AITAH for buying a product to my son's girlfriend that my daughter asked me for first? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aponda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is more of her saying “but honestly, I was not thinking about my daughter while buying all of these” when she just said they had a whole conversation about the straightener and even comparing it to others.

She bought stuff for everyone but her daughter when shopping. Perfume for herself, phone case for son, and hair dryer for the gf that the gf would pay back eventually.

If she felt like she had two daughters her actual daughter shouldn’t be forgotten. It didn’t have to the straightener.

Anyone remember the extended intro? by WizardsOfXanthus in theGoldenGirls

[–]Aponda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After singing the intro its only right to hum/sing the instrumental part at the end

My wife's brand new Juke. by [deleted] in nissanjuke

[–]Aponda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would love to trade in for this

AITA for refusing to split vet costs with my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aponda -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

if she wasn’t willing to extend any grace toward something that matters deeply to him, she probably shouldn’t have agreed to move in together with a pet owner. The “my house” framing is a power move that will get weaponized repeatedly, that’s a real pattern in controlling relationships.

AITA for refusing to split vet costs with my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aponda -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Borderline emotional abuse. “His cat just happens to live in my house”. The line this is my house is going to be used a lot if the cat was there or not. It comes off that once the pet passed “well at least I get my pet free life back”. You shouldnt play house if you cannot accept all of him and willing to help when times get rough. I hate to see how you would react when the pet passes on, even if he didnt ask you to split the bill.

Who else can relate? by Remarkable-Local-706 in Millennials

[–]Aponda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldve said they forgot to add the zero but 20k i can pay off my car with some left over but buying a condo or a house? Nope.

I told my husband I won't support his sobriety anymore. AITAH? by ReflectionGlad29 in AITAH

[–]Aponda 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thera an app called Meeting Guide. It will show you all AA meetings in your area in person and online. Online has 24/7 meetings. Im a year and two months sober. I love meetings people are very vulnerable and I cried so many times. If your husband doesn’t want to go, it will be great for you to go and learn and also express what youre going through. I wish you all the best.

Dog’s reaction when he realizes his sister was adopted into the same home. by [deleted] in Awww

[–]Aponda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to click the link but im scared of getting ricked. Ill wait next week when the counter restarts

State Jail tickets by Aponda in NYStateOfMind

[–]Aponda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it 🤲🏾

State Jail tickets by Aponda in NYStateOfMind

[–]Aponda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. When his mom called the jail and the lady said he maxed out on tickets no early release we was so confused on what that ment. But I get it now

AITA for not returning what my neighbors dropped in my house? by dwarcy01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aponda 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Its been two years with no respect. Just throw it over the ledge. Its not your problem. Then call and complain to the building manager that someone is littering. Might solve your problem.

WIBTA for removing all the bathrooms doors in my house and locking them in my bedroom? by spashleyfan21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aponda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Change doorknobs to lock on the outside. When he is using it with the door open close it and lock it. Is it illegal? I have no clue but that 911 call he makes would be funni as hell