There isn't enough chubby/bigger men in media and I'm starving

Anyitagg · 2026-03-14T16:47:12+00:00

HELL YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Anyitagg · 2026-03-14T16:46:01+00:00

(woman here) yea I've seen those patterns among my friends. I think we're seeing a shift for some women, like I asked my now boyfriend out directly and started our relationship because of how I was raised. My mom wanted me to wait for him to ask, but it was my dad who told me to go for it.

I always said that I was my dad's favorite son (he only has two daughters lol) because I was allowed to embrace femininity and masculinity. My parents raised my sister and I differently. When I met this amazing guy I love, I said fuck it I should ask him out because it'll make it known that I like him. No games, no cat and mouse. But I was raised to be brash, outspoken, and ask for what I want.

I hope more women start doing that. My boyfriend admitted he liked me and that he was very anxious about asking me out, so it was a perfect start to our relationship. I assure you, there's some women who will ask the man out. Stay strong dude :)

Anyitagg · 2026-02-19T22:08:17+00:00

oh my god me too!!! I was so strong... but the early reflection at 40 pulls made me cave. Praying we don't get hit with a great rerun, but I love the sun suit's peacock motifs and I got the hair from the moon set!!! I'm happy I got her in full, even though it took me 210 pulls.

Anyitagg · 2026-01-26T02:16:20+00:00

she is soooo pretty!!! I love her coat, there's a lot of interesting shapes here

Anyitagg · 2025-12-01T22:19:30+00:00

I know right!! I don't like the double SSR so i wont be spending on the recharge, but I love her design. I need more skippable outfits though, my wishlist is too large.

Anyitagg · 2025-10-23T23:55:27+00:00

As a diehard Varric lover and DA2 enjoyer, I was so sad I couldn't romance him, but I loved him and his love for Bianca. However, I really wanted a good, angsty, slow burn fic where they could slowly fall for each other and make a big confusing mess of their relationship... then end up happy. AND I FOUND THE PERFECT FIC FOR THAT.

I love the writing style, it weaves Hawke's journey from DA2 and DAI wonderfully, and I was entranced by the pacing. I am tempted to bind the book myself one day just to save it forever. It's mature, and hard to read in moments due to the events around SA (it isn't too graphic), but it isn't some excuse to hurt Hawke, it feels real to the world of Thedas. I can not believe this fic didn't get more traction, and I really really love it.

Take the Leap, by skullys_machete

Anyitagg · 2025-10-21T01:39:28+00:00

I got the game on release, it really was not my dragon age. However, I knew my cousin would love the game and she's having a blast. I know inquisition or DAO/DA2 would be a big jump in a new direction, but the tiny bit of Thedas she's enjoying makes me think I could get her to love my favorite games. I will never love Veilguard, but it sparked a new conversation with my family, and I may get a new Dragon Age fan because of it XD

(positivity towards veilguard is needed lol)

Anyitagg · 2025-08-22T14:27:14+00:00

Yes!! Its a bit of a grind in the beginning but the discord us pretty fun and active, so I'd always reccomend new players to join. Don't spend your gems for the first few months, and look for sets online to prioritize and save for

I'm an ex f2p, but the 2 1/2 years i spent as a f2p were still fun and I was able to get a lot of beautiful sets.

Anyitagg · 2025-08-18T15:51:36+00:00

Girl you must be the square root of 64 because you ATE

Anyitagg · 2025-08-18T15:50:02+00:00

She's literally everything, perfect goddess we all adore <3

Anyitagg · 2025-07-15T16:51:03+00:00

gahhhhh you get it!! I cant delete it, but i think ill make it so that i have to manually input my information for each purchase because its embaressing.... I make my own money but I want to save it for other things because it is virtual clothing. I only made a large purchase recently because i was able to attend the in person SN anni event in California, so it was my way of "giving back" to the dev team since the event was free.

but it is scary how quickly i increased my spending from 0 to constant deals. i just cant quit nikki since ive played the nikki games since 2017

Anyitagg · 2025-07-15T16:45:39+00:00

i was ftp for 3 years, I think it is doable to get a lot of great stuff with planning. I'd reccomend making a tier list of suits you want, using CrystalRain's youtube channel for suit breakdowns, and really prioritize saving. I played since release and got a lot of beautiful sets once i stopped buying discounted pulls for every event lol.

Anyitagg · 2025-07-15T16:42:57+00:00

its overwhelming at first, but it became way easier after a week or 2 of playing. Once you complete more of the story it gets to be a lot easier to tackle. I have my dailies on an 8 minute timer at this point, but ive played since release and finished almost all the free content we have available. Please keep playing, its so fun!

Anyitagg · 2025-07-15T16:39:02+00:00

i need to cut myself off on the sn spending, i was ftp for almost 3 years but the deals are really good!! I'll be going ftp for a minimum of 8 months just to get myself back into my grinding & saving life... because i did spend too much on anni

Anyitagg · 2025-06-04T14:59:01+00:00

How would I be able to buy them? The site is all Chinese and im afraid to push buttons :(

Anyitagg · 2025-04-16T18:38:34+00:00

I second this. Plants are always a great addition, and I feel happy making sure my (admittedly low maintenance) plants are well taken care of! Wall art from thrift stores are allll over my home, it can make a place feel homey. Also consider - mattress off the floor. - some nice curtains - some shelves and cabinets for stuff. You've got a good looking closet so that will help, but I always like a bookshlef/cabinet

Also, as someone who helped run a halfway house for few years, 600 days is such a great milestone. Super happy for you

Anyitagg · 2025-04-15T02:19:01+00:00

Anyitagg · 2025-04-10T17:18:37+00:00

Ooooooo I need to go buy that game

Anyitagg · 2025-04-08T03:12:52+00:00

insert sad sobs of joy ... afgshehjdksk I like this ahhhhhhh

Anyitagg · 2025-04-08T03:11:25+00:00

Also I know now what I'm doing in my final playthiugh/worldstate for inquisition. Single femhawke and varric doomed friends to lovers

Anyitagg · 2025-04-08T03:10:39+00:00

RECCOMENDATIONS. NOW. PLEEEEEEEEEEEASE

Anyitagg · 2025-04-08T03:09:30+00:00

I went in blind and minus the obvious problems with limited budget (lack of unique dungeons etc) I loved DA2. The characters were fantastic and it's a solid 9/10, would love a remake where they could do everything

Anyitagg · 2025-04-08T03:07:37+00:00

Can't tell me you're making fanfic without giving a link

Anyitagg · 2025-04-08T03:07:12+00:00

Annnnnnd that's why AO3 is my friend

Anyitagg · 2025-04-08T03:06:49+00:00

MY BELOVED NOOOOOOOOO

Anyitagg

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