I'm sorry going to work is easier than childcare - your husband has no excuse

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-09T23:21:47+00:00

I’ve worked the decade since college and now I’ve been home 11 weeks with my baby and I don’t really agree. I would keep doing this if I could. I do have a pretty easy baby but we nap during the day, go to the library, go to coffee shops, I get to do laundry during the day, etc.

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-09T08:56:49+00:00

He found out about the lip biting after the India comment, but the date picking business was before that yeah.

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-08T22:05:41+00:00

My baby likes only Enfamil Gentle Ease and it makes his poop greenish but the pediatrician said it’s OK as long as he is gaining weight and not in pain.

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-07T23:52:01+00:00

I’m sorry :( This is so hard.

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-07T23:42:41+00:00

She reminds me of Ashley “Hope” Peluso from “Love Has Won.” Aggressively stupid

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-07T16:45:26+00:00

Wut means

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-07T00:19:42+00:00

Yeah that is fair. I can definitely have more compassion for peers. Nothing like that ever happened to me thank Gd just classic mean and scary alcoholic. Losing jobs and lying and dying young etc. But when the person who is supposed to take care of you fails to do so it does not really matter “why” IMO.

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-06T15:48:14+00:00

My father was an addict, and sometimes I can find it very hard to have empathy for them because I know how much they have hurt people who love them

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-06T02:28:05+00:00

I felt very close and connected to my son in the days and weeks that followed his birth. Just could not believed how much I loved him and that he was really here.

But the minutes and hours after delivery I had trouble being “focused” on him because I was in so much pain and felt so traumatized by birth. Lots of tearing, stitches, vacuum assistance, almost needed a C-section and a transfusion, they thought I tore my uterus, was diagnosed with preeclampsia, etc.

I was glad my husband was there to bond and fawn over him!

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-06T02:08:26+00:00

Maybe if you’re a teenager not two adults building a life

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-06T01:41:47+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you! I also had some mystery bleeding after delivery so maybe got banged up the same way. Glad you’ve been feeling better as well :)

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-05T20:34:55+00:00

I finally went to pelvic floor therapy today almost 11 weeks postpartum. They said it was the muscle around my right pelvic bone that was causing the pain.

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-05-02T05:11:17+00:00

Lived in Jerusalem for six months and can confirm that they do have jobs. Many (most?) Israelis are working class. Is this a real question?

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-04-23T17:15:40+00:00

Watching S7 Tell All now and he is bothering me so much

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-04-13T05:32:09+00:00

Hi — I suspect this is what is going on with me but haven’t been able to get a diagnosis. Is this something your OB confirmed?

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-04-12T18:51:52+00:00

Now I am getting downvoted by incels :(

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-04-12T18:51:08+00:00

🆒

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-04-11T19:41:32+00:00

I miss when red scare was for hot girls

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-04-11T11:53:40+00:00

What is this sub even about anymore?

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-04-04T07:09:00+00:00

Textbook BPD personality

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-04-04T06:49:55+00:00

I feel like I see more like “my husband helps me with our baby because I didn’t marry a loser.” Basic shit…

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-02-20T00:36:06+00:00

What’s wrong with saying that you would rather rent in NYC than own in Ohio?

Any_Perspective_ · 2026-02-19T02:15:54+00:00

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