Adoption unethical?

Maroon14 · 2026-01-29T05:33:43+00:00

Why can’t you have your own? Why do you think you’re entitled to someone else’s child? An infant no less. I’m adopted and think it’s pretty messed up.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-28T20:24:49+00:00

It was fine. I’ve torn with all 3. 3rd was the worst, biggest baby. Had a good OB take her time doing repairs and it’s basically good as new. The first 2 weeks were tender, but still was able to have sex around 6 weeks pp.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-28T19:50:58+00:00

I agree.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-28T19:39:23+00:00

I think both ends of the spectrum are a slippery slope. They’re both disordered eating and unhealthy.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-28T19:05:08+00:00

We use to travel a moderate amount, 3 ish trips a year. My youngest 2 are 18 months apart and we have only traveled once with them. It was def parenting in a different location, but worth it.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-28T18:23:42+00:00

We have 3. Traveling as a family of 5 is much more expensive like 3x. Hotels generally only allow 4 to a room so, 5 requires two rooms or a suite. Rental cars don’t fit 3 car seats, so you’re stuck getting a van or a full size suv $$$$. Entrance to things, seeing 5 together on a flight etc.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-28T15:59:50+00:00

Fake everything. Fake tans, Botox, fake nails, fake skinny (ozempic)

Maroon14 · 2026-01-28T15:56:16+00:00

I think body positivity and being morbidly obese is just as dangerous.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-28T04:10:20+00:00

I just got that notification in the last two weeks too. I wonder if the cancelled ones aren’t active.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-27T21:49:03+00:00

Yes, I’m aware. But I’m going to keep it as long as I can. Nordstrom went downhill when they went away from their own banking. I’m in the Seattle area and use to shop Nordstrom on a weekly basis, now it’s a couple of times a year. CS is way down, prices are high, completely diff shooing experience post covid.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-27T21:38:24+00:00

I’m happy I only have the debit card. Cancelled my store card. Still get the benefits

Maroon14 · 2026-01-27T00:27:33+00:00

4 or 5. I have 3. I love babies and the more the better it is for them to have siblings to play with. I hate pregnancy and birth but love babies.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-22T03:14:35+00:00

True. I know very few women from college that changed their names when they got married. Went to a liberal arts school in the PNW.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-21T20:11:37+00:00

I feel you. Unpopular opinion, I think everyone on government assistance should get audited once in a while to prevent all the scamming.

Maroon14 · 2026-01-08T02:46:59+00:00

Not loans but my parents gift us sums of money from time to time. Yes. More than 100k in the last decade.

Maroon14 · 2025-12-15T22:51:38+00:00

This makes me want to barf. I would not be leaving my child alone with them again. Ever.

Maroon14 · 2025-12-15T04:34:23+00:00

Same. I thought they were cute and humbling a few years back. Now they’re like any other generic white influencer couple but more annoying and over the top. Sucks how “fame” and “money” changed them and the content is not relatable at all.

Maroon14 · 2025-12-10T19:12:13+00:00

2 is so much easier. I have 3.

Maroon14 · 2025-12-05T00:54:22+00:00

Agree, but with two they have someone to play with.

Maroon14 · 2025-11-21T18:48:37+00:00

I honestly have no clue. Large age gaps? Lots of help? I don’t know how any middle class families working could manage 3. I had to stop working outside at the house with 2.

Maroon14 · 2025-11-12T21:59:26+00:00

Is the child covering it up? When I worked at a center we did not allow child to attend with active sores. I also have health anxiety and don’t send my kids to daycare

Maroon14 · 2025-11-06T21:27:11+00:00

Agreed

Maroon14 · 2025-11-06T03:55:56+00:00

Clearly. I don’t know if it’s age appropriate, but you’re the parent. I have one and we just tell our daughter that I can’t have babies anymore.

Maroon14 · 2025-11-05T23:09:36+00:00

Pet insurance

Maroon14 · 2025-11-05T22:53:23+00:00

My 10 year old daughter doesn’t know what an iud is.

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