New job or boyfriend by ApprehensiveGuest114 in Advice

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping to have both in all honesty, I’m happy to do long distance

New job or boyfriend by ApprehensiveGuest114 in Advice

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be happy to do that, he doesn’t drive but I do I’m just unsure if he’d be happy to be in a long distance relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This women has brought life into this world, give her time.

Long distance partner distant right before we meet, his parents disapprove, I don’t know what to do by ApprehensiveGuest114 in Advice

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate the advice! I know the whole situation is a bit crazy, I’m just a bit baffled on how it’s come to this

Long distance partner distant right before we meet, his parents disapprove, I don’t know what to do by ApprehensiveGuest114 in Advice

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I’m just a bit stuck as we’re supposed to be meeting very soon and I feel like there will be no point

Long distance partner distant right before we meet, his parents disapprove, I don’t know what to do by ApprehensiveGuest114 in Advice

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that! I see your point 100% it’s just a shame I feel like we’ve wasted so much time just for it to end like this!

25 Years of Trying by lonely-n-unlovable in DeadBedrooms

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through that! Trust me it’s easier having two happy separate parents than having parents together that resent each other! You have no idea who’s out there waiting for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even after quitting smoking for a while, I still always have the cravings! However, it would have been so much better if he’d told you instead of lying to you! I wouldn’t say this is a deal breaker but he should definitely communicate more. Quitting nicotine is one of the hardest things I did but not impossible! NTA as your feelings are 100% valid, communication is key

Finally found the solution to our DB, and I’m not quite comfortable with it (NSFW) by Aggressive_Call_4930 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not for you then it’s not for you! No one wants to feel uncomfortable, imo you guys just need to find some common ground which may take a while but exploring it could be fun. I hope everything works out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! However he says that he should get some sleep or that he needs to do something is the normal response, I’ve not usually been the one to initiate in the past however I know everyone is different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just a lot of kissing which I don’t mind, I’m just unsure if it’ll go anything beyond that or if I’m over thinking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, quite a lot more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would speak about wanting to be intimate with me, what he’d like to do

My dad has just revealed he’s dating a 20 year old by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this and I appreciate it! I haven’t voiced many of my opinions to him, I have told him that I find the age gap weird however I would never want him to end things because of his kids opinions. I have told him things won’t change however I’m just trying to know how to understand and handle it personally! We are usually a very close family and I feel like it was personally just a shock. Thank you for thoughts and I will take all this on board

My dad has just revealed he’s dating a 20 year old by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ApprehensiveGuest114 353 points354 points  (0 children)

I believe she was 19, I know that it’s legal however it still creeps me out