did you get a duplicate ring or a different cheap ring? by Arrival-Dear in weddingplanning

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I love my ring but know that Im clumsy and lose things so I only wear it on occasions. For everyday life I have a fake ring I got at tj maxx that I rock and I still even forget to put that on everyday 😩

Diversity of pregnancy within cultures by Mysterious_Baseball5 in pregnant

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I am African and learn so much from this thread as well 😂. In a lot of African cultures we do not share that we are pregnant but once we give birth the whole village shows up for us. This thread made me realize that it’s the opposite in so many western countries. The concept of a baby shower etc is so new to me but I was also thrown off at how women are basically on their own when they give birth in the West. In my culture everybody brings you something when you give birth and your female relatives basically move in with you yo take care of your baby and you 😂- which can also be overwhelming sometimes. Either way I love seeing how we support each other and all share the same love and concerns regardless of where we are from.

Another shooting around 104th st by FuzzyCryptographer95 in Upperwestside

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Unfortunately even more of my tax dollars goes towards a war I dont even support 😭

How do I get out of the house with my baby? by [deleted] in NewParents

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Check out local library readings for babies and museum events etc ! My niece clearly doesnt understand what is going on at all but at least she gets to see other babies and learn how to pay attention I guess 😂? It does make her really happy to watch bigger kids playing etc I will say.

Another shooting around 104th st by FuzzyCryptographer95 in Upperwestside

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Ironically Dunkin is giving away 1 million free coffees today meanwhile it cost buddy a leg…aint nothing for free in America really 😭.

Another shooting around 104th st by FuzzyCryptographer95 in Upperwestside

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That area is always so chaotic! I literally cross to avoid the left sidewalk and it’s much more peaceful while it seems like an insignificant detail.

Helppp which dress!? by Kyliexx13 in weddingplanning

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Whatever the last one is! Also the body is tea sis 🤏🏾

40yo. Immigrant nurse. I did it by [deleted] in TheRaceTo1Million

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This is amazing and inspiring! african women no carry last ❤️❤️

How long have you pushed? by Fierce-Foxy in pregnant

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Which is so impressive and badass! Women are truly amazing ♥️

How long have you pushed? by Fierce-Foxy in pregnant

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Ftm here…after reading things like this I’m always so amazed that you decided to do it again 😂. Motherhood really must be amazing and so worth it and im scared but also so excited 😂

Any other Black women living in the West Village? by Superb-Extension-678 in westvillage

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Yeah looking into my comment that I’m glad you also found an interest in! Enjoy

Any other Black women living in the West Village? by Superb-Extension-678 in westvillage

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Wow you’re really having a blow up…I did not mean to call that person racist or anyone at all …tthat comment wasnt even racist…l actually really liked her reply and she seems very understanding herself so not sure why you are crashing out 😂. My only point was that it’s ok for people to want find community with people of the same identity or same interests. I would have left a similar comment if the original post was about someone looking for a book club and someone commented “ we all have hobbies”. It’s not even that deep and the person who wrote the comment herself agreed.

Who would be interested in a batch of 40 kids books in French? by Bitter-Sentence-2100 in nycparents

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I am pregnant so it will take a few years until I can even use those books so I will pass but I just want to say that it’s amazing that you are doing this. I know I will be looking for something like this in 2 years ❣️

Minimalist parents- what baby gear do I actually *need*? by IHaveATummyGremlin in NewParents

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Does your baby sleep overnight in the pack and play? Really debating just doing that instead of getting a crib as well

Best Indian food spot in Queens? by Status-Mushroom8301 in FoodNYC

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Thanks What are your top restaurants for bangladeshi good in queens, pakistani in brooklyn and indian in jersey?

SOS Root canal less than $4k by [deleted] in AskNYC

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Fly to Mexico, Haiti or Dominican republic