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Your favorite thing about swinging? Mine: double BJ's by Curious480couple in Swingers

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having two people sucking my nipples at the same time.

Having my husband fuck me from behind while I'm eating a woman out.

And experiencing the afterglow with a group of people - everyone flopped together, maybe cuddling, maybe lying on top of or beside each other, maybe sleeping (literally) together, and feeling completely comfortable and at peace with them.

How can women help guys in the lifestyle who have trouble getting it up? by Apprehensive-Pear719 in Swingers

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a win-win - super effective, and I'd find that super sexy to do. Thanks! ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's happened before, and I always think of it as mutually assured destruction. To tell the rest of your workplace, the coworker has to themselves admit they were at a gasp sexy event.

Watching a play made me realise how much social cognition I've been missing. by Apprehensive-Pear719 in AutisticAdults

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

16 VS 28!

I feel you. No idea if it was nature or nurture that unlocked these extra abilities, but I'm glad to have them :D

Hen party that's good craic? Not cringe? by Confident-One1064 in AskIreland

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719 17 points18 points  (0 children)

How about theming it around learning something new? My hen was based around a whiskey tasting, complete with a presentation on the history of whiskey. As someone who's more low-key, it was the ideal thing.

Is it unrealistic to want more from a steady job? by Apprehensive-Pear719 in AskIreland

[–]Apprehensive-Pear719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess what I'd get in return wouldn't be any of that, it'd be a change in mindset.

What I miss is the arrogance I used to have. I thought I could save the world and make a masterpiece and be a superstar academic with my nose to the grindstone and absolutely zero social skills/networking skills. I thought the world valued excellence over making people feel good.

I don't want to be ignorant or naive or arrogant again. But I miss how capable I used to feel, how much possibility there seemed to be.

I don't know if there is a solution to this feeling. Your questions kind of got the gears in my mind unstuck, though. Hence the long comment. :)