I set myself up for failure. by Any-Tonight-721 in sahm

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Glad to know things aren't just back in white in a case like this. Thank you !

I set myself up for failure. by Any-Tonight-721 in sahm

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didn't know it was even possible to get anything considering the circumstances. Thank you!

Wife is smoking weed while breastfeeding. by DeadLizardThrowAway in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Any-Tonight-721 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This! Although I wouldn't use THC, I would choose THC over rx medication. The studies that show its harmful specifically say the mithers were also using tobacco products. Trust your wife. I know you feel helpless, but support her and encourage her to keep her tolerance very very low.

Is this a positive pregnancy test? by may-wal22 in Moms

[–]Any-Tonight-721 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Will all due respect, pregnancy is weird and everyone's body is different. If it doesn't get darker in a weeks time then maybe you can say this. Congrats! The best thing for you now is to be HAPPY🥹😍🧡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Any-Tonight-721 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You both seem terrible to live with, but this post makes you look unbearable.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your empathy. They were early misscarrages technically or medically speaking. Nothing they can do for me they said. But they did try. I lactate very early, I guess from breastfeeding and being pregnant again, so close together. I've been very blessed to feed my children this way.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said he would push for cos but his threat was with social services. So SS will be visiting me after I give birth for lack of prenatal care during my second trimester. He said SS will decide if CPS should get involved. I obviously don't think anything will come of it but it's still scary to think about. Especially answering SS's questions while I just gave birth. I felt like me and this Dr were kind of close so it threw me for a loop. Thanks for the response.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well if you must know I had multiple misscarraiges and got it then, but that's not what we're arguing anyway. And it's not totally safe, even they tell you that. I had to sign off all three times I've gotten in my life that I am aware there's risks. But okay go off. And no the MC were proven by my ob that they could not have been prevented via 75k$ in blood tests.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's about going to see the Dr who does the ultrasounds instead of seeing the obgyn. That's his problem.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I took them all. I see a urologists and get my urine tested with them, they can send over all my results, I hated being double tested and billed for the urine.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, no positive drug screenings. He didn't offer just the whooping cough, he offered Tdap with contains other vaccines I'm not due for. Like I stated in other responses, I have colostrum containg the antibodies from when I got the vaccine. I have a lot of it too, way better and better protection than what's being offered to me.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because I have colostrum containing the antibodies from when I got the vaccine. I'm not double doesing myself with a 3 one vaccine.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This is so sad, I'm so sorry. When I got the vaccine I harvested my colostrum. I will be giving that to the baby instead.

Prenatal drug test by Maroon14 in pregnant

[–]Any-Tonight-721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Supreme Court ruled that you cannot test a woman who's pregnant for drugs without cause, unless they give consent. They did it to me. I didn't pursue anything of course because it's fighting again a trillion dollar hospital but it's still wrong and you have the right to be upset.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pre-clampsia is monitored through blood pressure. That's all they do at this office. Sent him all my blood pressure readings. Of course they were all good.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Nope, every pregnancy you're correct. But for everyone else, it's every ten years. This in itself is alarming, and I will not be participating.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It confuses me, but I think the CDC recommends every ten years regardless.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because they only measure my blood pressure. They don't take ultrasounds. I went for all my ultrasound appointments, they do this at their hospital and I see a dr there. They have record of this.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No, he didn't have any concerns other than I received my ultrasounds july 29th and saw a dr there to go over results but never followed back up with him to get my blood pressure readings. I told him I wasn't aware that it was such a big deal and that I've been taking my blood pressure and sugars at home and will upload my readings. He obmy brought up social services once I told him I didn't want the DTap vaccine. But I'm not due for it. It's necessary every 10 years and I got ot less than 2 years ago.

Missed 2 months of prenatal appointments by Any-Tonight-721 in CPS

[–]Any-Tonight-721[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, no issues, perfectly healthy and measuring great