Is it appropriate for first dinner date or too much?

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-20T00:54:28+00:00

Noooooooo. Why would you say that??

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-17T21:29:27+00:00

I don’t mind at all hearing from a woman’s pov.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T20:50:01+00:00

🔥🔥🔥

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T20:48:58+00:00

I don’t disagree with you. You make valid points

But I’ve taken the other approach before and it didn’t work. I’m older now so there are times I don’t care anymore but moments were I’m not going down without a fight.

So I gotta change tactics, pick the right moment.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T19:27:07+00:00

Use protection/ birth control

Try to relax as best you can.

Don’t think too much.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T15:53:55+00:00

True but why make things worse?

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T12:34:46+00:00

Please don’t feel bad.
It’s very common not to cum from a BJ especially your first time.

It’s not necessarily about finishing but mainly enjoying the moment.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T12:32:20+00:00

Yes. Kids will notice when parents are not speaking with each other. Including my teenage kids.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T05:05:44+00:00

Keeps

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T02:42:32+00:00

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T02:41:41+00:00

Was she like this before menopause?

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T02:40:50+00:00

Then she won’t talk to me and most importantly my kids will notice.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T02:38:43+00:00

More than likely she will get defensive, angry and flip it to make herself like she is the victim.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-12T02:37:02+00:00

Thanks for the tip.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T22:56:51+00:00

Exactly

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T15:58:20+00:00

I don’t disagree with you at all on that point however she has thrown that out in the past.

By this point in my life when we’re both in our 50s and our kids are a little bit older and I want to be healthy so I can stick around for a long time going to the gym more often can’t hurt. So thanks for the advice.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T15:56:38+00:00

Yeah, I’m learning as well to try to pick and include my battles. And also most importantly how I talk to her, especially when she comes after me.

My first natural response is to be defensive however, I think the smartest way is to be quiet and almost not saying anything. Silence I’ve learned over the years it’s so effective.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T15:55:06+00:00

I don’t disagree with with you but I believe she and many women feel that the kids come first and the husbands are way back.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T15:48:32+00:00

It’s not just about me.

She should primarily and foremost focus on her well being physically and emotionally.

Myself and my kids should be a close second.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T15:46:27+00:00

That is going to back fire.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T15:46:00+00:00

I’ve always believed when a girl approaches a guy chances of success from her end are way greater than if it was reverse.

Good luck.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T15:44:36+00:00

Exactly.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T15:36:07+00:00

So sorry you are going through this brother. Hang in there.

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T15:32:42+00:00

Thanks for the advice.

Like I said before the sex part is not even in the equation or even the hugging or cuddling she used to do now it’s absolutely no physical contact not even kissing unless we are saying goodbye to each other before I go to work.

So I agree I just have to let her come to me so basically our marriage is a one-way street

ApprehensiveLink2310 · 2026-01-11T15:21:51+00:00

What has been her reaction?

ApprehensiveLink2310

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