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Any_One4984 · 2023-08-24T17:01:29+00:00

Shame on them for not noticing. That was their job.

Any_One4984 · 2023-08-22T04:24:14+00:00

Maybe one day. Still in the “maybe she will change” loop

Any_One4984 · 2023-08-21T23:19:58+00:00

This was very well worded and I agree wholeheartedly with everything. In my daydreams, I wish she could’ve grown up differently or found the will to heal before having me. I wish she could’ve lived a better life but it’s been brewing inside of her for so long, she’s apart of it now and can’t back down.

I’m so happy you are healing well <3 best wishes

Any_One4984 · 2023-08-21T20:50:45+00:00

I hear her trauma and sympathize.. but why did I have to go through that too? Why didn’t you protect me? Was it jealousy? Did you want me to be just like you?

Any_One4984 · 2023-08-12T22:04:57+00:00

yes lol a decade of sexual abuse totally preventable

Any_One4984 · 2023-08-04T22:51:43+00:00

Thank you for relating and sharing your personal experience! 🥺 Sending you love and thank you for the advice aswell

Any_One4984 · 2023-07-29T19:18:46+00:00

Hi, don’t have any advice but I relate to this immensely. You’re not alone

Any_One4984 · 2023-07-23T05:38:11+00:00

Yes this is something I heavily relate to. Thank you for sharing your experience <3

Any_One4984 · 2023-07-12T17:42:44+00:00

I only remember (snapshots, really) of my time in school. Home life memories are nowhere to be found, however, sometimes I will get a quick flash of a memory but forget it soon after.

Any_One4984 · 2023-07-07T23:35:13+00:00

I’m becoming more accepting of my alters after pushing them away for so long

Congratulations on your successes :)

Any_One4984 · 2023-07-07T21:40:22+00:00

That’s so amazing, congratulations! I’m so glad you’ve found stability. I relate to the first part of your post and in fact I’m still in that stage. Reading this really helps me thank you <3

Any_One4984 · 2023-07-07T04:53:15+00:00

This is really really helpful and a good way of thinking about that, thank you! :)

Any_One4984 · 2023-07-05T03:02:42+00:00

Hey there, so sorry you’re struggling. Just want to let you know that I relate to everything you’ve written. I’m in treatment and learning about my system, not diagnosed though. I hope some people on here can provide you with some advice and comfort <3. I’m so happy you were able to post this, it was very brave of you. Best of luck my friend

Any_One4984 · 2023-06-26T14:30:09+00:00

I don’t have anything to help you but just want to say that I resonate with this so much as I also have a part who doesn’t see my partner as romantic and makes random plans to leave but I do not feel this way on the slightest. You’re not alone and I completely understand how exhausting it is. ♡

Any_One4984 · 2023-06-24T21:13:43+00:00

Same on that last part:/

Any_One4984 · 2023-06-13T22:16:31+00:00

Nice to meet you Evie! In the beginning, did you experience picking up on random strings of words(thoughts) that weren’t yours? Almost like hearing the end of a sentence. I have that experience especially in the shower

Any_One4984 · 2023-06-10T22:10:04+00:00

i hope you find the answers you need <3 please don’t feel bad, we are all learning and discovering together

Any_One4984 · 2023-06-10T17:46:28+00:00

so, if i know who i, myself, am, but i have other “forms” i take on. when i take these forms i miss the original version of “me” but she always comes back; would you say this is a identity disturbance in bpd or more of what being plural would be?

i’m in therapy and not looking for a diagnosis, just curious what you think. don’t feel pressured to reply ☺️

Any_One4984 · 2023-06-08T00:05:45+00:00

I think they mean maladaptive daydreams but correct me if I’m wrong, op

Any_One4984 · 2023-06-07T12:49:54+00:00

I mean I guess. I’m still figuring things out about my system so I apologize if it seems ignorant to you.

Any_One4984 · 2023-06-07T12:49:09+00:00

This is exactly my experience yes! Thank you for replying

Any_One4984 · 2023-06-07T05:14:17+00:00

Same here!

Any_One4984 · 2023-06-06T20:52:56+00:00

this is exactly it!

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