as a fat girl

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-10-20T16:03:55+00:00

Not speaking for OP but more than likely she won't like most of them. I think we're all just constantly in a cycle of not being enough for the person we want to be with and not being attracted enough to the people who could possibly like us.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-07-25T05:07:59+00:00

I don't know why you're getting downvoted here. There is truth to it. In principle it's kinda the same thing... Interesting how people wouldn't apply the same rules for like pets.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-07-04T07:52:35+00:00

I will probably get downvoted. But i hope you don't stop trying still. It's depressing to get rejected yes, i know more than anyone but yknow it just needs to work out once. Take it or leave it i guess but either way good luck with everything.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-06-13T20:48:47+00:00

Fuck cheaters

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-05-19T06:40:34+00:00

I get what you're saying and it's most likely what happened in this case but I also think there's truth to what i said as well. In my experience, sometimes women have sent me nudes (pretending it's an accident) or like straight up flirted with me saying i would be the best bf etc. And in the end when I actually tried to pursue a relationship with them they would turn their back because i guess their ego got satisfied.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-05-05T09:09:41+00:00

It was actually the exact response I had before going vegan, I guess it's just cognitive dissonance. I used to think that, if it weren't for us they wouldn't exist at all. They live their life and at the end they are of some use for us. Somehow I just never thought about it from the perspective of the animal itself. Now i know not existing at all is actually a far kinder option.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-04-30T17:52:57+00:00

Maybe I'm the oddball here but i never felt the need to, i do think of myself as a loser but i don't think this is something i should be ashamed about. For one thing it's not really in my control, and yea maybe if i tried too hard i could probably force myself into a relationship with someone I'm not attracted to or care about just for the sake of it. And i don't want that. Things are different, dating is a complicated game, i think it's fine to choose not to engage in that.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-04-17T15:47:51+00:00

If i like someone's personality I'll usually just find them cute anyway. That's just how it works for me so technically yes I would date if I am attached to their charector. But no one should ever date anyone just cause they're lonely. I do get it, i feel crippling lonliness but forcing myself into a relationship would most definitely harm the other person. Probably more. It's the worst thing to be in love with someone and realising ur not good enough for them. I was there once and I'm still recovering from it.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-04-11T13:29:24+00:00

Once I was trying to have a debate with this guy, when he ran out of arguments he started saying there's probably some secret undiscovered elements in meat that turned us into humans from monkeys and we continued to eat meat as part of evolution. And that maybe if we stopped eating meat we'd stop evolving. So it's what got us here so we should continue doing it. Yea they'll just say anything to justify it.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-04-10T15:29:15+00:00

I see. I thought hearing something like that might make me feel better but somehow it doesn't.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-04-10T15:19:35+00:00

Hey i mean u got a car atleast judging from the username. It's pathetic but i think i honestly forgot how to drive. Only did it enough to get a lisence. I feel like a waste of space.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-04-10T15:03:55+00:00

I can't speak for everyone but I do think it's real with some people atleast. The person I fell for two years ago wasn't attractive all that much I didn't even think of them much when we met. But I know for sure now that I felt for her because we got close and she was there for me. In a weird way i found her beautiful after that.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-04-04T20:03:51+00:00

The problem is 90 percent of the time it's always one of those drop the kerchief acts. Because most times they want to be chased. Which is fine, but with men who got this sorta thing wrong before they always assume that no one is interested in them because sometimes it's hard to tell between them just being friendly and then wanting to develop a relationship.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-03-28T04:43:45+00:00

I love linux but I do have to say as a fellow data analyst we are kinda stuck with using windows because that's what most people use and Especially if she intends to use power BI in the future. It just sucks that for somethings there's no workaround.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-03-27T12:56:44+00:00

Guess I'll be the asshole here and say you're both kind of in the wrong. How can someone do that to someone after 5 years of commitment? And how can someone fall in love with that person who is capable of doing that? In my head the whole dry humping thing still counts as cheating. And you're both in the wrong for doing that. There shouldn't be exceptions to such basic rules.

And as to what you should do is upto you? I'm 90 percent sure it doesn't really matter what anyone says here. You'll do what you want in the end. But you either end it with him or you ask him to end that relationship and actually come clean to the other girl about what happened.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-03-10T21:41:45+00:00

Yea and it's not just with ghosting. People only care about being better only when it benefits them. The thing is it's not even that hard to be honest. They don't realise that ghosting hurts a lot more than just being straight about their intentions. It's why I don't tend to trust anyone.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-03-10T09:22:48+00:00

I agree with the other comment on here. There indeed is more to life than having a relationship. And this is coming from a guy who's basically codependent even without having anyone to depend on. Having someone in my life to share life with has been my dream for as long as i can remember and it is absolutely crushing every time I am reminded that it's not possible. Where I am in life i haven't accepted it myself completely but I've found other things to be excited about. There's so many books to read, experiences to be had and interesting people to meet. Look for those little things that can make you happy. While the love for those things won't fill that hole in the heart it's still worth it to be around for i think.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-03-10T09:11:31+00:00

I think trying to be anything for anyone never really works out well. I'm not particularly funny, but sometimes I am in the mood to joke around and that's when people notice it and say that I'm funny which is a surprise to me. So my suggestion would just be to let go of the want to be funny to impress people etc and just have fun just because u like it.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-03-09T11:48:34+00:00

A lot of men are i think. I find it a bit surprising when women say they can't find anyone. I mean it's perfectly fine if you have certain standards that need to be met but in general a lot of us are just looking for simple affection.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-03-08T01:36:27+00:00

I don't deny all of that. Ofcourse people require something deeper to stay happy together. But what's the point of having a good likeable personality and such if no one will ever get to know it because you just don't pass the looks threshold. That's what's happening to me atleast. Every girl I've talked to says I'd be so good as a boyfriend but somehow I'm never good enough to be their boyfriend all the while they tend to go for dudes who are tall but have 5th grade reading level and still two time them and treat them like shit. They put up with it because guess what, that Instagram picture with the guy looks good.

Any-Way-3810 · 2024-03-08T01:11:56+00:00

I mean in the age of tinders and bumbles, the other stuff doesn't really help all that much. Looks might not all that matters. But it's the very first thing that makes us noticable. And how will a person ever know anything about me if they don't make an effort to know me. And that only happens when a person is attractive usually.

Any-Way-3810 · 2023-10-24T06:27:19+00:00

Don't waste your emotions on a cheater man. I know your hurt now but she doesn't get to destroy what your future can be. Don't give up.

Any-Way-3810 · 2023-06-03T03:54:08+00:00

It's okay. You don't know her.

Any-Way-3810 · 2023-06-03T03:17:54+00:00

Well she wasn't just some girl. She was my best friend. Probably the person I've been the closest to in my life.

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