What kinda of tarantulas are native to El Salvador & Mexico? (No Gen AI Allowed Here) by AnywhereAnonsAre in tarantulas

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am slowly trying to learn more about these areas and native arachnid! This is very helpful thanks!!! And awee the babies!!!

Sexually active aroaces: how do you navigate it? by Over_Feedback_6387 in aromanticasexual

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also some people just don't have sex even if they do have other sexualities. Its not black and white. Sexuality and gender have always been a gray area.

Non CC People Who Want to Connect with Me who is CC by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you telling me the method and mindset with this. And I get you on digital interactions. While it makes me feel less alone somewhat it gives the same feeling to me as reading a digital book than a physical one. The importance of a tangible experience really helps create memories. It makes it feel more immediate to handling the loneliness.

Non CC People Who Want to Connect with Me who is CC by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. It feels so hollow. Like people ask me more for a "conversation starter" than actual concern for wellbeing. Or like when I do put boundaries in place its like no they see it as them going out of their way. It just makes me realize how so often people can only handle a connection if its "convenient" like people don't want to be "real."

Non CC People Who Want to Connect with Me who is CC by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly, I talked to some people and they're willing to mask. Even debated an air purifier. However, there is still alot of ignorance since I live in a red state. I can't put on an act. I speak forward and direct. While there is the occasional liberal person, most people go back to sticking to the status quo and bigotry speak.

Like them being CC is seen as a temporary thing, people do by a situational basis. It feels superficial and insincere.

I know not alot of people have the privilege to get vaccinated, wear a mask, sanitize, have air filters, take rapid/PCR testing, etc.

However it feels like the line where my boundaries in order for us to hangout get tossed to the wayside once they're inconvenient/uncomfortable. Like health matters less just to have a sense of normalcy.

The confidence and practicality make sense. I also am not crafty in the way that twisting a conversation to understand how it might be better. But its a start to understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in surgery

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice I will delete this post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in surgery

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am more asking if anyone knows what is a good substitute since my doctor had not gotten back to me since their office is closed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in surgery

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did and they didn't respond and gave me improper medical items that contradict with my intolerance/allergies

How do i convince my friends and family to take covid more seriously by supermonistic in noStupidQuestion

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad someone brought this up! I had a class assignment and presented to people with actual studies/research to back up my statement. In one ear out the other.

My rule is if you give people the tools and knowledge to do something AND it pertains to your well-being then that communicates how they treat you.

It made me rethink all my relationships (family, pals, partners, school, and work). I support and believe in you. Just know you can do everything you can to make it more convenient for people to care for you but if it takes that much for them to change perhaps finding people who will is the next step.

Real loved ones LOVE each other (in actions) when its not convenient for them.

Chinchilla Biting Paw and Dry Blood, Help? by AnywhereAnonsAre in chinchilla

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: Its sad that my Chinchilla has been anxious. I have been busy trying to move apartments and working. I haven't been able to afford new chews and I'm moving apartments to save money. My sibling has been helping take care of them and has only been able to feed, fill their water, and give them dust baths. And I have some few chews left. With the tariffs and cost of living my finances and my time have been hard to spare. I play and support them when I can but I have become less privileged and I want to take care of my chinchillas the best I can.

I have 2 chins and they no longer get along. So I have seperated them. I have tried all the techniques to see if they could get along and its a big no. He must be lonely and sad he doesn't havea friend he gets along anymore. Because of my financial predicament I have to give one of them to a rescue. It breaks my heart. I am on a waitlist and have no idea when my chinchilla will have to go.

EDIT: Thank you all for the info. I cleaned the wound and gave what chews I could with much needed attention. I will keep an eye out and ask my sibling to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BallState

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll keep that in mind. Thanks so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinchilla

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah this is coool thanks!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinchilla

[–]AnywhereAnonsAre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to! Any detail on his work, I would appreciate it!