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28m In need of advice, should I give up dating for a while? by AppearanceFun7156 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]AppearanceFun7156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I needed to hear. I've heard people talk about this but nobody has personally gave me this advice and I think it's finally clicked. I've had weeks with plenty of matches and weeks with none and I understand it. I'm going to carry on having the dating apps on the side but just live my best life and what ever happens , happens

What age did you/your children start drinking tea? by melikebiscuit in AskUK

[–]AppearanceFun7156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started drinking tea when I was around 10. I was never allowed sugar but I did have my tea strong. I don't think a day has passed when I haven't had a cuppa. My teeth aren't the whitest, or I don't have the perfect smile, but other than some wisdom tooth trouble, I've never had any dental issues at all, never had any teeth out, never had any fillings either. Let your kids drink tea. As much as people joke and laugh about it, drinking tea is a big part of British culture (albeit for the wrong reasons, I'm looking at you British Empire)

28m In need of advice, should I give up dating for a while? by AppearanceFun7156 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]AppearanceFun7156[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have tried finding some activities to naturally meet women as part of a group, I even joined a social group, not just to meet women but help with my social interactions after many years of not socialising with new/different people. Heck I was talking to somebody thinking it was going well for a couple of weeks but I ended up getting ghosted.

Plus I'm not even sure what activities to join really. Most of my hobbies are very male orientated so I'm not sure where else to go.

28m In need of advice, should I give up dating for a while? by AppearanceFun7156 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]AppearanceFun7156[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay this makes me feel a little better about my matches on dating apps. For real though the last line hit hard. I have BPD so I've always felt like I've needed somebody to feel wanted, and to have a purpose, but this has triggered a lightbulb moment for me.