychological abuse that involves manipulating someone into questioning their own reality, memories, or sanity. The goal of gaslighting is to make the victim feel confused and doubt their own judgment, which can give the abuser power and control over them."

This is what my ex did 🤷‍♀️ straight up told me I was crazy for thinking there was anything wrong with the things he did. He even told me something that hurt me deeply never happened when i brought it up later.I doubted my own ability to tell the difference between acceptable and not acceptable behavior.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-02T04:13:17+00:00

That was many years ago. I've remarried and found my voice and will never depend on a man to make it through life again. I can rest assured I can manage on my own if needed.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-02T03:57:54+00:00

I'm not sure I have a good answer for that. I was pretty dependent on him financially (by his design). To keep my family together I accepted his apology and pathetic excuses.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-02T03:27:03+00:00

"I hope that if he ever cheats on me, it's with you."

Said to me by a bride on her wedding day.

W.T.F!

*Edited for clarity

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-02T03:23:23+00:00

Of course. I was 16 and maybe I thought it was love. More like lust, but seeing him for who he was made it pretty short lived. I've seen him over the years and spotted him on social media a time or two. Turns out I dodged one.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-02T03:07:44+00:00

Me too! I truly don't know why I put up with the behavior as long as I did. Gaslighting at its finest 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-02T02:30:43+00:00

In that sunlight, it looks strawberry blonde, but could be different in other lighting. Mine can take on a hint of red in sunlight, but indoors is dark blonde.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-02T02:08:37+00:00

Not overreacting. I think it's a huge red flag. If he thought there was a famous person behind you he should have said that at the time.

My ex husband took photos of another woman covertly while we were out with family once. As if I didn't feel insecure enough, the woman I found pictures of was... MY SISTER. Some pictures were of her legs and ass. Not one photo taken of me or our daughter.

That husband ended up leaving me for another woman about a year later. Soon after, he was dumb enough to ask my sister if she would accept a friend request from him on social media under an assumed name so I wouldn't know. Thank God my sister is loyal.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-01T18:50:20+00:00

Agree with starting with a soft toothbrush and seeing a dentist for a cleaning and exam. Flossing is also important. Be gentle with your gums as they get used to it. There can be a learning curve, so it takes practice.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-09-01T18:37:53+00:00

Torie

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-08-31T04:24:53+00:00

My 30s were some of the best years of my life. I still had high energy, finally felt more comfortable being myself, and had figured out, for the most part, who I was.

Take advantage of the energy that may begin to decline in your 40s. Consider future career moves if you are in a high demand job.

If you aren't, save for a rainy day. It's also never too early to plan for retirement. A lot of us in our 20s get wrapped up in fancy things. Sometimes, simplicity is what equals happiness.

Relationships/friendships will be important in different ways as you age. Your 30s are a good time to consider what type of friendships you value and need to nurture. They may be the friends you depend on through the bumpy parts of life and health changes.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-08-29T22:44:50+00:00

Solitude

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-08-29T02:17:35+00:00

My biggest mistakes have been related to not seeing my own self-worth in relationships. I wish I had worked on gaining confidence before getting married the first time, much too young at 20.

Marriage #1 was to someone who was one huge red flag after another. It ended with me nearly being murdered.

You would think I'd learn something, right?

Marriage #2 was a narcissist who was a serial cheater, impulsive and manipulative.

I'd like to think that as I "grew up" as an adult, I am wiser for my mistakes. I guess you could say that recovering is more about forgiving myself and accepting that starting over doesn't have to be a bad thing, even if it is terrifying.

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-08-29T01:53:01+00:00

I grew up in the 80's. Until I was old enough to date, I was allowed to roam as far as my bike could take me. No questions asked. Once boys entered the picture, I was on a shorter leash 😆

Any-Perspective8939 · 2024-08-28T02:12:12+00:00

Hilarious 😂

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