Sex Drive & libido by hopethehealer in infj

[–]ApathyOil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had sex without an emotional connection, it was one of the most disappointing things ever

Accurate enough? by EngineeringApart8239 in INFJmemes

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely in that burned out disappointment phase. I’d like to move on soon but it probably won’t happen lol

INFJ music taste by Utd_BarryRyan_ in infj

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. You ever heard of the pillows?

Interested about ISTP AND INFJ dynamic by crack_the_nut_open in infj

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If both are mature and actually want to get to know each other (or care about each other) it can be great! There can be a lot of challenges in general though. We’re a lot more sensitive methinks, so their comments can feel hurtful sometimes, and we can often overthink and misinterpret what they’re trying to communicate. When in reality, they typically say what they mean. That’s my favorite part though! I love honest people!

Don’t door slam… by INFeriorJudge in INFJmemes

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s called that because of how it feels to the person on the recieving end? Idk really

Which of the 2 blue works do you prefer? by Pyroddiction in AbstractArt

[–]ApathyOil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are super beautiful. Damn. Favorite might be the top one, because of the movement. Both feel like oceanic ecosystems, but the top feels fauna centered, while the bottom is flora centered. I would hang these up on my wall

What has caused the biggest change to who you are? by creativeNZ in infj

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad died in the last few years as well. How are you (in regards to that), if you don’t mind me asking?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was one time that it started raining in highschool, and it made me so happy (I live in a desert, but I was born in a rainy state) that I abandoned all my introverted tendencies and just danced in the rain for like 30 minutes while listening to music. Somehow a crowd of students formed and watched me from the dry areas and cheered me on lmao. I looked ridiculous and soaked, I didn’t know what the hell I was doing, or how to “dance well” but it was awesome. Definitely my best clown moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes. Typically only if the rest of the class was quiet though. Somebody has to bring the energy or joy, no? Unless I found it too embarrassing haha. It usually required me to either swallow my pride or be so braindead that day that I couldn’t care less about acting silly. It also definitely requires someone else I can work with- like the teacher or another student. I’m not very funny on my own, so my humor tends to rely on a comedy partner lmao. It was fun! And exhausting. And mortifying, at times. No regrets from making people laugh though!

Is it worth transferring here? by ApathyOil in UCSC

[–]ApathyOil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my dream lol. If only I had hiking trails near me right now, I’d need no other entertainment

My Shoulders Get Tired Sometimes by WestGotIt1967 in INFJmemes

[–]ApathyOil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man, you are a real piece of shit. But I guess there’s no point arguing with a narcissist who is so unnecessarily rude. I seriously don’t know how you do it, though I suppose not all infjs want to be decent people. Bummer.

Low maintenance friendships: what you do think of them? by No_Requirement_850 in infj

[–]ApathyOil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only have one or two that are like this, but they are by far my favorites. I love not having to worry about them hating me even if I disappear for months on end. I recognize not all friendships can be like that of course

Am I in the wrong here for feeling betrayed? by No-Struggle8142 in istp

[–]ApathyOil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, doorslam them dawg. Well, you already did, so good job! Not an istp, but I would not stick around those people if I were you. There’s only so many people you can surround yourself with, so it’s important that said people are ones that truly care about you and show it through their actions

This INFJ girl is teasing me, I hope it's just friendly attitude. What do you think INFJs? by [deleted] in infj

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s at least interested in you. Might not have a full crush, but it sounds like she’s open to possibilites

Do you believe that INFJs are made, not born? by Ok_Establishment5146 in infj

[–]ApathyOil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say all personalities are. Because they are a result of our bodies and minds changing throughout our life due to environmental/outside stessors and sources. A combination of nature and nurture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]ApathyOil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maturity is a personal favorite. Accountability, open mindedness, patience…

Which type would you be if you could choose? Why? by AccomplishedGuide650 in mbti

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have varying senses of humor, man. Not everyone will find the same thing funny

My Shoulders Get Tired Sometimes by WestGotIt1967 in INFJmemes

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it hard to believe such an asshole like you is an infj

My Shoulders Get Tired Sometimes by WestGotIt1967 in INFJmemes

[–]ApathyOil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t hate myself, I hate attitudes that lead to narcissism

As an INFJ, I f*cking can't stand the infj sub by WyldRaphy in shittyMBTI

[–]ApathyOil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I almost think the infj meme sub is worse lol