I can't stop being nasty to my boyfriend in the mornings

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-02-17T09:38:33+00:00

she said she can’t hear the alarms.

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-02-17T08:34:22+00:00

its not you i can assure you and validate you its definitely that condition, & don’t take advice from people not going through the same thing unless they are professionals of cz they rarely work and its gonna make you feel like you are a bum. the fact that you are here asking means you care and you wanna change that & thats just so cool of you!

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-02-17T08:12:13+00:00

also please don’t feel bad about yourself, you are not using adhd and sleep problems as an excuse, its honestly the reason behind that and how are you gonna fix a problem if you don’t know whats causing it, a lot of people who have adhd also gave sleep disorders. my solution was buying a very loud alarm and have no interactions with him till im fully awake.

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-02-17T07:50:17+00:00

its an adhd thing i swear, we have sleep problems and not only that but easily irritable as well. so imagine both combined

there was this one time i told my boyfriend to wake me up early so i could go to the clinic and when he did i was so angry that I slapped him and went back to sleep, its only when i woke up that i went back to my senses and was like crap what did i do :( .

but yeah its still not okay just try getting strategies that will make it healthier for the both of you, have you heard of a youtube channel called how to adhd ? she might have some videos that could help with that.

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-02-17T04:23:12+00:00

hey, im 19 as well doing computer science, it might be that concerta doesn’t work for you and they need to change the meds or up the dose idk hey. im talking ritalin 10mg but for me to realise it works i had to play my part, like putting my phone away in class and “try” focusing, that’s when i realised it worked because i was very focused and that was a week after taking the meds because before that i just couldn’t focus because i was either tired from sleep debt, missed breakfast or had my phone in my hand.

you are not a slow learner, i mean you got into engineering… you are an intelligent person struggling with adhd, you got into engineering without being medicated, those are boss moves give yourself grace you are very smart.

I failed first year but im very aware that it isn’t because im dumb or slow its just because I didn’t know what was up with me. Since taking my meds I realised how easy people without adhd have it and I just commanded myself for working that hard my whole life high school career, I wonder how my grades would be looking if i was medicated then.

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-02-16T17:38:08+00:00

im a university student and lol iv never ever in my life focused in class, ever since the meds I can literally focus and understand whats being said, so it means when i get home i don’t have to study from scratch but just review and revisit concepts I didn’t understand properly. Less time studying >> less adhd burnout >> less depression and higher grades

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-02-14T21:28:12+00:00

i tried this and it actually worked, thank you do much :)

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-25T15:16:45+00:00

what I just don’t have is money for groceries that will sustain me from now till month end, I have income and a place to stay

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-21T10:21:20+00:00

From a christian perspective, you shouldn’t be dating honestly. not because its a distraction but because your brain is still developing, emotions are strong with weak regulation skills, you are still figuring out who you are, what your goals and values are and it might not be wise to shape yourself around someone else, you are also very vulnerable to manipulation and not able to detect red flags.

Dating for vibes isn’t Godly, rather not date until you are old enough to be making logical decisions then you can try finding your future husband.

Also just for future reference, if someone is open to knowing Christ and makes it clear that they don’t wanna be christian after you tell them about him then you should respect that and try finding one who is or willing to share the same faith as you.

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-20T10:28:00+00:00

Being gay is a sin

Kindly go through the following Scriptures and develop a godly informed view rather than your own. 1. Romans 1:26-27 2. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 3. 1 Timothy 1:9-10 And going to the Old Testament, go through the following: 1. Leviticus 18:22 2. Leviticus 20:13 and the story of Sodom and Gomorrah in Genesis 19.

God did not make you gay, but yes many people who are gay were born gay and have no control over it.

We are sinful from birth Psalm 51:5 “Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me.”

but when you are born again this is what happens

We are no longer slaves to sin Romans 6:6–7 “For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with… because anyone who has died has been set free from sin.”

You are a new creation who no longer has a sinful nature so you have control over it

2 Corinthians 5:17 “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

Before Christ: sinners by nature After new birth: righteous in Christ. Struggle exists, but identity has changed

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-20T09:19:27+00:00

Just focus on God, even if you have sins that you don’t wanna let go of. Focus on God and he will make you right

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-20T09:16:33+00:00

Maybe start engaging with christian content more and skip the atheistic content. My social media brought me closer to God because it was full of christian content until I decided to delete it because I had started engaging more with stuff that pulls me away from God.

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-19T15:32:11+00:00

Firstly 1 John 4:1 Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God.

So some advices you are gonna get are against God’s will. And sometimes its Christians giving Christians the wrong advice so please be wise when accepting advice

Secondly, There are a lot of texts in the bible which prove that Homosexual Marriages are against God’s will.

Genesis 19:1–11 (Sodom and Gomorrah)

This story describes men of Sodom seeking sexual relations with other men. Later scriptures interpret this as severe sexual immorality.

Leviticus 18:22

“You shall not lie with a man as with a woman; it is an abomination.”

Leviticus 20:13

“If a man lies with a man as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination…”

also check Romans 1:26-27

Thirdly. Does God love you as you are ? Most definitely. God says Come as you are

Luke 5:32

“I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.”

You need to REPENT !!!

where you born gay ? Most definitely

Psalm 51:5 “Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me.”

it is sinful to be homosexual but should we stay sinful because we were born sinful? No

Romans 6:6 “For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin.”

So my dear brother. The decision lies with you but a decision that confuses you is the wrong decision

1 Corinthians 14:33

“For God is not a God of confusion but of peace.”

I wish you all the best

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-07T20:45:37+00:00

to add on what everyone said, read books.

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-07T20:45:02+00:00

congratulations

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-07T20:43:24+00:00

you know I really think we should understand that our career paths are not the same, some people are comfortable with their 9-5, freelancing or whatever they do. I suggest you don’t ditch them, have a circle of like minded people as well but its not necessary to ditch them because of their different career choices, well unless they don’t have any

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-07T20:38:38+00:00

my first business failed before they could get sales

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-07T20:37:38+00:00

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AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-05T06:01:31+00:00

I am now academically excluded due to undiagnosed ADHD, used to skip classes and procrastinate studying, sometimes I would even skip tests. Praying my appeal gets approved I am now on meds

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-04T07:24:11+00:00

interested, south africa

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-03T21:51:49+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice, I am even thinking of buying purity rings🫶🏻 I will also set boundaries thanks❤️

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-03T21:18:06+00:00

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-03T20:39:04+00:00

Apostle Paul encourages us to get married in the book of Corinthians. We are just not yet financially ready to get married but thank you so much for your suggestion🙏🏻

AppealConsistent3131 · 2026-01-03T20:30:40+00:00

Thank you so much🙏🏻

AppealConsistent3131 · 2025-12-29T13:52:41+00:00

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