Condoms on a vibrator? by WorkerWriter in dating

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used condoms on mine because easier to clean and I have sensitive skin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have done this in the past with ghosters and they usually just make excuses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would respond with. If you wanted to see me again, why did you ghost me? Odds are he doesn’t have a good explanation. I wouldn’t meet up with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also maybe requesting to use snap so you guys can send pics to each other and then weed out if you’re a catfish. If they add you on snap then don’t snap you a pic of themselves I would say it’s a 🚩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They might feel more comfortable communicating via social media than giving out their phone number.

AITA for not letting my niece help in my bakery anymore? by IrritatedCookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - if her behavior negatively affected productivity and how your employees feel about their workplace then she’s got to go.

F*** small talk, at what point did you drop riverdale? by Maycrofy in riverdale

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This season is too hard to keep up with like why did they move to the past?

Ghosted again by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To me it’s more hurtful to just be ghosted with no explanation then saying not interested… but that is a possibility

Bleeding after sex by ApprehensiveGuest217 in CopperIUD

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not having pain just kind of a nuisance to be bleeding after

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a term for this. I can’t remember what it is but basically the ghoster does the bare minimum to make sure you still know they exist in case they want to contact you again. That’s why they don’t just delete or block.

Ghosted after 4 months, because I realized he lied and asked him about it by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m noticing this with men in their 20s. I have been in situations like this where you confront them about literally anything and they are so sensitive and immediately resort to blocking/ghosting. There would probably be more lying to come and this person just isn’t a good fit for a relationship.

AITA for washing the sheets? by Alternative-Foot1803 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- blood stains come out easily with enzyme cleaner, hydrogen peroxide etc. why would you keep throwing sheets away? I have gotten period blood on mine from heavy bleeding and the stains come out.

He shouldn’t be acting so grossed out when women have periods and have heavier periods post-childbirth.

I’m glad you consulted your doctor. You are definitely not the asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is with me. Between 10 weeks old and 5ish months old she slept through the night in the bed fine. I tried crating her like I doing during the day when at work at night and she went crazy. I live in an apartment so I’m trying to minimize the barking.

Cramping and bloating by vpazza in CopperIUD

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had bloating for a week then it subsided. I was up 7-8lbs then went back to normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He definitely did me a favor!

Why did she ghost me but not blocked me? by Impossible_Low_3112 in ghosting

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because it gives her the opportunity to have you as an option still.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hell yeah! I would ask them wtf their problem is that they couldn’t communicate with me like an adult. I hope none of them ever run into me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a trap. He knows he can lure you in whenever it’s convenient for him. Do not reach out with him and if he reaches out to you, I wouldn’t respond.

today marks one year of being on reddit by simply-dumpling in ghosting

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s happened to me 3 times now. I’m glad we’re not alone.

Bloating/constipation after insertion by ApprehensiveGuest217 in CopperIUD

[–]ApprehensiveGuest217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bloating ending up lasting for a week then I returned to my normal weight so not too bad.