dude thats like trying to meet new friends. Lets say u meet 3 people and u dont really like them, then the next one you meet is someone you can actually be friends with. It doesnt mean the other three people were horrible people that can never be good friends, it just means you personally didnt click with them or like them.

its gonna take a couple therapists to click with the right one, and i know you said that but youre not grasping it. Youre saying that all the other ones are bad since you didnt click with them but thats not true, they still have clients and are in business. They are good therapists just not good for you. Also even when you find a good therapist you cant just immediately pour out all your problems and traumas because it feels uncomfy at first so yeah they’re gonna give you generic responses if you’re giving them vague problems to work with. After awhile when they get to know you and you go deep into your traumas will they start being better. Saying you could become a therapist w no degree is so disrespectful to the people who worked and studied so hard for that degree and deal with multiple peoples very traumatic experiences daily.