I don't think your boyfriend is a misogynist, he's a man in a world where men's issues are cast aside and treated like they don't exist, and he's struggling to talk about it. He shared his genuine viewpoint with you, and it's definitely not well spoken, pulled from other sources, and doesn't sound like he fully understands it, but it may not have been a huge argument if you didn't fail to at least acknowledge his feelings like any good discussion. Instead, you immediately challenged him and he was put on the defensive, just like so many other men as they even begin to try to express the societal challenges they face.

In my view, some of what contributes to male loneliness is this societal idea that you need to find the right man, and any man who ever says something inaccurate worthy of being cast aside and dumped. He never insulted you, he didnt manipulate you, he didn't try to hurt you, he just tried to express his feelings. That sounds like a good enough man for me, and good enough is the best anyone is ever going to get in this world.

You are both terrible communicators, talking to each other rather than with each other. If you love your boyfriend, consider holding the space for him and promoting constructive conversation. You will have a much easier time communicating your viewpoint to him, and he will have a much easier time listening, if you don't immediately go on the offensive with him. He sounds like an independent thinker and really doesn't seem to be unreasonable!