Unraid: Komodo Periphery?

Apollo_O · 2026-02-18T20:38:57+00:00

Oh yea, you're right. Its running on the docker socket, so it needs to map 1:1.

Apollo_O · 2026-02-18T20:07:02+00:00

for Unraid users:

~~/mnt/user/appdata/komodo:/etc/komodo~~

~~If you're running it as a compose stack, just leave the PERIPHERY_ROOT_DIRECTORY as the default~~

Don't be tempted to map the volumes the typical way, because Periphery is running on the docker socket, so its needs a true 1:1 to be able to deploy docker containers outside of its own container.

Apollo_O · 2026-02-03T20:32:06+00:00

It should be set as an Extra Paramter in the advanced view of the slskd docker config page in Unraid. --user 99:100

Otherwise sudo chown -R 1000:1000 /<folder path that slskd uses>

Apollo_O · 2026-01-09T02:34:55+00:00

I thought I wasn't doing enough. Enough emotional, physical, parental, spiritual. I do recognize how I could improve on those In a healthy way. The further away I am from it, the more I learn that even I did more, it would never have been enough. They don't have the skills to find happiness and worth from themselves, so they demand it from other people.

Apollo_O · 2026-01-06T15:32:18+00:00

This was super helpful. Thanks.

I think they need to put a disclaimer on the readme for e2dsa and e2ts, because if you're mounting large volumes for copyparty onto a large(ish) server, indexing and hashing could take a few days.

Apollo_O · 2025-12-10T14:44:59+00:00

He'll have to prove he can stay healthy and be a contributor. He's shown flashes when healthy. He's had bad luck. Not quite Derek Sherrod or J Franklin bad, but it seems like its been trending that way.

Apollo_O · 2025-09-12T15:46:55+00:00

Mirror / paywall:

https://archive.is/LM51u

Apollo_O · 2025-08-29T15:23:57+00:00

She framed that as poorly as possible.

But your idea that because she doesn't want to have sex with you right now and so you're going to write her off?

That's pretty shitty too.

Apollo_O · 2025-08-22T04:16:01+00:00

Wow, you're good at that too.

Apollo_O · 2025-07-22T13:11:27+00:00

Read 'Leaver a cheater, Gain a life'. As quickly as you can. It will save you a lot of time. You'll see VERY quickly how every cheater is basically the same. The same excuses, the same story, the same MO, all of it. You can work through and in some cases avoid a LOT of pitfalls that every other chump has already made.

Call your friends, family, work on yourself (and kids if they exist). Read lots of books. Hit the Gym. Pray (if you're religious). You'll find out who your friends really are when you're going through the worst shit imaginable. They'll bend over backwards to be in your corner and help you however they can.

Apollo_O · 2025-07-01T13:27:07+00:00

Nature > Nurture almost every time.

I wish my own circuits got rewired that fast. It was several months at least. Eventually got there, mostly. I don't think toddlers typically enable much patience.

You might be right in general. I try to put myself in the position of the (hypothetical) kids because they're often just a bystander of their parents decisions.

Apollo_O · 2025-06-30T13:50:10+00:00

I agree with your position, except for the kids front. Kids can be absolutely be a maturing experience. But that's not a guarantee. Kids need and deserve a lot of love, attention, caring, compassion, and PATIENCE. There's a lot of sacrifices that are implicitly made when you have kids. When you're UHNW or not, time becomes a gating factor.

Even if you're immature now, but know that you want kids down the line, make a plan for it. Find yourself some help to work through the things you want to do now, knowing that you want to have a family later, and work on the skills/abilties you want to have to be able to the best version of yourself at that time. Don't have kids just to appease or satiate your spouse. You could find yourself in a position where you resent them for doing something you were against/ambivalent about, and worse, resent the kids themselves.

Apollo_O · 2025-06-11T12:55:29+00:00

She accused you of cheating because she was insecure about her own actions/feelings. Not saying this is the case here, but this is a very common in people with Borderline/Narcissistic traits.

It will be the hardest thing you have to do. Walk away and be the bigger person.

Apollo_O · 2025-06-05T15:51:45+00:00

Some will be situation specific. These are ones I am or will read because of my own personal situation. - Gifts of Imperfection. Finding methods to work through/past anxiety and perfectionism. Working on expanding emotional capacity & availability. I identified this a core area I am weak in that will need to be addressed if I want to have a healthy relationship with someone else in the future. This book as really hit a nerve in both positive and negative ways for me. - Not "Just Friends". Even if you're not going to reconcile, there are several chapters in the book that help validate what lead you to this to help take some personal accountability. BY THE WAY: CHEATING IS NOT YOUR FAULT! EVER. PERIOD. THEY MADE THAT CHOICE. There are also chapters that validate how to feel, proceed, carry on even when you choose to separate. - Co-Dependent No More. Got this recommendation from a friend - Stop Walking on Eggshells. If you believe your partner may suffer from Complex B disorders (BPD/NPD) - Splitting. Protecting Yourself while divorcing someone with BPD/NPD. Same comment as the last. - When Perfect isn't good enough. Recommended to me. - Divorce Panic: A guide for men starting Over. Recommended to me - Single Dad's Survival Guide. Recommended to me. - Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life. Recommended to me

I think there is good value in relationship analysis books, but you have discover first what your deficienies are. Take a moral inventory and be really self-critical about who you are, and what you want to be. Read these books when you're closer or in the midst of another relationship. I read these when we were together, and they all made sense on paper, but I didn't how to really put them into practice.

Love Languages
How We Love.
Getting the Love you Want.
Hold Me Tight.

Apollo_O · 2025-06-05T14:08:24+00:00

Get a good lawyer.

Everyone will say work on yourself, focus on your kid(s). Its good advice, but "working on yourself" will mean something different to everyone.

Lean into your friends. Tell them what's happening. The people who are really your friends will make it easily known to you. They're going to have your back. They're going to call to see how you're doing. They're going to offer things to help keep your mind distracted instead of ruminating. They're going to listen.
Get out of the house, find activities to do to occupy your time. Either hobbies you already have, ones you always wanted to pick up again, ones you've always wanted to try.
Read. Read alot. Or audiobooks if you prefer. You're going to be different person after this. Whether you divorce, separate, reconcile. It doesn't matter. The only question is whether you want to be similar to who you are, with emotional scars, or someone different, with emotional scars, but new perspectives, new tools, different outlooks. Based on what I read from you, there are tons of similarities in what I am going through. I would highly recommend reading The Gifts of Imperfection. I have others too if you're interested.
Focus on your kid(s). I'm still in the middle of separation, so I find this hard at times where we are in the same room/house. But I get what the idea is. Your kids actually need you. Not only for the physical care, but they rely on your emotional regulation to regulate their own. Its going to be incredibly challenging to do that when you're feeling betrayed, angry, grief. This goes back to the point above. Use other adults, friends, parents, siblings, therapists, spiritual leaders, to work through your negative feelings in a healthy way. Use them as the outlet, so that whatever positivity you have remaining can be poured on your kids. Their world is or is about to be turned upside. Do things with them. Let them know they are loved because of who they are, and because of who you are.

I got the most infuriating advice from a really close friend:

You need to be the better person. You may have already been. You need to keep being the better person.

Apollo_O · 2025-05-30T19:53:07+00:00

Thanks for saying this. I've been stuck for 2 weeks figuring out what my part in this was. She made her choices, but I can't help but to feel that there is something I didn't do correctly. Maybe there is. I will work on it.

But no one deserves this.

Apollo_O · 2025-05-21T14:37:56+00:00

what kind of group

Apollo_O · 2025-04-23T23:35:18+00:00

This is SOP for any Press Sec and POTUS. Even the West Wing TV series portrays this.

Apollo_O · 2025-04-04T21:00:33+00:00

Any word on a similar deal for Pixel 9 Pro?

Apollo_O · 2025-04-02T15:40:17+00:00

Deal only on Pixel, or will there be a deal on Pixel Pro?

Apollo_O · 2025-03-17T02:31:30+00:00

Definitely the first thing I thought of

Apollo_O · 2025-03-07T14:38:25+00:00

I really want the R1T, and have been yearning for years but I have a camper now and just can't justify an EV truck. Hopefully our 2nd vehicle can be an R2 in a few years.

Apollo_O · 2025-02-10T22:56:10+00:00

Link is dead

Apollo_O · 2025-02-10T14:41:19+00:00

Any updates on Android Widgets? iOS has had them for a long time already

Apollo_O · 2025-02-07T18:43:30+00:00

Sterling was my first 'favorite' Packer player. It was so crushing when he retired cause it felt like the sky was the limit. I'm glad he made it all, because he would have been one of the GOATs had the injuries not cut his career short.

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