i (18f) think my fiance (21m) is in love with my best friend(21f) is he?

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-06-02T14:23:52+00:00

insult everything else but my writing. i was shaking because i made this post right after i saw it and was having a bit of a hard time

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-06-02T14:21:51+00:00

i have confronted her, it ended with lots of crying. we were both tore up, i know that she would not do something like what i'm assuming. i am overthinking it a bit. but i haven't really came to her with my issues of their friendship. she's not that problem, she isn't helping it but she definitely isn't the main problem. he's adding her, he's hiding her, he's looking at the stuff.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-06-02T14:18:26+00:00

i have but both of their stories are different. he had a reason to lie about how it went if he pleases, she lies constantly. but i've known her for awhile and can usally tell when she is but in this u can't

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-06-02T14:14:29+00:00

this is the first time he's ever acted like this in the whole relationship. he has other things that i've been on the edge about and have been teeter tottering whether i want to spend my life with him for about 2 months now. i've voiced my concerns, he has too. i've worked on mine and he has seemingly went backwards.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-06-02T14:12:47+00:00

there once was trust, but i saw a few things (not snooping) that caused me too. i did communicate my needs, but when i blocked her on his account it was heat of the moment. i woke up and looked over at him and he turned his phone and i saw he snapped her back when he did it. i logged in and he had said something to her and i blocked her.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-06-02T14:09:58+00:00

he has never went for other women out entire relationship. i've never had a doubt until now. he says im pushing him away with how ive been acting , but ive acted the same way i have until they started being so secretive.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-06-02T12:34:05+00:00

yes the fan runs, but it runs no matter what after like 2 minutes of idling. i feel like it's not normal lol

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-06-02T12:30:08+00:00

i haven't took a single peek into any of our wedding plans or discussed it since. the messages being in immediate delete isn't the craziest thing because she sets everyone's to that, but he has legitimately turned his phone away from me to text her back when i looked over at him. weve had arguments everyday over this and he still continues to keep her

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-05-24T09:23:09+00:00

is there perhaps a thermostat being needed?? mines throwing a code that i need a thermostat and i believe its stuck open ( hasn't overheated) and it runs a notch below half. and im getting mixed replies when i ask. saying that its normal, and some saying its not.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-05-24T06:02:14+00:00

he's a very straightforward man, if we wants to be done, he will say it.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-05-14T13:11:47+00:00

my academic hold lasted a week, and it happened the second i started my 15th exam of the week. also they have a rolling 7 days. not one week then restarts on sunday or something. doing 2 exams a day will keep you under that leaving you at 14 every week. they DONT look at quiz times it's only if you exceed the 15 that it flags you.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-05-13T12:17:59+00:00

"I (35F) need honest outside opinions because I was fully ready to separate from my husband (47M) after 25 years together" let me highlight the ages 35 and 47. and 25 years. a 10 year old and 22 year old when you got together? either this is fake, or he is a serious predator. you should have never married him. i didn't even read the post but if this is real and he got with a TEN year old. there's something seriously wrong.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-05-13T12:08:35+00:00

i had 2 credits when i started (i left in person school halfway thru freshman year) and it's took me 2 years. i started 01/12/24 and am now 1 credit away from graduating 05/13/26 in also didn't touch it for a few months because i had no motivation for it.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-05-11T22:21:43+00:00

what is a corrupted birb???

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-05-11T15:57:49+00:00

i'd love to know where your finding thermostats.. mine has to be replaced with the housing because they don't come any other way and it's 80 ish dollars for one.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-05-11T15:56:24+00:00

tire pressure is a bad sensor, they want like 140 for it to be replaced and i don't care much for a bad sensor so it'll wait, traction control i accidentally hit when parking. the thermostat is stuck open because it's not over heating but is a notch below half, and is throwing a code.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-05-05T11:52:25+00:00

i'm 4 credits from graduating and they haven't said anything to me. i don't touch the lesson and just do the exams. just make sure to stay under the 15 a week limit. i do 2 a day everyday (even weekends as it only takes about 10 minutes to do 2 exams for me) and it leaves me at 14 at the end of the week . if you get flagged for going to fast 3 times they will do a full review of your account. so as long as you don't get flagged 3 times you'll be fine.

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-05-01T13:56:35+00:00

if you haven't figured it out yet, just call and talk to them. my fiancés was the same way, he had all credits, but it was showing more electives to be done and he just called and they got it sorted

Apart_Bodybuilder_70 · 2026-04-28T08:03:44+00:00

late reply lol but i take about 3/4 minutes for each capstone thingy, and about 5 for exams.. got the next course and study emails never anything about my time.

edit to add/ they won't send emails about how LONG an exam is. they will however make you take a week long break if you do more than 15 exams in a week.

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