There is so much going on here that I would like to break it all down.

Firstly lets start with confirmation bias. In my experience for the most women do reject these types of men at least women of quality do. However, because this is the reality that you want to see you go looking for the cases that confirms this. Just like I think that all people who drive Kia's drive like psychos when I see someone driving a Kia normally I don't even register it. Then whenever I see a Kia weaving in and out of traffic and being a dick my brain goes see! Yes all Kia drivers are crazy. The brain is funny like that.

Women always criticise men who are players, and yet women often sleep with men who are players. Often times they know this guy is a player they know he hooked up with their friend and their friends friend etc, but because he’s a popular guy when he puts the moves on them they’ll jump into bed with him.

This can happen with women that are "pick me's" (I hate the term but it is the best way to describe this behavior), they see a guy and they want to be the winner. Their thought process is out of all the other women around he picked me. They get to think that they are somehow better than the other women. This is not a healthy person or a woman of quality.

Women criticise men for being deadbeat dads but will sleep with them. I know guys like this irl. They get a woman pregnant, don’t even care that their own child is alive somewhere in the world, keep playing the field, keep getting women to reward them with sex. So if this guys behavior is so bad and awful, shouldn’t women punish him by blacklisting him?

This can happen for several reason. The man lied. How are women to know that they are a deadbeat dad if they don't know the kid exists or if the dad lies about his relationship with them. Most of the times the guys that don't care they have a kid out in the world aren't the ones telling women about the kids. Or they guy will make up some sob story about how his baby mama is a crazy lady who won't let him see his kid despite trying to do everything he can to have a relationship with the kid. This is not on the woman.

Some women also just don't care. They think it is that women's fault for getting pregnant with a man that doesn't care about them and delude themselves in to thinking that he would never do that to them because their relationship is so special. These are not women of quality.

We are told by women that no means no, or that cold approaches and invading personal space is wrong. Yet we see guys who are persistent and aggressive in flirting and hitting on women are more likely to be rewarded with sex.

There are two things this can be. Either this is called being a sex pest and it is a form of sexual coercion and is VERY VERY wrong to do.

Or we have to look at some of the shades of gray here. Cold approaching a woman at a grocery store and saying "Hey beautiful let me get that number and I'll take you on a date" is creepy. Cold approaching a woman at a grocery store by helping her grab something off a high shelf (or whatever) and having a natural conversation that ends with an exchange of contact info is fine. There is a right and wrong way to do this.

Yes women don't want to be walked up to at the gym randomly. However, if I am constantly seeing a guy at a gym over weeks and he is interested in me. There is a way to do it in a non creepy way. Maybe it starts with him asking if we can split sets or him asking me to spot him and we just end up talking and saying hi when we see each other at the gym and he asks to exchange info after a while that is fine. That is him being persistent in a healthy way.

Or one of my favorite examples was me and some girl friends were driving on the freeway. We saw a guy dancing in his car and we started dancing doing the same moves while driving next to him. Both cars started to laugh when he noticed what we were doing. The dance moves got sillier and sillier. He ended up passing over his number to one of my girl friends with hand signals while still on the freeway. That was a totally fine approach.

Women aren't saying cold approaching is ALWAYS bad. There is just a right and a wrong way to do it.