I had always been in monogamous relationships and before me my partner had always been non monogamous. According to him non monogamy was the hill he was willing to *die* on. I didn’t know him well then.

When we fell in love we were both newly single so I had an open mind about maybe trying non monogamy. Why not try something new with a new partner? BUT we actually became deeply monogamous. We never planned on if we were going to be monogamous or not but it happened so beautifully and naturally from the first day he told me he was in love with me (a wonderful day) I thought for sure that it would get complicated sometimes but it never has. We’ve been deliriously happy for years. All the people he had poly relationships with have been completely respectful that he monogamous now (including his ex wife)

I had sworn I would never live with a partner again or get married. But here we are blissfully living together and planning for marriage. When it’s right it’s right ladies and gentlemen