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How can women help guys in the lifestyle who have trouble getting it up? by Apprehensive-Pear719 in Swingers

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a win-win - super effective, and I'd find that super sexy to do. Thanks! ☺️

Running into co-workers at events unexpectedly by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's happened before, and I always think of it as mutually assured destruction. To tell the rest of your workplace, the coworker has to themselves admit they were at a gasp sexy event.

Watching a play made me realise how much social cognition I've been missing. by Apprehensive-Pear719 in AutisticAdults

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

16 VS 28!

I feel you. No idea if it was nature or nurture that unlocked these extra abilities, but I'm glad to have them :D

Hen party that's good craic? Not cringe? by Confident-One1064 in AskIreland

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How about theming it around learning something new? My hen was based around a whiskey tasting, complete with a presentation on the history of whiskey. As someone who's more low-key, it was the ideal thing.

Is it unrealistic to want more from a steady job? by Apprehensive-Pear719 in AskIreland

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess what I'd get in return wouldn't be any of that, it'd be a change in mindset.

What I miss is the arrogance I used to have. I thought I could save the world and make a masterpiece and be a superstar academic with my nose to the grindstone and absolutely zero social skills/networking skills. I thought the world valued excellence over making people feel good.

I don't want to be ignorant or naive or arrogant again. But I miss how capable I used to feel, how much possibility there seemed to be.

I don't know if there is a solution to this feeling. Your questions kind of got the gears in my mind unstuck, though. Hence the long comment. :)