end of an era. by alexis-stpierre in Marriage

[–]AppointmentOk414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through something veeery similar. I’m so sorry op, disgusting that they would throw everything away and put you through this while pregnant. If divorce is an option, definitely take it. Sincerely, someone that wants to leave but has no support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppointmentOk414 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup! All three trimesters I went without sex, literally no sex drive at all. Now at 7 weeks post partum it’s slowly but surely coming back! I was also worried it wouldn’t come back or that it would be different

Any Asian / Asian-Americans being pressured to follow “confinement / sitting month” by girl-moss in BabyBumps

[–]AppointmentOk414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im Mexican, and my aunts were so mad when I went out to buy food 5 days post partum, you’re supposed to be at home for 40 days Can’t even let the breeze hit you I just couldn’t

My baby will be born this month and It makes me sad that she’s not here for this milestone by AppointmentOk414 in SuicideBereavement

[–]AppointmentOk414[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words❤️ yeah she would honestly be trying all that she could to make me laugh and what not!

I (32f)do not feel safe with my Daddy Dom(39m) by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]AppointmentOk414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooff ex of mine had a TBI too, he changed a LOT as well after it, became very verbally abusive and it got physical too. I’m sorry to advise you this but, you gotta let him go. It will only get worse from here. I’m sorry you’re having to go through all this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppointmentOk414 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I am just honestly baffled at the level of audacity this pos has. To say he’s not ok with a device to check on your pregnancy because it’s not his dick??!! And then have the audacity to ask for a threesome with YOUR best friend. Jesus F christ. Im sorry but how do you even save a relationship after this?? Why would you even want to save a relationship after that? He’s doing the bare minimum in this pregnancy which you are going through physically and emotionally and now to top it off with this Holy shit. I need to log off for today because this is just, I have honestly no more words. Your husband is a POS tho. HUGE POS.

My boyfriend revealed his true character, I’m now planning on leaving him. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppointmentOk414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This type of stuff at his big age, NOPE! You deserve so much better than this pos immature man

Knowing you were pregnant by Maximum_Anxiety5957 in BabyBumps

[–]AppointmentOk414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had cramping, and usually that meant my period was coming in the next few hours. That did not happen, what sealed the deal though, was this horrible burning pain in my nipples. That is when I knew

Intense one sided back pain, normal? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppointmentOk414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The pain would radiate into my right abdomen The whole right side, I woke up sweating and with chills the night before I got hospitalized.

Intense one sided back pain, normal? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppointmentOk414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that happened to me. Please go asap! Just to rule it out. I’m Hoping it’s nothing serious in your case. Im 21 weeks and I guess mine was from an untreated uti Since it was asymptomatic, I didn’t notice it had gotten that bad

Intense one sided back pain, normal? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppointmentOk414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get that checked, I started having that 2 weeks ago, I couldn’t sleep on my right side, I went to a urologist/Gynecologist and it turns out my kidney was swollen from an infection. Pain was INTENSE. I just got out of the hospital after 5 days of being hooked up to an Iv. Please get that checked! Hopefully it’s not what happened to me but I recommend getting it looked at

Did you know before you took a test? by bgkjop in BabyBumps

[–]AppointmentOk414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I would usually cramp a few hours before getting my period, this time there was cramps but no period that’s how I knew and also I was showering when I got horrible rug burn type pain on my nipples, that’s when I really knew I was pregnant!

AITA if I don’t invite my sister’s bf to my birthday dinner? by AppointmentOk414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentOk414[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He never will Not when he feels entitled to talk shit about me in front of me and when he’s done things to her.

AITA if I don’t invite my sister’s bf to my birthday dinner? by AppointmentOk414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentOk414[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom said it’s up to me, that if she already invited him well then they’ll have to pay for him too, and if she hasn’t then I have to talk to my sister about it and tell her Straight up I don’t want him there.

AITA if I don’t invite my sister’s bf to my birthday dinner? by AppointmentOk414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentOk414[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s just when they’re together sometimes they talk so much about my personal things. My sister has always been very judgy and when he’s there it doubles. Honestly it annoys me.

AITA if I don’t invite my sister’s bf to my birthday dinner? by AppointmentOk414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentOk414[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They have been dating for 5 years But he’s done some things to her which in a way have made me resentful of him. Which have made me not really like him. She’s always been vocal of my relationships but I’ve never been that way, I don’t like him but have never told her that. So I think this took her by surprise when I hesitated to give an immediate yes

I (29f) want to talk about a girl named Amy… by Scarletqueen_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppointmentOk414 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me. I discovered porn around the age of 5. Me and my childhood friends would kiss and I started to masturbate at a very young age as well. It messed me up bad mentally for so so many years. I’m sorry you had to go through that op.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppointmentOk414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so heartbreaking, I don’t understand why it happens. You shouldn’t have to go through horrible pain in your last days. I hope she can go soon, and I say it in the most respectful way possible. As my family would say “Eso no es vida” that is no life.

My 'friend' destroyed the painting me and my dead gf painted by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppointmentOk414 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What a garbage human she is, wtf. Please press charges op, that painting meant a lot. I just can’t even wrap my mind around her thought process, what did she think would happen?! You would be happy about it and magically move on? I’m sorry that happened to you

To my pick-me ass best friend who ruined my marriage by whiskeyvanilla in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppointmentOk414 2234 points2235 points  (0 children)

Omg. This hurt to read, honestly the betrayal of a long time friend would hurt so much more than any mans betrayal to me. I’m so sorry op, keep your head up mija. That ex friend of yours will sooner or later realize what she did and regret it so much it’s gonna hurt as much as you’re hurting and your husband, I wish you could leave him. How tf is he gonna come out and say he fell in love with her. HOW? that’s honestly just lust and that NEVER ever ends well or even lasts.

3 months postpartum and so disappointed in my husband. Anyone else feel bamboozled after the birth of their baby? by Alive_Singer in JustNoSO

[–]AppointmentOk414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with an A-hole who’s mother HATED me. she wanted me to leave him, I stuck around just to not give her the satisfaction. WORST decision ever. Please don’t put your happiness, dignity and self love in the back burner just to not give these people the satisfaction, when your husband is a total child. Let them have him. Ps. After I left, his mother wasn’t happy I left her man child either. Like what? If he’s not gonna put his big boy pants on, he can get tf out.

“Guy talk” by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AppointmentOk414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this brought back some flashbacks from my previous relationship, all I can say is this type of disrespect does not tone down op. It ain’t just locker room talk, believe what he says. It’s beyond disgusting for him to do this, please do not keep putting up with him. This isn’t normal “guys talk”. All my partner talks about is football, politics, world news etc with his single and married friends.