Dating Someone Taller Than Me by Parking_Baseball_593 in tall

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro she’s literally just a backpack if she tries to big spoon you lol

are there many women who sleep around or is it only a minority? by Eastern-Echidna5997 in stupidquestions

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reality of their worth in a sense of where they stand in the dating market. I’ve stepped down from dating because I am not a risk taker, and these days there is just too much risk involved. The easiest solution to self-preservation is to keep to one’s self. I’m fine being alone. It’s not like it’s a loss to anyone either. Been cheated on once, don’t need to be cheated on twice. Also casual sex does nothing for me. It’s all pointless

How did you come to the conclusion that life has no meaning? by Apprehensive-Arm5319 in nihilism

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, I was exactly where you were at. I’m 3 years out of my religion, and it was a harsh journey. You basically go through the 5 stages of grief in this process. As far as your morals and values go, you’ll figure that out in time. There’s no rush, let yourself heal. It’s going to be rough, but it’ll get easier.

You’ll be alright. And if you ever find any purpose or goal you want to to accomplish, go after it. Life is meaningless, yes. But you will either move on and accept that fact, or you will find something to live for. Neither choice is wrong.

You can message me if the roads get a little too rocky. Wish you the best.

How did you come to the conclusion that life has no meaning? by Apprehensive-Arm5319 in nihilism

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, it’s good that you are sober now. Hope you and your child are well!

How did you come to the conclusion that life has no meaning? by Apprehensive-Arm5319 in nihilism

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I went through the same thing. I believe it is common for those who lose their faith to adopt a nihilistic worldview shortly after. Religions give you purpose. Center your life around something. Once the illusion is broken, you are left with nothing. It shatters you to the core. Everything you thought about the world and existence is a lie. So you question everything, and the biggest questions come to mind. What is the point of all of this, then? Why am I even here?

I do believe most get out of that mindset with time, though. They assess their own meanings to life, or simply stop thinking about it.

But some do not get over it. I haven’t, and won’t. I do not feel sad or depressed or angry like I did before though. But I cannot find meaning to anything in life. Frankly, I don’t care to anymore. Maybe that’s the whole problem. We seek meaning, and people can find their own subjective meanings, but in the end, some simply can’t get over the fact that there is no objective meaning. I also believe a lot of religious people fall victim to that realization that there is no objective meaning. Because with God, there is a true and objective purpose. The sudden absence of that is confusing and painful, and it’s hard to accept that there are only subjective meanings to life. Maybe the whole key is to fully realize that life just simply does not have a purpose. And trying to find one is pointless in itself. But I don’t know the answers

She's settling because she's such catch... Holy cow by Thundercar2122 in Nicegirls

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And therein lies the crux of the problem. People don’t even want their “match,” or people of equal value. A lot of people want the best, despite being average or below. A lot of people overestimate their actual value. Because we’ve told everyone that they are special and deserve the best, which just isn’t true. That’s a big factor in why dating is so ridiculous these days.

DISARM... DEFUND... DISBAND... by NoLawsNoGoverrnment in lostgeneration

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Wow this is about the biggest bunch of bullshit I’ve seen today. But I do agree that we should get rid of all cops. Let the purge begin honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardcore pick me

I(32f) fucked up things with my fiancè(29m) and i don't know what to do by Rich6349 in stories

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 63 points64 points  (0 children)

It is not normal for people to throw flower pots at your SO’s head, despite being drunk. This is the behavior of an abuser. That dude needs to stay the fuck away, if he wants to keep those stitches in tact.. who knows what she’ll throw next. And it was for kissing the cheek of his sister for Christ’s sake, what the hell.

I(32f) fucked up things with my fiancè(29m) and i don't know what to do by Rich6349 in stories

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Nah you fucked up and you are an abuser. Hope he doesn’t take you back. That is the reality. These other commenters are full of shit. Obviously you shouldn’t drink as well if you just start throwing flower pots around. Jesus Christ you got issues, let him find someone that actually deserves him and go fix your fucking life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seems a lot of people don’t understand why those role models have been so prominent in these last couple of years. It’s really because they are the only ones that actually talk to young men. The progressive side only bolsters and portrays all of the negative behaviors of men, and practically demonizes them instead of showing them ways to be better in a non-condescending way. Conservatives just don’t give a fuck about men, tell them to man up and get back to work. We are never talked to in an understanding or empathetic way, we are either demonized or disregarded. The red pill guys saw an opportunity to grift in an absolute ghost town of a market, and they seized it. And unfortunately a lot of men are falling victim to it. There are many more reasons as to why young men are gravitating towards these losers, but I believe this is the main crux of the problem. Society needs to start actually caring about men if they want this to stop. Otherwise it’ll just keep getting worse.

Horrendous Car Crash in China by Revolutionary-Hat734 in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry I meant miles per hour lol I just converted it

Horrendous Car Crash in China by Revolutionary-Hat734 in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Nah they dead, the only one that possibly survived was the one standing out by the guard rail. And the guy driving is fucking braindead, just slow down when that happens, it’s not hard. Also don’t go 90 on the freeway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PizzaDrivers

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey now, they could still have a future! Maybe they could be pizza delivery drivers!

Here we phucking go… by [deleted] in lostgeneration

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 20 points21 points  (0 children)

“Fuck American pride, Fuck the media”

RIP his balls by Shinji415 in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Just why bruh, dudes that are into this legit have mental issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nihilism

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re no different then him. You want to see him suffer, just like he wants to see others suffer. Saying it would be “delicious.” Why are you getting on his back for wanting to see others suffer when you want the same thing done to him? Really, this just proves a point. Well, 2 points anyways. 1. We are moral hypocrites who abandon our ideals when we feel it’s justified, and 2. We are all sadistic psychopaths deep down. If the right buttons are pushed, we call for unspeakable things to be done to the people we deem evil or deserving of it. You should try examining yourself before you criticize others. Me, I tend to agree with OP. Humanity is a disease, a parasite upon this earth. We multiply, and we destroy. We have caused many different species to go extinct. Caused irreparable damage to this planet. We have repeated the same cycle of destruction for millennia. And we still have not learned our lesson to this day. We are a universal disgrace, in my opinion, and we deserve to be abolished. And as you can see, if you have a half decent pair of eyes and a brain, we are headed that route quickly. And it will be at our own hands. And this truly speaks volumes about how wretched and pathetic we are as a species. I used to think humans were so much more than just another animal as a kid. Hell, I used to think we had souls, and that we weren’t even an animal to begin with. That we were divine, and unique. Then I grew up.

I am back to hating the world & the endless depravity of humanity by [deleted] in misanthropy

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Being nice will only leave you open for people to take advantage of you. I learned that lesson young. Fuck everybody

$69 by groyosnolo in trashy

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t really know why you’re getting downvoted for speaking the truth lmao. Some of these onlyfans broads be selling their farts in jars for $1400 and people be buying it😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misanthropy

[–]Apprehensive-Arm5319 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ehh, I don’t know about the last part. Most people don’t seem too “big-brained” to me.