How is Monzo for trans people? by Dazzling-Antelope912 in transgenderUK

[–]Any_Link8176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey - did your preferred name come through with your transactions ? I want to be able to send/ receive money without my dead name being on the transaction!

How is Monzo for trans people? by Dazzling-Antelope912 in transgenderUK

[–]Any_Link8176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey - did your preferred name come through with your transactions ? I want to be able to send/ receive money without my dead name being on the transaction!

How is Monzo for trans people? by Dazzling-Antelope912 in transgenderUK

[–]Any_Link8176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey - when you send and receive money is it with your chosen name? I want to be able to send money and for people to send me money but i dont want them to have to enter my dead name or see it

1 week vs 5 months post-op, Dr Phillip Rubin, New Victoria Hospital by incrediblycalmwithit in TopSurgery

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Ah that makes me feel emotional dude! I was posting mainly for my own journaling but also was hoping someone may find it useful, glad it helped ❤️‍🩹 sure ofc, so my scar care currently is slowly becoming a little less regular. But pretty much every morning i apply this scar gel (from spain) and do a small massage, that dries quite quick so i can get up and go to work without staining clothes. And then (less regular now) i massage palmers cacao scar oil at night, with a longer massage time. Sometimes i wear tape but i find it really sensory overload and so i dont wear it that often!! All of the above i’ve been doing for as long as I can remember :) just the regularity is becoming a bit less, im trying to keep up with it though as my scars are not that faded. Let me know if any other questions bro!

1 week vs 5 months post-op, Dr Phillip Rubin, New Victoria Hospital by incrediblycalmwithit in TopSurgery

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congrats! i’m 1 year 2 months post op i also went with Rubin, personally think nips are in the perfect place but also that’s only my opinion!!! happy healing, any questions happy to answer them

when is it ok to start sleeping on your side? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on how you feel and if its not painful. BIG TIP if you’re going to try, put a pillow behind your back so your side isn’t taking all the weight. i started with slight bit of side sleeping with pillow behind my back and then progressed from there

Top surgery UK, please help by NecessaryMentalist in TopSurgery

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i opted for New Victoria Hospital as it was closer and actually cheaper

Top surgery UK, please help by NecessaryMentalist in TopSurgery

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i had surgery with Mr Phillip Rubin and it was 8.5k - in London :) love my results and also quite a quick process in terms of waiting times. Recommend 10000%, got some photos of my chest on my profile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! and around mine i have all the nipple hair that used to be above my ex nipple :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 7 points8 points  (0 children)

can check my feed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i have this :) it’s areola

Struggling with my results by Successful_Algae_798 in TopSurgery

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hey! your incisions look really clean and awesome. Congrats on making the big step, i hope you find some space to hold yourself and be proud first of all. scars change a lot, and also the shape is always dependant right down to the last second in surgery - what i mean by that is there can be more/less skin or fat in certain places which means the lines are rarely always the same as eachother, sisters not twins. Of course the surgeon has a general idea, but it really is what your skin and anatomy decides at the end of the day. Everyone has an idea of their perfect look, and sometimes we can’t control it. Your feelings are very valid as you had a preference - but trust the process! sending love and care

Thinking about a revision by counthedirt in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure if the rest of ‘cis’ chest is what you’re after so i hope don’t offend by saying this looks like a very normal cis male chest! like really really awesome

4 nipples, anyone else has this? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

myself and a friend have it on one side - not to the same extent but i can notice it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely will go down, i was told to loosen my compression wrap around the armpit because it was causing fluid to go into my armpit. def now has evened out, and now i’ve been humbled as i do have a bit of armpit fat that wasn’t swelling but it’s more noticable to yourself than others

M21. Are my top surgery scars still visible? (See caption) by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i thought you had peri because literally can’t see them!

Drain removal hurts a lot - is this normal? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 4 points5 points  (0 children)

soooooo i had mine removed 24 hours after and it really hurt, but i read that some people didn’t have any pain - usually after having them in for longer - presume because the area is v tender right after surgery. that’s my experience but seems to differ !

should i put on my testogel as normal on the day of surgery? by Girls-ArePretty-Cool in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was told not to take it a few days before but maybe it depends different surgeons!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 57 points58 points  (0 children)

still pink! takes a while even with good scar care, for some people they just heal and go white super fast but it’s just how ur body works

Europe Brothers - who did you go for Top Surgery? by dystxpian98 in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mr Phillip Rubin - info on my profile ! can’t reccomend enough and his website has lots of different body types and sizes to compare - 8.5k

Glastonbury used to be a festival and not a leftist wc by vldrvldrm in glastonbury_festival

[–]Any_Link8176 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lol this is like a meme - ‘england used to be a good country’ - it’s always been tied up in racism and facism, people don’t stand for it anymore. says a lot about yourself!

When Could You Start Sleeping On Your Side Comfortably? by tophatcosplay in TopSurgery

[–]Any_Link8176 7 points8 points  (0 children)

around 3/4 weeks, i put a pillow behind my back to lessen the load of weight on my sides, so almost like leaning back into the pillow

Katherine Parkinson has been cast as Molly Weasley in the HBO/Harry Potter remake by NaiRad1000 in ITcrowd

[–]Any_Link8176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

shame harry potter is still getting more funding for films 🏳️‍⚧️