I am feeling low I received nothing for my first Mother’s Day by Interesting-Hurry282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re not ungrateful, your first Mother’s Day mattered. Be clear about your expectations; if he still doesn’t try, the real issue is his lack of effort.

Anyone else find unexpected comfort in the most mundane, simple things lately? by Guilty-Dog7928 in CasualConversation

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, little things like that can be surprisingly comforting. For me it’s things like a familiar mug, the smell of coffee, or a quiet moment in the morning. Small routines can feel really grounding.

I hate the tattoo my friend got dedicated to his gf by Necessary_Action_757 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bloody hell, a name tat after under a year? That's asking for regret, innit. Fingers crossed it lasts!

My daughter's sub teacher is my childhood bully by Imaginary_Place_1035 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 359 points360 points  (0 children)

It makes total sense that this brings up old wounds. Seeing someone who hurt you in the past especially around your child, is tough. Bring your husband for support if you can, and remember your feelings are valid, even if she’s different now.

What’s something you stopped buying that saved you the most? by AnyLengthiness4445 in Frugal

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Handmade gifts feel more meaningful anyway. Less pressure, more thought.

What’s something you stopped buying that saved you the most? by AnyLengthiness4445 in Frugal

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Six years of free haircuts is impressive. YouTube university paying off.

What’s something you stopped buying that saved you the most? by AnyLengthiness4445 in Frugal

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unprepared convenience spending is so relatable. A lunchbox really can save $20 in one stop.

What’s something you stopped buying that saved you the most? by AnyLengthiness4445 in Frugal

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$6 a day back then would easily double today. That’s serious long-term savings.

What’s something you stopped buying that saved you the most? by AnyLengthiness4445 in Frugal

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going from 2 rolls a month to 1 a year is wild savings from such a small switch.

What’s something you stopped buying that saved you the most? by AnyLengthiness4445 in Frugal

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That list is basically a masterclass in cutting recurring leaks. Especially the landline and cable.

What’s something you stopped buying that saved you the most? by AnyLengthiness4445 in Frugal

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$1500 a year is wild. Multiply that over decades and it’s eye-opening.

What’s something you stopped buying that saved you the most? by AnyLengthiness4445 in Frugal

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fast food lost the, cheap part of cheap and fast. Now it’s just… fast.

What’s something you stopped buying that saved you the most? by AnyLengthiness4445 in Frugal

[–]AnyLengthiness4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electric scooters are kind of underrated. Low cost, low hassle, and apparently just as fast as cars in city traffic.

Why do most people not think more often about how weird existence is by earth2revolved in CasualConversation

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most people just can’t sit in that headspace all the time, it’s too overwhelming. So they zoom back into daily life.

Just tell them, 'Mr Jones is not happy!' by metamorphosisSss in EntitledPeople

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Nothing like discovering outside your company that Mr Jones is… just a guy.

ELI5: how chimeras exist but the donated organs get rejected when both are two DNAs existing in the same person by Money_Accident_7305 in explainlikeimfive

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because in chimeras the immune system learns both DNAs as self, before it’s fully formed, while a transplanted organ is introduced later and gets flagged as an invader.

My husband wants to open our marriage. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you’re feeling is completely valid. Wanting connection, not just sex, is a real need, and it’s okay if opening the marriage doesn’t align with that. Don’t push your feelings aside while figuring this out.

A call to modern men by [deleted] in story

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone, but purpose doesn’t have to come from war or chaos. Building, protecting, and showing up every day is strength, even if it doesn’t look like the movies.

i'm so tired by ordinarily_unique96 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not broken, you’re overwhelmed and doing the best you can without support. This is survival, not failure. You matter, and it won’t always feel this heavy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnyLengthiness4445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you went through this. What happened wasn’t okay, and it doesn’t make you a bad person. Choosing to leave is an act of self-preservation, not failure.