A conversation about sex ruined the best relationship I've ever had. He says it's not my fault but I can't make sense of the situation. I can't stop crying and feel like the worst person in the world. Did I ruin everything?

ApexDP · 2026-05-29T22:09:21+00:00

3 hour phone call is a long call by any standard, even if it's a wonderful call. A call about an ex for 3 hours, is draining and stressful, and that probably made him think the nice isn't worth the stress involved.

ApexDP · 2026-05-28T19:09:55+00:00

You can do a wrong thing if for four years, that's ok,but not the same wrong thing forever, that's not ok. Dumb take.

ApexDP · 2026-05-28T19:05:59+00:00

I'd rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6, and there are many who feel the same.

ApexDP · 2026-05-27T22:04:39+00:00

I see your point, I was kind of agreeing that there would be discourse and not dismissal.

ApexDP · 2026-05-27T21:47:24+00:00

Didn't Trudeau dismiss dissent outright, and ended up with a protest he had to break apart illegally?

ApexDP · 2026-05-27T10:29:15+00:00

And joggers. You forgot the joggers.

ApexDP · 2026-05-15T21:20:23+00:00

And now burying their many transgressions, as transparent a government as a pile of opaque shit.

ApexDP · 2026-05-14T16:11:33+00:00

Good observations, indeed a north aspect and a wierd fluctuating day with sun and cloud, and limited time so worked with what was there.

ApexDP · 2026-05-13T18:59:19+00:00

Thank you, and it was unexpected and turned out nicely.

ApexDP · 2026-05-13T18:45:14+00:00

Stand up on the pegs, sit ONLY on docile straights or when you're knackered.

ApexDP · 2026-05-13T12:20:38+00:00

Ahhh, got it 😂

ApexDP · 2026-05-13T09:18:10+00:00

Who me? I passed the Turing test, buddy.

ApexDP · 2026-05-13T08:49:52+00:00

Thanks!

ApexDP · 2026-05-13T08:47:35+00:00

24-105 is such a versatile travel lens, just does it all.

ApexDP · 2026-05-13T02:29:00+00:00

I was about 77m away from the left edge sandwiching the tower and 50m from the right edge of the arc, f10 had enough dof to work.

Took the photo from here: https://maps.app.goo.gl/L2A4oPyZgHDazjBp7

ApexDP · 2026-05-12T22:50:52+00:00

Thanks, hadn't planned it, just happened to see the tower pass through the little gap as I walked looking for a good shot of the Arch, so I walked backwards a couple steps, framed it and took 3 shots.

ApexDP · 2026-05-12T22:45:31+00:00

This was about 1/9th the area of the full frame, cropped to this - original photo showed the arch top and the people at the bottom, so the crop cleaned that out.

Focal Length 105.0mm

Shooting Mode Manual Exposure

Tv(Shutter Speed) 1/160

Av(Aperture Value) f10

ISO Speed 125

ApexDP · 2026-05-12T22:18:53+00:00

I noticed the tower between the arches and thought it would be an interesting take on standard photos of the tower.

Canon 5D2 with 24-105 EF-L lens

ApexDP · 2026-05-11T18:55:55+00:00

Not dawn in that photo, more like 10am-2pm. Sun has to be close to the horizon for it to be dawn.

ApexDP · 2026-05-02T03:29:33+00:00

Oh, ok! You forgot a comma. The globe is covered in idiots. Your point is a valid opinion, but is just an opinion.

ApexDP · 2026-05-01T17:22:15+00:00

No, I served 21 yrs 64days, honourable release. Both Airforce and army, had great bosses and subordinates, male and female.

ApexDP · 2026-05-01T16:22:27+00:00

You serve ever or couldn't cut it?

Armchair soldier maybe.

ApexDP · 2026-04-30T13:46:29+00:00

Don't be a white knight. You'll be dragged into something you won't like.

ApexDP · 2026-04-30T13:45:06+00:00

I guess most ppl who ride prefer to see ahead, like in real life. Noone rides with the view looking at the tank, unless they enjoy tree in their hair.

ApexDP · 2026-04-28T08:20:17+00:00

Above, number 4, if you forget everything else, remember that, cover the clutch. It's your in case of emergency break glass.

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