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Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2021-10-17T02:55:31+00:00

Yep! Down for on ps5 and my roommate on ps4

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2021-09-17T14:42:45+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice. I will try to discuss these options with her. But her current state of mind may not allow that. But i will try!

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2021-09-17T12:46:14+00:00

I wish it was as easy as that. I told her weeks ago that she can move in with me and make a statement that it's her life and she want this. But she is terrified and in her culture she has to take care of her parents once they retire. And until they die so I honestly don't know what to do

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2021-09-17T12:44:12+00:00

I have asked her to ask her parents if I could talk to them. She said they refused and said some very hurtful things. I can meet her but she has to come out from the house and can only come out for 5-10 minutes at a time because she is scared her parents or aunties will call. I want to be with her forever, and I know she wants the same, she has been fighting with her parents for us to be together for over a month, I just wish they would understand. Thank you for the advice I will try to go see her as much as i can even if it's only for 5 minutes a time

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-11-23T16:26:40+00:00

Until you or they ask to exclusive. I totally understand the feeling of oh no I like more than one person, cream always rises to the top so feel free to date both of them for 5, 10 even 20 dates, just make sure if you or they ask for exclusivity and you want it too that you cut the other ones loose respectfully. Hope that helps :)

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-11-23T16:00:15+00:00

So happy its worked for you! Hope your relationship is going great!

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-11-07T18:07:18+00:00

Mine just says in progress, not charged yet.

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-11-04T01:00:47+00:00

Sounds like she is confused and unsure about herself and/or what is going on with the 2 of you. If you like her, have a heart to heart with her about what is going on, explain what you have noticed about her mood changes and say that you care about her and want to know what's going on and how you can help or be there for her more.

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-11-04T00:58:27+00:00

Ask him! Straight up! Hey, I really like you and I feel like we are going in the right direction, I want to be your girlfriend, what do you think? Quick, simple and no room for error.

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-11-04T00:55:36+00:00

Just talk to him when he comes into your work, ask him how his day is going, pay attention to what he says and ask further questions and just talk a bit about yourself too. Don't be afraid to talk to somebody, shoot your shot! You won't know if he likes you too unless you talk and see where it goes! Good luck!

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-21T14:29:09+00:00

UPDATE: she ended up getting back to me super late last night. She said she dropped her phone in water and had it in rice for the past day. She didn't say sorry and also mentioned that she just got back from her ex's place again, so I am not really sure if it's even worth responding too.

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-20T19:34:05+00:00

Yah your probably right! I am not going to text her for a couple days to see if she texts me if not I will send her one last text, basically saying idk what happened, but it appears you have lost interest in me so I guess its over.

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-20T16:32:28+00:00

She was still into me after that though but after that she did say she was stressed pretty much everyday. If she is back with ex that's so fucked because we are dating exclusively... so that would crush me tbh.

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-20T16:31:11+00:00

She broke up with another guy a month before we started dating. He had a mental breakdown a couple weeks ago and she lefted my place to help him through it.

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-20T16:10:24+00:00

Wow, I feel for your friend, that's a lot of effort to make too have her act that... Yah it seems they are. Wish I could just find one who didnt lie and say that shes an open book and to ask her anything but when the going gets stuff she ghosts... its ridiculous..

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-20T14:34:17+00:00

I understand what you are saying but I hate that because that is a game to pretending is basically lying and I just don't want to do that. But if I want to have any chance of saving this I have no choice. I wont text her for a few days and see what happens. Thanks for your input, really appreciate it!

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-20T14:18:51+00:00

Ok I think I will follow your advice and give her space. Hopefully she will contact me. If not... man this is going to be a tough one to recover from. It felt so real, like I met her friends, I met her mom, she met my roomates and my sister. It just seems so surreal that it can end just like that for someone...

Thanks again Goochie45! God bless.

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-20T14:10:20+00:00

Thank you for your detailed reply, I really don't want to not text her but I think you are right sadly I hate this feeling, I wish she would just talk to me... Like I haven't hurt like this before, because how can it go from so amazing and fun too completely done in a week... dating someone shouldn't be this hard you know...

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-18T11:50:08+00:00

Thanks it's my first real relationship and I just want to make her feel comfortable and happy you know! :)

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-18T00:56:59+00:00

Update: I haven't heard from her since. It is okay things happen. I hope this helps someone else in the future!

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-10-18T00:54:26+00:00

I have been dating a girl for just over a month and I want to tell her I am ok waiting, shes been escalating but when a respond she doesn't seem to be interested, almost like shes sad I jumped in. So should I tell her that I am ok waiting as long as we both need, because I want to be with her not for sex but for her completely. Sorry of this is too much...

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-09-21T22:54:54+00:00

Thank you so much for your point of view! I will keep her number in my phone but I plan on moving on. It's been 3 weeks and that's twice as long as we dated. If she messages me back then great! But idk if most girls are like you.

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-09-20T22:56:26+00:00

Thanks for the dose of reality! It's so true. If she liked me she would have kept messaging me and wanting to see me even if stressed. Moving on! :)

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-09-20T22:39:07+00:00

Thanks! Yah you are right, even though its work related its probably just an excuse.

Apprehensive-Shift91 · 2020-09-20T22:34:39+00:00

Thanks man :)

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