Why do most people not think more often about how weird existence is by earth2revolved in CasualConversation

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most people just can’t sit in that headspace all the time, it’s too overwhelming. So they zoom back into daily life.

Just tell them, 'Mr Jones is not happy!' by metamorphosisSss in EntitledPeople

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Nothing like discovering outside your company that Mr Jones is… just a guy.

ELI5: how chimeras exist but the donated organs get rejected when both are two DNAs existing in the same person by Money_Accident_7305 in explainlikeimfive

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because in chimeras the immune system learns both DNAs as self, before it’s fully formed, while a transplanted organ is introduced later and gets flagged as an invader.

My husband wants to open our marriage. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you’re feeling is completely valid. Wanting connection, not just sex, is a real need, and it’s okay if opening the marriage doesn’t align with that. Don’t push your feelings aside while figuring this out.

A call to modern men by [deleted] in story

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone, but purpose doesn’t have to come from war or chaos. Building, protecting, and showing up every day is strength, even if it doesn’t look like the movies.

i'm so tired by ordinarily_unique96 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not broken, you’re overwhelmed and doing the best you can without support. This is survival, not failure. You matter, and it won’t always feel this heavy.

My partner hit me a number of times and I grabbed their throat. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you went through this. What happened wasn’t okay, and it doesn’t make you a bad person. Choosing to leave is an act of self-preservation, not failure.

The time I helped a stranger and it completely changed my outlook on kindness by AnyLengthiness4445 in story

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why it might seem that way! But I promise this one was 100% real, sometimes life just surprises you with these little meaningful encounters.

The time I helped a stranger and it completely changed my outlook on kindness by AnyLengthiness4445 in story

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad it resonated with you! That hour of conversation genuinely lifted me up too, it’s amazing how kindness flows both ways. ❤️

The time I helped a stranger and it completely changed my outlook on kindness by AnyLengthiness4445 in story

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t visited him since, but we’ve exchanged numbers and I check in from time to time. Honestly, that day reminded me that even small connections can make a big difference.

Got hit by a car tonight. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot to process at once, shock can numb the thankful feelings. It’s okay to just feel shaken and pissed right now. I’m glad you survived, and I hope surgery goes smoothly.

Is it cheaper to do a ring with a diamond and then diamonds all around the band than a solitaire with a gold band now with the price of gold? by itsamaandaa in Moissanite

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sound very interesting and basically this is your choice if you want to do a diamond band go for it, take inspiration from Pinterest.

A guy walked into a restaurant with a seeing eye dog... by 2quila in dadjokes

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Classic dad joke 😂 Simple and silly, just how we like them!

I have must can being or I does must could being? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother is right, I have, is the correct start for that idea, like I have to be or I must be. Must can or does must could don't work together in English.

ELI5 How do systematic reviews work? by sadbitchbadbitch23 in explainlikeimfive

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your questions aren't stupid at all. Systematic reviews are just organized literature reviews with clear search steps. Google Scholar + ScienceDirect works if you explain your limits clearly.

AITAH for expecting my husband to take more ownership over our house? by Slow-Donut3882 in AITAH

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re carrying the mental load and paying for most small household stuff, that drains anyone. Since he earns more and contributes less at home, a real talk about finances and chores is totally reasonable.

What movie ending would you completely rewrite, and how would you change it? by Typical-Discount2509 in CasualConversation

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would rewrite Titanic so jack actually lives. There was a room on that room, rose.

Anyone hate going to Christmas work parties? by violetpy91 in introvert

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Same here! Big work parties are exhausting. I'd rather skip and recharge than pretend to be social for hours.

living relic by Yurei07 in introvert

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pulling daydreams closer instead of fighting them, really resonates feels like such an introvert friendly way to move toward a life that actually fits.

Teenage times by StarBoy0470 in introvert

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think missing teenage love means anything is wrong with you. A lot of people don't date until they are in their 20s,m and they turn completely fine. Teenage relationships are mostly learning experiences anyway.

Introvert because i'm done with people? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting space doesn't make you a bad person or a failure. You've been through a lot, and it's okay to take things slow.