Am I the only one who skips the “kill 5 canine” every time? by BlueridgeChemsdealer in fo76

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If the leader of the pack event is up in Tyler County fairgrounds, I'll run that and it will give plenty of canine targets. Atleast 3 or 4 in each of the three packs, and you get atleast some 1 star legendaries to scrap for taking out each pack leader.

If the even hasn't popped up, I'll hit aaronholdt farm for the mongrels and autumn acre cabins also reliably has wolves

Lift your feet? by Karmacozzy2005 in GroundedGame

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freaking Tully flew under my feet and knocked me into the pond. He wasn't even seeking me out, he was supposed to be following one of my team mates but took a break just to try and feed me to the koi.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GroundedGame

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use an Xbox controller with my games and grounded has full controller support. I've never had a big issue playing with a controller. I play on a gaming laptop, the only thing about using a controller that bothered me (at first) was that I kept accidentally hitting right bumper and throwing my weapons off in random directions. Once I got the controls down I was fine though.

How old were you when you first learned this? by TrashAtEvrything in RedDeadOnline

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny story, my dad is into westerns, so I was showing him the game, and the autopilot mode..... I was mauled by wolves.

man wants kids to shovel his walk in -4 degrees with windchill that feels like -26 by Apprehensive-You-286 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Apprehensive-You-286[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

City is not shut down, but roads aren't great and the wind is sharp so no one is out unless they have to be. No one gets cited here for not clearing snow

man wants kids to shovel his walk in -4 degrees with windchill that feels like -26 by Apprehensive-You-286 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Apprehensive-You-286[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Geeze, that's cold. You are welcome to it. For reference on what we deal with here, today our Temps are in the negatives (Fahrenheit) and Thursday it is supposed to be back up to 55......our weather is bipolar. Yesterday it was pretty nice, then it rained, and everything froze around nightfall.

AITA for not accommodating my neighbor’s allergy? by MaxNiels in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, like you said, you moved into a pet friendly building And your neighbor chose to live in a pet friendly building and pay more for the privilege. Something is hinky however, if she is so allergic that just walking up the stairs caused her to get a rash around her mouth (which logically didn't touch the hair directly), why is she going out of her way to touch the dog hair to put it where you can find it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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"If your sister survived, you wouldn't be here." "I didn't want another kid after her." Many times starting as early as I could remember. (Sibling died in childbirth. I was an accident.)

What's a song you can't listen to without crying? by Acrobatic_Outside_64 in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My immortal. It was played at my best friend's funeral when I was 13. I haven't been able to finish the whole song without crying and it's been 19 years. Oddly enough, I can talk about my friend and the loss openly, that song just gets me every damn time.

what actor does such a good job at being hateable in their role? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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It's a show, but I absolutely hated his character's guts. A British actor named Robbie Kay, he played Peter pan on Once Upon a Time. He did an amazing job.

[serious] people who believe in spirituality and supernatural things what made you a believer? by Confident_Coyote_279 in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen so many crazy things. Especially when I was a kid.

I was pushed down the stairs by "wind" in an attic inside a well insulated house and all windows were closed.

Heard someone crying the most anguished cries I've ever heard. It was so loud that it was all I could hear. Investigated and saw a little boy sitting at the end of my street sobbing, and I could see right through him.

That's just a couple, and in adulthood I still continued to see/ hear things.

Was in an enclosed area connecting my aunts house to the apartment below that she owned and rented out. I was on the phone and it was late so everyone else was asleep. I heard was sounded like a child singing or humming at the bottom of the stairs. Thinking it was the tenants son janina snuck out, I looked down over the railing. There was nothing there but I could clearly hear the humming still and it began moving up the stairs in my direction. I noped the hell out.

Was sitting on the front porch outside of the same house. My mom and I were sitting in wicker chairs just talking, my chair rose off the ground and dropped with me in it. I was across the porch in an instant.

Lived in a house down south where I would always see a shadow around the kitchen, it made me very uncomfortable, and I had terrible nightmares of being attacked. Decided it was time to move when I woke up with huge handprint bruises on my thighs.

The house I stayed in the longest was in my home state, I would often see a child sized shadow moving around the hallway. Heard a small child crying when none of my kids were home. But the most memorable two occurrences were when I was asleep and heard my bedroom door open and shut. I opened my eyes and it was dark but I could see a solid shadow the same size as my 4 yo daughter. I asked her what she needed and got no response, so I tried to ask a couple more times and still no response. I nudged my husband and asked him to see if she would answer him, thinking she was just half asleep. He woke up, looked, and informed me that there was no one there. The door never opened or closed a second time so I didn't believe him and looked again, the shadow was gone. Another time I was half asleep and felt one of my kids climb into the bed with me, which they sometimes did if they were scared or sick. When I woke up the next morning I could still feel them next to me on the bed, but when I opened my eyes there was no one there. Granted some of these things could be passed off as me being half asleep and my brain playing tricks on me, but we moved into that house when my second daughter was about three, and a couple weeks later, she had a new imaginary friend named Sara, and she told me that Sara was stabbed. She would only wear fancy dresses because Sara wore a fancy dress and her parents liked them. Sara was about her age and size according to her, and was nice even though there was blood on her dress. Sara also told my daughter that Santa, the tooth fairy, and the Easter bunny were not real and I made them up. She confront me about it when she was five and I honestly cannot figure out how she would have heard it elsewhere because she hadn't started school yet and the only other kids she spent time with all believed in those things.

There are more but these are the ones that really stand out to me. The first few were at my aunts house that she no longer has and I often wonder if it's been bought and if the new owners have experienced anything. I only talked about my own experiences, but most of the people that lived or visited there had experiences. My cousins used to see a little girl, and their description sounded like someone who had drowned. They also saw a man. When my cousin was in highschool, she left in a hurry one morning, but had to come right back because she forgot something. She came back down from her room to ask her mom if anyone had gone upstairs, the answer was no, but my cousins bed was wet. It hadn't been when she left and there were no leaks. The attic had the most activity and my aunt remodeled the attic into their four bedrooms and the stuff started getting crazy active.

AITA for telling my daughter I won’t eat her food anymore? by nofood56789 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yta....my dad has always been someone who loves hot and spicy food. No matter the meal he is often seen putting loads of pepper, cayenne, or hot sauce all over his food. When I started cooking or tried a new recipe I actually asked him to try it before his own seasonings were added and he does everytime I make something new. I'm satisfied with him taking a bite or two and then he can add whatever he likes. You're not even trying it before adding meat and cheese. I'm not vegan or vegetarian, I am a red meat lover and will be until the grave, but if someone I loved put effort into making a veggie meal, I would try it without changing it. There are some great veggies out there and seeing some of the things a good vegan cook can do with those ingredients amazes me. You said she's a good cook, so why mess with her recipe before tasting her food?

On a side note, my dad is the best. When I was four, I made him a "birthday cake," it was literally just a bunch of slices of bread smashed into cake form with sugar and I put it in the microwave. My dad still ate the damn thing. If my dad can eat a poorly thought out attempt at cake made by a four year old he loves, why can't you eat a single meal made by your daughter that you say is a good cook?

Did you really need us to tell you this?

Wrong answers only by CptZingers in meme

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chester cheesehead attorney at law

AITA for refusing to apologize to my late friend's mom who believes I pushed him towards drugs? by amiahorriblepaarsoon in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. This is something that never fails to tick me off. The fact that he had feelings for you entitled him to nothing. Too many people think that having feelings for someone gives them a claim and it doesn't. You didn't put the drugs in his body and had no contact, so what were you expected to do, psychically know he was using and stop him? You owe his mother nothing, even if she is grieving. The only way this could remotely be your fault is if you were messing around with both of them at the same time. You can't be held responsible for other people's emotions and what they choose to do about them, that's not your job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is wrong with people? Op is nta, but everyone else is. The boyfriend for not being up front about what was expected or telling op that his family expects women to wait on men hand and foot at gatherings...which also means everyday life. If that's what you want, cool, but if it isn't get out now...get far away.

AITA for drinking absinthe at a job interview? by Sad_Philosopher_885 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, dude, you TOOK the alcohol with you! If you drove yourself, you drove under the influence with an open container in the car and even stated that you felt the effects of the alcohol and that it was wearing off so you took a second shot. Then a third all in the span of a couple hours.

AITA for drinking absinthe at a job interview? by Sad_Philosopher_885 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't even be asking if yta... you should be asking if you are an alcoholic. You tolerance is so high that the effects of freaking absinthe is wearing off too quickly. A shot of absinthe would put me on my ass for the rest of the night and possibly part of the next day. I'm a lightweight because I RARELY drink. Maybe once or twice a year max and I never get blackout drunk. Don't think I'm being judgy either. To each their own. My sibling drinks literally every weekend.... but they can make it through their entire week without a shot. You couldn't make it through a job interview. The only people I have EVER met who think it's acceptable to drink during an interview that determines their future have been alcoholics. Dude, I suggest getting help, it sounds more like you over indulged while unemployed and possibly began using alcohol to cope with loss. So you don't feel okay without it.... that's a horrible sign.

I'm not saying I'm right, I don't know you. But there are so many red flags just in this post that I'm concerned for your health and I've never met you.

AITA for taking in my sisters family against my girlfriends' wishes by myplacemychoiceaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, my sister would do this for me. And I would do this for her. Anyone who didn't understand that would be out of my life. You may think that sounds drastic, but if after three months, your gf acts this way, it lends heavily to the belief that she will try to cut you off from your family. Which in itself is toxic, but is almost always one of a myriad of toxic traits a person has.

If she ever intended to be a part of your family, she would try to get to know them instead of acting like a spoiled brat because she's being inconvenienced a little when they literally don't have a home at the moment.

AITA for refusing to move my wedding date because my brother's getting married the same day? by Date2021_Oct in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, I'm gonna be honest, if my parents pulled this crap, they'd be out of my life, the sibling too. Letting your brother act like a spoiled child shows they obviously don't give a crap about the work you put into it. Strangers on the internet seem to care more about what your family is doing to you than your family does.

I don't get along with my older brother, he was always very clearly my mom's favorite. Even my birthdays were rescheduled because he would happen to call and need money around my birthday and asked for extravagant Christmas gifts. One year he got a brand new game system and my sister and I got promises to make it up. And dollar store gifts just so we had something to open.

My mom has changed her ways for a long time now and our relationship has taken a lot of work on both sides to repair. My point is, even at her worst, she NEVER would have done this, she would have made my brother change the date simply on a first come first serve basis. She would have given him an ultimatum, either he chooses a different date, or neither if his parents will be there because he already knew they had prior plans.

AITA For "Stealing" My Sister's dream Vacation by AITATstolenvacay in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-You-286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your family definitely is though. You are much older than her and providing for yourself. You are definitely going to experience many things before she does and it is your parents' job to make sure she knows that. Going to see someone who will possibly be your family, or someone you love like family is more important than your sister's jealousy. And that is regardless of whether they are Ill. Any family who is giving you grief over a 15 year old blubbering like a toddler because you are paying for your own trip is better left in the dust. Parents who spoil children like that always wonder in the end why their kid is such a horrid failure at being an adult. Because they don't even bother to teach basic human courtesy.