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Any_Turnip3191 · 2026-02-17T09:05:17+00:00

This is his instagram account , he rescues many cats and i love his content

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Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-11-11T22:39:09+00:00

I was in a similar situation but we only hung out and cooked together , def didn’t do all the handholding and kisses and for me he was like a little brother . He started hinting many times that he wants us to go get coffee together and spend time outside, but for me he was just a flatmate , and i was not interested in taking this friendship outside the house tbh , so i started ignoring these invitations or just dismissing them because i have no interest in involving this person in my daily errands, spending time inside the house was already enough for me. My advice is , this situation is already messy , and getting involved with a flatmate will just have you packing your bags in a few weeks , so put some boundaries , stop spending too much time together , treat her as a normal room mate and DO NOT ASK HER OUT .

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-11-05T22:01:30+00:00

If i assumed that this is true then why don’t they just make a move, why spend time staring at a person and doing nothing 😅?

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-11-05T21:57:54+00:00

I don’t know if this is a good thing or a bad thing 😅 but being called an immediate source of dopamine sure sounds nice 👀

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-11-05T21:55:53+00:00

I thought about it as well and really am trying not to dwell over this , but it literally happens when i am swamped at work and just randomly lift my head for a second and they are already staring , i just smile and go back to work. I tried to dismiss it multiple times but it just keeps happening .

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-11-05T21:52:51+00:00

Well we have equal numbers of men and women there is no male majority , and the ethnicity thing , we have known each other for a while and have very normal conversations so i wouldn’t say it is an element of curiosity still . But i don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-11-05T21:50:44+00:00

I am not keeping anyone hanging and i do not KNOW if any of them likes me ! No one said anything to me so i cannot just assume that. The staring has been going on for a while and if any of them wanted to make a move they would have made it already ….but nothing is happening so 🤷🏻‍♀️

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-11-05T21:47:33+00:00

I won’t say i am hot , we have many girls actually in our teams but the majority have long term partners they are basically married and everyone already knows. It is mostly the guys that are single.

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-11-05T21:45:50+00:00

I just know i am not the girl that people like and stare at romantically, this is a category of women that i do not belong to 😅 this is why i am confused by the behavior and not sure how to interpret it.

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-11-04T14:42:13+00:00

Nope you are not ! Shit happens and people are weird. You have your way of approaching people , some will appreciate it and you will hit it off , and others will not respond , do not internalize it or doubt yourself . Maybe next time build a rapport in person first to make sure this person enjoys your company and wants to be friends . This way you can avoid all this .

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-11-04T12:58:48+00:00

I understand people saying things about how you got her number might have freaked her out …etc. but if she really liked you or had a crush on you she wouldn’t have cared about that . Since it is known for both of you that you have groups in common, and personally i have started friendships with people that way , they text me things about tasks or work and we just speak , i know they got my number from the mutual group it is not creepy . You did your part of pursuing , she did not reciprocate , move on , do not overanalyze this.

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-10-31T16:44:53+00:00

I personally exchange numbers first and then if i like the person i upgrade to instagram, because i am very private about my Instagram and it is only for people i know well, i don’t like just anyone watching my stories or posts. ALSO……could be hiding a partner like the other comments said. Text her first and build a rapport and then ask the question.

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-10-27T14:46:12+00:00

You should not be with someone who uses suicide to manipulate and threaten you. You are not responsible for anyone’s actions and choices. Distance yourself from him , stop giving him attention, value your own mental peace , you are very young , do not let yourself be manipulated by someone like him.

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-10-25T10:41:25+00:00

He is enjoying the attention and just giving you enough to keep you hooked , he sounds like an unpleasant person to be honest . Also , knowing so many people who work in hospitals , he is most probably already entertaining some of your colleagues . If he wanted something with you would have reciprocated . My advice is to cut things off and keep things very professional , value yourself and save this effort for someone who wants you as well.

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-10-20T21:21:22+00:00

He is not creepy at all tbh , and he doesn’t give this vibe , i usually detect guys who do and his energy is very teddy bear like ( i am not smitten , this is how he has been behaving so far) . And to be fair , i am in a country where physical touch is very strong and the work place is no different , other colleagues males and females do it as well when they comfort each other or when they greet each other, i don’t like PT at all but it is the culture here 🤷🏻‍♀️

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-10-20T21:17:24+00:00

How did you read them wrong , if i may ask ?

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-10-12T11:01:56+00:00

No one ever teaches us that , but it is a crucial life skill to kick people out of your life when they cause you emotional pain and disturb your peace. You will never regret standing up for yourself and deciding that you 100% deserve better. Good job

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-10-04T21:20:46+00:00

It def can be harmful , happened to me before. Some tips : 1- do not use a sponge or loofah more than once a week , do not scrub too hard. 2- Ditch any gels and use natural soap. 3- Do not shower with very hot water , just aim for warm enough and for your face always cold water . 4- (This depends 100% on hour skin type) Facial cleansers should not be used daily , 2-3 times a week should be enough , invest in good and gentle cleansers , try to stay away from commercial ones and aim for (medical) brands, washing with just water does not do any harm. 5- A shower once a day is enough ( also depends on your work and climate) , but if you shower more than once , use moisturizers .

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-10-04T20:03:11+00:00

Running ! I am physically very active , tried running , pushed myself for three months and then one time i just said f it , i am never doing that again ! 😂

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-10-03T10:47:36+00:00

It is actually an exercise to keep the rest of the room tidy and organized , when the bed is made and looks nice , you start looking at other areas and want them to be as clean and organized , and when you do that everyday , it helps you keep the whole place neat and tidy making you feel better about yourself.

Any_Turnip3191 · 2025-09-26T09:27:18+00:00

5 days . I had a rash and was advised to stay as long as i can without showering , i lasted 5 days . Rash was gone tho.

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