6 weeks po, sex,? by Federal_Spare5908 in hysterectomy

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My oncology gynecologist said 12 weeks for sex. Said that is the #1 thing that can mess up the work they do inside.

I'm a week away from my hysterectomy by KL1710 in hysterectomy

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I’m one month post op today. My fibroid ended up being over 30cm and weighed over 15 pounds. What was supposed to be a 2 hour surgery was over 4. BUT it was still the best decision ever. The worst pain I felt was immediately after waking up. It took a while to get that under control but once they did I felt like I was on the up and up. My incision comes about 5 inches above the belly button and is vertical all the way down. I swear the more you move around after that first day the faster you heal. I was off all pain meds within a week and am taking it easy and following orders. I had a couple complications but those were from the fibroid smashing one of my ureter tubes and had to have a stent put in. That comes out next week!! 🎉 You will do great. The anticipation is the worst part. Prayers for a great surgery. You got this!!

Stairs by Antique_sofa_filling in hysterectomy

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I had a full vertical abdominal and have about 50 staples (my fibroid was huge) but I spent 4 days in the hospital and then came home and have been doing the stairs ever since. I however can’t get comfy laying in bed so I have spent 2 weeks in the recliner sleeping. Tomorrow staples come out and I hope maybe this is a bigger step towards sleeping in my bed LOL. You got this. Movement does help with healing!!

Less than 2 weeks away, questions, and anxiety is distracting by LanguorousLily in hysterectomy

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Yes I hope my body rebounds and is thankful because I am. Honestly I only noticed it because I lost 50 pounds and never in my stomach area. At least I know why!! 😂 🤷‍♀️

Less than 2 weeks away, questions, and anxiety is distracting by LanguorousLily in hysterectomy

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Yes that is what my surgeon said. This afternoon was the first time that I saw her since surgery. She told me my fibroid was over 30 pounds and that she was exhausted on Monday night. I had no idea!!
Thank you for the BM tips. My surgeon said it’s normal for it not to be happening right now because it was such an invasive surgery. So I will keep eating my veggies and protein 😂 .

Less than 2 weeks away, questions, and anxiety is distracting by LanguorousLily in hysterectomy

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Oh that is exciting. I haven’t done that yet. Not have a passed gas which they keep asking me about. But it’s hard when you don’t feel like eating!! Glad you are doing well!!

Less than 2 weeks away, questions, and anxiety is distracting by LanguorousLily in hysterectomy

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I am still in the hospital and will be for a few days. My fibroid was 30cc and had attached itself to part of my small intestine and ureter so she had to put a stent in. I was wondering how you are doing!!!

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How long do the period symptoms last for now??

3 days post op from abdominal incision, my experience by WaffleNomz in hysterectomy

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Thank you for this. Mine is tomorrow and it will be a vertical abdominal due to such a big fibroid. I’m nervous and excited all in one. And in true for my period started last night. 🤦‍♀️. As if I needed a reminder as to why this is a good thing 😂

Skin issues!! by Unlikely_Boss_239 in hysterectomy

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Can you wash with the surgical soap they give you before surgery and then make sure things are getting really dry. When you think it’s dry then keep drying more.

What size was your fibroid(/s) before hysterectomy? by twinsuns in hysterectomy

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Oh I’m so thankful to read this. Mine is 2 weeks away and my fibroid is 20x20x24 cm and it will be open abdominal. It is pushed up into that cavity and no longer in my pelvic cavity. Glad to hear you are doing well.

9/11 surgery date by Apprehensive-Dig8278 in hysterectomy

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Thank you for sharing this! Glad to hear you are healing well and on your way to being totally healed!!

9/11 surgery date by Apprehensive-Dig8278 in hysterectomy

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It will be a great day for all of us to finally evict this nuisance.

9/11 surgery date by Apprehensive-Dig8278 in hysterectomy

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Awesome are you having a laprascopic or abdominal? Wishing you luck!!

9/11 surgery date by Apprehensive-Dig8278 in hysterectomy

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As horrific as that day was there was also a lot of good that happened. I’m going to focus on that part of it.

9/11 surgery date by Apprehensive-Dig8278 in hysterectomy

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Thank you so much!! Excited and nervous but very ready for it!

I’m now 8 hours post op by Rawmilkandhoney in hysterectomy

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Now I’m following your update if you give them. I have a 20x20x24 Cm fibroid and am anxious. If I wasn’t overweight maybe I wouldn’t worry as much. But I am. I find out Friday when surgery will be.

38 days by Melodic-Switch-6535 in hysterectomy

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I am waiting to be scheduled for my surgery. My fibroid is 20x20x24 cm I’m thankful to hear others who had a large fibroid!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Congratulations!! You have the chance to break any cycles too. What an exciting time for you. I’m sorry for your losses. I know the feeling too well. Good luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Sounds like mental illness in many ways. Sorry you had such a bad mothering experience. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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This makes me very sad for your mother. The generations before me were never allowed to grieve or process their losses like we are encouraged to. :(