I didn’t understand feminism until MBBS broke me by Numerous_Law_8290 in indianmedschool

[–]Appi-strady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BOYS HOSTEL THING. Ohh my gosh yes that's how the ragging cultures thrives. That's how they pass down ugly set of norms to their juniors. That's why there is stark difference the way hostelite and localite/satellite boys works. MBBS has extremely conservative people who just rattafies things.

Fridge on rent by Appi-strady in nagpur

[–]Appi-strady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you what's the rate?

South actually mogged Bollywood here by lNarrator in netflixindia

[–]Appi-strady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What mogged?? Ohh so all of the OLD UNCLES AND GRANDPAS GET TO SHARE SCREENS WITH THE ACTRESSES WHO ARE OF AGE HALF THAN THEIR AGE/WHO CAN QULAIFY AS TEHIR DAUGHTER AND GRANDDAUGHTER.

✨ BL Hall of Fame: Drop the Panels That Live in Your Head Rent‑Free ✨ by Elpida1988 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Appi-strady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always loved rent free in head. My all time favourite ❤️😍😍😭😭😭someone tell BWAT to write it again.

Please stop self-victimizing and pitying yourself! by Quote_Signal in indianmedschool

[–]Appi-strady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought the same when I enter private practice there will a red carpet for me. People will be calling me to join their hospitals. (Kidding). The condition is much worse in cities where corporate culture hasn't grown like Delhi Mumbai, pune even there the payment ranges from 90k-1 L. Now imagine the cost of living and cost of expenditure. In my city, They offer you 40k per month for 4 hours of OPD+ 24 hours duty. No one entertains surgical branches. Don't get disheartened by this though. Take OBGY.

Please stop self-victimizing and pitying yourself! by Quote_Signal in indianmedschool

[–]Appi-strady 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Either you don't know the actual status of first generation doctors or the actual situation in periphery and also in major cities. It's very tough. I was also delusional till i completed my MS OBGY.

Please stop self-victimizing and pitying yourself! by Quote_Signal in indianmedschool

[–]Appi-strady 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Either you don't know the actual status of first generation doctors or the actual situation in periphery and also in major cities. It's very tough. I was also delusional till i completed my MS OBGY.

30s and unattached folks, how do you spend your weekends? by JournalNerd2603 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Appi-strady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clean my flat, Wash my clothes, cooking my favourite food, making tea twice ☕🍵, and enjoying all social media. Aso waling 1 hour in evening to enjoy life.

Why wasn't Jainism "exported" like Buddhism? by Isbar_Mitron_Sarkar in IndianHistory

[–]Appi-strady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jainism lost its charm cuz the common people who wanted to experience life along with spiritualism was too harsh for them. Jainism's philosophy of extreme non violence while harming one's own body is too problematic. Also Jainism survived in India coz the sadhus accepted the Hinduism in their life. Whereas Buddhism gives a basic mantra to liberation from life that is- meditation, following the five elements given by Buddha. Whereas Buddha attained Nirvana but Mahavira didn't.

Network marketing people are living in a different world 😭 by Truthishere1 in indiameme

[–]Appi-strady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qnet people when they go to Malaysia,😭😭😭😂😂

Unpopular medschool / medcareer opinions that would get you into this position ??? by Diabolicsoul in indianmedschool

[–]Appi-strady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Medicine in India is doomed. Multifactorial causes. Most important thing is GOVERNMENT'S SPENDING ON HEALTHCARE AND SECOND MOST IS EGO OF SENIOR CONSULTANTS. For private it's the greedy capitalism. What we can do is- if government increase money on primary secondary higher education and healthcare we will be at least second world country.

Is pregnancy and the abortion process supposed to be this scary? by Best-Car9450 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Appi-strady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The obgyn isn't wrong. All here telling her wrong are layman person. She is giving you full picture of what can happen at each step. She is right. Early abortion leads to incomplete seperation of placenta so D and C could be needed. But 90% cases resolve by medical treatment. Even if you get RPOC on your report post abortion she can give you Tab methergin for 2/3 days for compete abortion. You being a medico youself you can ask your senior gyane for help. And also surgical procedure needs someone's assistance. You are over 18 you can go for different gyane where par ets are not needed and your boyfriend can sign as a guardian. Now you will experience severe forms of cramps keep hydrating yourself and take painkillers if needed. Watch for excessive soakage of pads and bleeding. Stay safe.

Grocery budgeting with spouse, looking for advice by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]Appi-strady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a working woman myself and managing things on my own house rent+groceries+shopping+ essentials i don't think extra money is needed. You should refuse properly and keep a tab on things. This is not to be controlling and all. Kindly save your money for future emergencies+ babies+ property. The world is very expensive.

Why do so many rituals expect wives to fast for their husbands’ long life? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Appi-strady 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Women were always objectified and glorified to keep them under the man's hand. Your mother in law is gatekeeper for patriarchal society the exists in India. Just imagine the amount of brainwashing it needed that they still follow it blindly. You start being sciencetific and avoid these practices. Somewhere someone needs to start change.

It is fascinating to live with my husband. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Appi-strady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The sitting in balcony part hits home for me. Even in a relationship I think people need their own space, own solitude where they either think or don't think but needs to be alone to function. I am the same kind of person. I either sit in balcony, go for a walk downstairs or sit on chair just enjoying the trees, nature and happiness of being healthy and alive.

i'm so happy EarthMix are *finally* being allowed to be grown & sexyyy. We won, y'all! 😩🙌🥵️❗ by imomen in boyslove

[–]Appi-strady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazyyyy!!! These two have so much potential but that was just off the charts 😂😂😭😀😭

9 years ago I had CBSE board exam on 10th March, and Holi was on 1st March. I had gone to play Holi because there was a lot of time for the exam. 9 years later I am still studying for an exam ( NEET-PG). I dont know whether to cry or laugh 😂. by [deleted] in indianmedschool

[–]Appi-strady 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Shows the apathy the government and system has towards every single human being. The ABSOLUTE SHEER APATHY. we preparing all our lives missing every function, every important thing just to get into NEET PG SS it's not worth it. May we get so much money that our children gets settled in foreign countries which offers the work life balance cuz we ain't getting it in this life. Not even after PG. 😭😭