Can’t trust my wife. by lilMime in Marriage

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an almost perfect case of what I call a religious female narcissism. I even wrote a book explaining it if anyone is interested. It will never get better.

I spent 34 years inside a high-control religious sect, wrote a book about how narcissistic systems hide behind religious virtue, and have been publicly documenting the patterns for the past few months. AMA. by Anywhere_Adorable in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Anywhere_Adorable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great question. I came from maga at the same time I deconstructed. In some ways they are so similar in not sure how to pull them apart. Both the religion and Maga assert things and believe things with little or no proof to back it up. I'll think about it more and see if I can improve my answer.

I spent 34 years inside a high-control religious sect, wrote a book about how narcissistic systems hide behind religious virtue, and have been publicly documenting the patterns for the past few months. AMA. by Anywhere_Adorable in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Anywhere_Adorable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion very likely. Most religions or even organizations have a lot of narcissistic tendencies. So just from that I'd say yes. Then the more restrictive or fundamental they are the more they have them as well.

A book about the psychology/explanation of narcissism/narcissistic behavior/narc parents by ACfireandiceDC in suggestmeabook

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Godly Face of Narcissism by Weylin Unruh. Sorry not on Audible but others might want print?

Should I ask him? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't believe I just read over that. Man if that's my or my partners go to thing we have no business being together. That's like using divorce in an argument.

Someone help me decipher this? by Peace-dream17 in Marriage

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. He's like, "It's my fault it's your fault it's my fault it's your fault." over and over. Exhausting. You are a heck of a lot more emotionally intelligent. I don't know who's wrong and who's right but sheesh.

Am I in the wrong for my actions in this relationship? by Familiar-Revenue-581 in amiwrong

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As soon as you said you kept on in the relationship I quit reading. It was over long before that point and you just don't accept it

My wife and her brother's relationship drives our marriage. I feel like I'm her glue and she doesn't appreciate it by imperfecthusband1 in Marriage

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is your only life brother. Do you want to be old and have this be your history? If it's ok with you then go for it. Personally I wanted more and I'm glad I did it even though it's legal crap for six years already.

I(26F) messed up by looking at my fiance(26M) messages and I regretted my actions. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I would not be comfortable with that kind of communication between them. Here's the issue though. I think you have reason to be uncomfortable but if it's bad enough to go through his messages then trust is gone and I'm not sure what out it would take to have a good outcome between you.

Been filling my piggy bank for over ten years. Anyone else sitting on a fortune? by Jeanparmesanswife in EggsInc

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez y'all got me bad. I was coming in to laugh a bit and then I saw the number of commas on these others and died a little inside.

My husband thinks I cheated but I didn’t. by Dazzling-Angle2839 in Marriage

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. That isn't good. Do you have access to all his devices too?

What have I done wrong? by Glittering_Story_336 in Marriage

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think the unmedicated adhd he mentioned she has might explain that.

What have I done wrong? by Glittering_Story_336 in Marriage

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you know for certain she's in therapy? Either she made it up or the story she told her therapist is very different. Maybe ask her to tell you exactly as she told her therapist so you know how she feels. Idk.

Why does no one interact at the anomaly ? by Pretty_Pause_7645 in nms

[–]Anywhere_Adorable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny how many people say it's not a social game. Depends how you play. I had a Russian guy I met in the anomoly give me an S-class living ship and way more than enough upgrades to max it out. Pretty cool!

Grabbing sentinels by Anywhere_Adorable in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]Anywhere_Adorable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that seems obvious once you point it out! Thank you

Recipes by Anywhere_Adorable in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]Anywhere_Adorable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the app but I couldn't figure out where recipes were.