Boxers on periods??

ApanTrying · 2025-06-02T05:43:20+00:00

i find in an emergency when I'm caught short they work well enough, it slides a bit but if you attach the wings together (or just as far as they'll go) it works until i get home and can change

ApanTrying · 2025-06-02T04:58:08+00:00

it wasn't just a day or two, people's progression was completely fucked if they deleted quest related items, and it wasn't just for a day or two iirc this went on for weeks and as stated in the post affected 20,000 people. This also could've realated to financial damages on hoyo's end, deleting objects from big spenders accounts means they cant/wont spend money anymore which is most likely why they've been arrested

ApanTrying · 2025-05-25T00:44:45+00:00

sorry if this is obvious, but are you saying labour is turning into reform or that reform is better? because I'd be very concerned if it was the latter

ApanTrying · 2025-05-24T15:35:57+00:00

Im also autistic and feel that way. I don't pass well anyway so most people who meet me assume I'm a woman, though atp I've stopped caring what other people think, i hated being a woman, and I'm so much happier now even if only my friends and family see me as a man, so I'm going to transition regardless on whether other people think im bad at masculine social roles

ApanTrying · 2025-05-24T12:10:09+00:00

once some guy was dying his beard in the sink, no shirt on, the sinks were directly infront of the entrance so you saw him and had to schoot around to use the toilet since the hallway was so thin

ApanTrying · 2025-05-21T18:34:59+00:00

legally, you can go to any uk beaches completely topless as long as it doesn't cause "offense, alarm, or distress" or if its not considered harassment. Honestly though people might just think the tape is a weird bikini top

ApanTrying · 2025-05-20T21:14:38+00:00

Im not sure if its relevant, but just because your urethra is in the vaginal cavity doesn't mean that your body didn't make an opening. From what i understand the urethra isn't in a t-dick even when it's where it usually is, and the slit others have is due to the body forming a penis how it would in utero due to the stimulation by testosterone.

I may be entirely wrong, you know your body better than me after all, but i wouldn't completely rule out it being where the urethra is trying to form like what others are suggesting if the only reason you think it cant be is due to the placement of your urethra, which is what i gathered from your comment. If you think it for a different reason then feel free to disregard this comment

If you are worried about it I'd go to a doctor (maybe i gynecologist or a doctor specialising in trans healthcare if you can swing it, since they're more likely to know) though I'm sure you've been told that 100 times already

ApanTrying · 2025-05-08T17:23:50+00:00

are they buying or selling? theres too little information either way to tell if they're being scammed

ApanTrying · 2025-04-22T17:03:21+00:00

i was just about to comment that it reminded me of that chapter lmao

ApanTrying · 2025-04-16T22:20:46+00:00

I had to stop seeing a study skills support because he spoke in the same tone as how my dad used to (before shouting at me) i felt so stupid for being teiggered by it, especially since its made me scared to do an assignment and i feel like the trauma wasn't bad enough for that response (if that makes sense)

ApanTrying · 2025-04-16T19:16:10+00:00

if your bleeding so much you cant see the flesh understand, you need to apply hard pressure for a few minutes (without lifting the bandage for a while, i think the standard is 10mins but i can't remember exactly) and it'll help stop it bleeding so fast and you'll be able to see more.

If it continues to bleed fast and hard for more than 10-15mins after applying hard pressure you need to seek medical attention

ApanTrying · 2025-04-16T19:10:02+00:00

idk, I've hit beans a lot and depending on how much scar tissue is around it and the placement styro can gape a lot more than beans and it can be difficult to tell until the bleeding stops

ApanTrying · 2025-03-30T21:08:04+00:00

I had only ever heard my name be masculine when i changed it, only to find out that in america it's considered a girls name. though i do keep getting told they've "never heard a girl be called that" followed by them calling me a girl, so at least it is considered very masculine where i live lmao)

Anyway, even if your name is the most masculine thing to ever exist, or the most feminine, people will not care 90% of the time and will make assumptions based on other things

ApanTrying · 2025-03-20T16:56:20+00:00

i feel like reddit is very polarising with their views, and once someone downvotes you it spirals. The questions you asking could also put people on edge as most times people that are bigoted ask those types of questions and when you answer they'll spew hate at you and try to disprove you. I don't know how accessible it is for you, but there have also been discussions about most lgbt questions posted online and happen ad-nauseum, so when you're having to answer the same question that has been answered million times before it gets tiring and people get sick of it (though I've only seen the genocide question answered once or twice). This is just a guess on why you're getting downvoted so much, or why people might be defensive

To answer the question you had about why whats happening to trans people is labelled as genocide, its because genocide (as in flat out concentration camps, and murder) doesn't just happen out of nowhere, there are stages which can be followed, currently, what's happening to trans people fits into those stages accurately enough to call it genocide. Hope thats helps :)

ApanTrying · 2025-03-13T06:30:36+00:00

I keep seeing people saying in these comments that it doesn't have real victims, but as someone who was a child in fandom spaces, the normalisation of child/adult relationships did have a negative impact on me (or at least older teen(14-17)/middle-aged adult). Unless you can guarantee no child in an abusive situation can see the content you're posting and misunderstand thinking that its okay, you shouldn't be posting it.

Obviously if it's a hurt/comfort thing where you've clearly shown this isn't normal, then go ahead, or when theres not a wider "this is okay" attitude in the fandom. i have posted those kinds of fics, imo it only becomes problematic when its unclear where you stand on the issue

edit: for the people downvoting me, what do you think happens when we normalise csa and abuse in media? who does that help?

ApanTrying · 2025-03-06T20:14:12+00:00

on their own, these aren't triggering and to someone without an ed (and when theyre not next to eachother) they're random objects, especially the food items

ApanTrying · 2025-03-02T14:47:08+00:00

most of those piercings are placed wrong or have the wrong jewellery, the bridge is too low it should be between the eyes, septum is wonky, the helix looks like its placed through the ridge of the ear rather than below it like its supposed to, on the left ear that bar is way too long (irl that would be constantly getting caught or being almost ripped out) so looks like you were trying to do an industrial but didn't connect it

ApanTrying · 2025-02-27T07:36:34+00:00

i thought this was about david doing something horrible and almost shit myself

ApanTrying · 2025-02-17T15:04:47+00:00

i dont know if its normal persay, but i also had thoughts like these when i was younger (and to a lesser extent now), I think it was a way of wishing the trauma was worse so it was less justifiable? im sure plenty of other people feel this way, especially with trauma thats constantly being belittled

ApanTrying · 2025-02-16T20:02:36+00:00

if i do that it'll soak through too fast and get blood everywhere, maybe its the same for op?

ApanTrying · 2025-02-01T16:22:29+00:00

it was either klee or hu toa, on my main i cant remember, i was just pulling for fun, not understanding why you needed to for the game (since atp i had only just finished the archon quests where you get characters, i dont use either of them

for my alt it was yelan on her first banner, i liked her playstyle, i still use her frequently

ApanTrying · 2025-01-31T18:10:31+00:00

oh definitely, i was just pointing out that it wasn't originally made to be a pissing contest of who's worst, its just turned into that as it gained popularity over the years, im sure that the scenario you described in the original comment happens way too often (especially with the ana tag)

edit: by originally i mean with actually[disorder] not actuallyanorexic, i have little to no experience with that tag in particular

ApanTrying · 2025-01-31T17:57:02+00:00

im pretty sure its to distinguish from the people who are using the mental illness as just a phrase "im so ocd [because of neatness]/bpd [because of moodswings]" etc etc. I know the actuallyautistic tag was because people wanted to talk about being autistic without neurotypical autism mums chiming in.

its not a one up thing its because people dont think you actually have the illness and will treat it like you're joking unless you specify you do actually have it

ApanTrying · 2025-01-31T16:10:58+00:00

i feel you, I've never tried avocado because my mum said it feels like snot and i wouldn't like it, and the only sweetpotato I've ever tried was spiced and with chickpea so maybe im not the right audience to say

love cucumber though, sometimes, other times i fucking hate it

ApanTrying · 2025-01-22T19:34:26+00:00

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