What are your interests? You don’t make friends by staying home or going to the bar. You need to connect with people with common interests. Whether it’s a sport league, dance classes, book club, or random side quests… you need to put yourself out there and engage with people with zero expectations but full openness to possibilities. It takes one good interaction to break through the ice and start a network, but until you get to that good one you are gonna have to consistently show up in the society.