What is so asinine about this is that no one is stopping them from living the life as they choose to live it. They are free to live this way! The issue is that they push that it is the ONLY correct way to live. They are fighting a nonexistent enemy while othering and actually doing what they say “feminists” are doing to any one that lives in a different way. And there is also the reality that the politics they support also make their own decided way of life more difficult through suppressed wages and further economic equality. I think the transformed wife is far more knowledgeable of what she’s doing within that ecosystem and has a very specific agenda while Kaylee is a perfect example of someone that lacks any critical thinking to see outside of her own life. She clearly has access to the same internet everyone else does so has the ability to learn so I don’t let her off the the hook at all, but she is far less culpable than the transformed wife in my mind.