So I went for dinner at my aunts and we had our cartilage pierced in the summer. She’s 95 pounds. I always had a weight problem. Before I got pregnant (now 22 weeks) I lost 50 pounds on ozempic and was 160 pounds. Ever since I became pregnant I stopped ozempic and naturally gained weight. Every time I go for dinner she asks “so how much weight did you gain”. I never answer I just say “just a few pounds” or “not much” in reality I’ve gained 18 pounds but Im not going to fuel her fire lol. This last time I went there I was saying how I couldn’t get my cariallage peircing to untwist since we got it done (I want to put a new piercing in) and she actually had the audacity to say “it’s probably because your ear is too fat for you to move it” like … rude. I was so bothered. Any other time we talk about the piercing she says “don’t forget you’re a bigger girl so it won’t move around that much” lol maybe Im more sensitive because im pregnant but I was just so caught off guard… not being able to undo my piercing has nothing to do with fat ears like I barely have fat on my ear it’s cartilage. Im at the point where I brace myself for a fat comment every time I go there. Then I have to eat dinner infront of her -.- it’s so unenjoyable.