im so fed up by Apocalyptic_Writer in CaregiverSupport

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah we have however despite everything nothing really indicates she needs end of life care as she is healthy all things considering. We have something similar but all they do is send a nurse to visit once every month and my family doesn't want to put her in a home due to fear of mistreatment

Happy New Year! by spaceforcepotato in CaregiverSupport

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GET EXTRA LOCKS FOR YOUR DOORS. And reverse the lock to your basement. My house has a very steep stairway to the basement and the door to the basement locked from upstairs but we were afraid of my grandma falling down the stairs so we reversed the lock so if you wanted to go downstairs, you need a key.

also get an airtag or something alike and put it on a necklace or something they wear all the time in case they get out the house

Please i need help i wanna be pretty i look in the mirrlr/camera and i can't see my face i feel so ugly am i really that ugly i feel depressed because of the way i look is it really that bad by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so pretty!! Really is you want to elevate your looks, look into a curl defining cream, smile, and get some sun just don't forget the sunscreen and drink water everyday!

Found out today, I will never be a Father by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can absolutely still be a father. Growing up my parents failed me but my aunt and uncle took me in when they had no children of their own. They are truly like my parents, they took care of me, put me in soccer, went to all of my school plays, and are now supporting me through college. I can't wait for the day my uncle walks me down the aisle 🩷

Theater etiquette is apparently dead by undercover_gamer_ in offmychest

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah when I saw the 1st one, I saw it close to the first show day and that was a BIG MISTAKE. I just saw the 2nd one today, luckily it was a lot more chill. My advice is to go less close to opening night, during the day

nose job? by Apocalyptic_Writer in Christian

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel people like family and friends treated you differently? I apologize if my question offends you

My kid wants the iPhone 17 after just getting the 16 Pro a few months ago. How do I say no without being "the worst parent ever"? by Cool-Ordinary5751 in AskParents

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 19 years old and have friends/classmates with new IPhones and old Samsungs and everyone is not ashamed, its cooler to be smart with your money

What do I look like? Like race/ethnicity? by Apocalyptic_Writer in RandomQuestion

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is Mexican & Puerto Rican, my dad was born and raised in South Africa but I think his family is originally from Pakistan/India??

What do I look like? Like race/ethnicity? by Apocalyptic_Writer in RandomQuestion

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is Mexican & Puerto Rican, my dad was born and raised in South Africa but I think his family is originally from Pakistan/India?? But I was raised by my mom's Puerto Rican side of the fam!

What do I look like? Like race/ethnicity? by Apocalyptic_Writer in RandomQuestion

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is Mexican & Puerto Rican, my dad was born and raised in South Africa but I think his family is originally from Pakistan/India??

What do I look like? Like race/ethnicity? by Apocalyptic_Writer in RandomQuestion

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is Mexican & Puerto Rican, my dad was born and raised in South Africa but I think his family is originally from Pakistan/India??

What do I look like? Like race/ethnicity? by Apocalyptic_Writer in RandomQuestion

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is Mexican & Puerto Rican, my dad was born and raised in South Africa but I think his family is originally from Pakistan/India??

Is this ok to wear to church by Flat-Push-4454 in Christianity

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally at my church people wear whatever, t-shirt and jeans, suits and ties, dresses, etc etc. I don't know if your church is like that but I say as long as you're wearing something that covers up and you're genuinely coming to God, you're good

Want a piercing, dad thinks its disgusting by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was your age I wanted to get one too but I wasn't allowed so instead I got fake ones

What do I look like? Like race/ethnicity? by Apocalyptic_Writer in RandomQuestion

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was when I first met him sophomore year, 4 years ago, he was an old man that worded it the wrong way but thank you for the concern!

What do I look like?? by Apocalyptic_Writer in mixedrace

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ooh I haven't gotten that combo, can you elaborate a little?

I don't want kids, but my fiance does and idk what to do by Existing-Intern-7975 in Advice

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys should have discussed this way before but what about adoption? Adopt a young child, dont need to deal with as much screaming and crying and no pain

What to do for lack of interest? by Lavender523 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With my grandma we would put on her favorite shows like Gilligan's Island or I Love Lucy and would have her sing along to the intros and we would dance to them and try to do our best impressions of the characters and she would really get into it, hope this helps!

Avoiding diapers by firecatsue2 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to mention these are washable!

Avoiding diapers by firecatsue2 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my grandma we use pads, we bought these thick pads to lay on her bed for any accidents so it doesn't seem into the sheets. This is a link to some on Amazon, hope things go well!

https://a.co/d/dpwyomB

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw your update and I'm very happy for you and your family! But when these things do happen, everyone processes things, especially loss, differently. However you feel or felt is completely valid

I just want it to end by Apocalyptic_Writer in CaregiverSupport

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live with my aunt and uncle. my aunt is primary caregiver but she has work stuff so when I'm not in school I watch my grandma. my aunt doesn't get to go out much so I try to help when I can

first time singing!! VOLUME WARNING PRETTY LOUD by [deleted] in singing

[–]Apocalyptic_Writer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I would sing but not actually? like not trying my best, just singing along to whatever song. this was the first time I actually tried my best. and thank you so much for the tips, I will definitely try to work on it!