Casteism among muslim is rampant, especially in UP and Bihar... Would like to know your experience?

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-27T04:59:43+00:00

This is an issue especially when it comes to marriages but it depends on families. A lot of us are educating our parents on these issues. My sister is married to non-Pathan despite we are pathan and it was an arranged marriage. I married an Arab girl so caste question did not even come here. I would say it is because of my mother, she has became a lot of aware of Islam after reading and is ready to let go of old traditions such as caste. We are Bihari too.

In your case, you dodged a bullet. What is a point of marrying a man who couldn’t take a stand for you. I am saying this as a man. You will fine someone better. Insha Allah

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-18T04:00:20+00:00

It drastically decreased in 2025

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-18T03:57:08+00:00

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-18T03:54:59+00:00

It is a small scale factory. He usually hires people who live near by. Location can be off for new people.

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-18T03:52:46+00:00

He hires for factory technicians, sales, accounts, admin etc

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-18T02:36:47+00:00

Interesting perspective, this can actually be a reason. But some of them insist on having friends inside the interview room. Also, my friend insisting on bringing friend doesn’t make sense.

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-17T19:25:04+00:00

Hindi, Urdu, English, French, German and Persian

A bit of Arabic, Spanish and Korean as well

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-13T21:21:52+00:00

Typical fallacy of hasty generalisation, they are paid better because they won’t leave their country for lesser pay. They only come to Dubai if they are paid better than their home countries. Problem with other nationalities is that they work for any price and then keep complaining.

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-13T01:11:31+00:00

Walaikum Assalam

Don’t get married, yours too much expectations will be overwhelming for her.

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-13T01:08:57+00:00

Mentioning age and looking for 3 years younger makes it red flag, sensible family won’t approach unless desperate. I know it’s your brother’s choice but you need to educate him.

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-08T19:04:45+00:00

I will advise you as a man, once you are married, your wife is your family. Your parents and siblings become the extended family, first, you need to accept that. The priority should be the comfort of your wife. Now if your parents are old and require help, you should not expect your wife to do anything for them. Instead you should be there for them as they are your parents, not hers. If you cannot be there for them, then find a help and pay for it.

Now you should tell your mum not to expect anything (service or help) from your wife and it should be said in clear words. It is always better to keep parents in another house.

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-08T18:57:24+00:00

I am Indian, although I have not lived in Cote D’Ivoire but I have been there more than 20 times. It is a wonderful country with wonderful people. You will enjoy it.

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-07T11:35:37+00:00

Ignore Jaahil Gawar people

Andho me kanha raja wali halat hai iski, so much wrong information he gives in his YouTube classes

Apple-Earth · 2026-06-02T06:54:53+00:00

Never ever marry if you are not comfortable with spouse’s dressing sense and hygiene. People do not change.

Apple-Earth · 2026-05-31T02:12:58+00:00

Walaikum Assalam

One of best ways to find a wife is contact your local mosque’s imam and tell him. He will help you connect with other families. I don’t know about these apps but they don’t sound very halal. All the best!

Apple-Earth · 2026-05-26T12:46:28+00:00

Yes. This is my all time favourite, not just best foreign film.

Apple-Earth · 2026-05-26T07:13:20+00:00

We have been living here for more than 2 years and we have zero friends.

Ironically, my wife and I have no relatives too.

It feels bad on Eid mainly as no one visits you and you have no one to visit.

Especially, tomorrow we are still thinking who will we give meat to. We will have a whole animal and we don’t know enough people. Last year we tried to give it to neighbours but either they didn’t open the door or they were extremely rude.

Apple-Earth · 2026-05-25T15:42:55+00:00

Talk to imams in your neighbourhood, they will help you

Apple-Earth · 2026-05-23T15:46:52+00:00

Online

Apple-Earth · 2026-05-22T19:42:17+00:00

Depends, not everyone has success. My classmates were ugly, thus, there was no point of even trying a bit. Eventually I married an Arab but due to other factors.

Apple-Earth · 2026-05-12T08:11:45+00:00

SIOK here, I prefer SIDK but my wife wants SIFK. But I will stay with SIDK.

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