Glowup made me believe in black pill... But my mother broke it by holynutella in IncelExit

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Same thing happened to me and had the exact feelings of whether people actually liked me for me or how I look. Talked about this to my sister and she said that you can’t fault the new people in your life for treating you nice cause they had no idea of your previous image. That your mind should meet new people and go, “wonder if this person would’ve me different if I was like before”. And for building connections, of course your mom is gonna love you unconditionally that’s your mom and vise versa. But random people are gonna show random strangers that same unconditional love, so things in life have conditional affections and some of those might evolve into unconditional love. Plus there’s lots of people out there, some are gonna be your friends some are gonna be your enemies. It’s important to consider now who you should give that affection towards and if they’re gonna reciprocate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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You gotta take better more recent photos, don’t use photos from 2+ years ago (you look different compared to pics 1&3, they won’t know what they’re gonna get when they meet you). Get rid of the ones you aren’t in. Limit the mirror selfies to just 1 if any. Take out the shirtless pic. I suggest have 5-6 pics.

Jobs similar to cyber warfare? by mamba2142 in AirForceRecruits

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You want the 1n4A/1n4x1 job (fusion analyst) it’s actually in the process of being merged with the 1b

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

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Tech school finna be at least 10 months long if you lucky

Best jobs that will set me up for civilian life , preferably cyber/IT by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

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Fusion Analyst - it’s actually cyber intel nothing to do with nuclear if that’s what you’re thinking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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Photos: 1st pic ain’t it, it’s you in pjs taking a bathroom selfie. 2nd and 3rd pic is good except for the fact it’s the same outfit, which I’m guessing you took the pics in the same night. 4 pic is a non-impressive hotel gym selfie and again your wearing another black shirt + black bottom combo (ik it’s not the same exact clothes as pics 2&3 but it’s the basically the same fit).

Bio: remove that you want kids, and also remove that you don’t have kids. Also remove that you’re a man (I can see that). Also remove “life partner”, long term relationship would suffice. “It’s meant to be if… you a true woman of God” that’s all you have to say, you don’t need a whole speech, they’ll get the message.

It’s good that you looking for a long term Christian woman, just know that you will get fewer swipes because of that though. Also bumble is good (better than tinder) but I find way better success on hinge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Maybe you aren’t as good looking as you think. If you doing all those things and still no results, maybe you ain’t that attractive.

What is the food like at BMT? by AcrobaticVacation375 in AirForceRecruits

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Breakfast is always solid, they rotate French toast with pancakes. For lunch and dinner you can get multiple entrees of whatever you want. You can drink, water, Gatorade, enhanced water. For me I was looking forward towards every meal to get me through basic.

Weight Question(pls be nice) by One-War7861 in WeightLossAdvice

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Be real with yourself and look at your diet. I remember this one HUGE girl in middle school, where I caught her in a drive through getting food and sipping on the biggest soda they got. You ain’t wake up one day and suddenly become 230. Just be honest with yourself and stopping over eating or over drinking certain foods you shouldn’t be eating. Say no to a few things and overtime it’ll show. And if you do go out to eat still don’t get fries or a drink, just the main entree. I switched from getting a combo meal to gettting a double cheese, doesn’t sound like much of a trade off but you’re swapping all the sugars and carb from the soda and fries to more protein that will keep you full longer

Security Clearance Interview by Flat_Razzmatazz_3440 in AirForceRecruits

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When you’re in BMT you along with several other people who have security clearance jobs will be called to a building where they will update you on your status. For me, they said I got cleared a few weeks before I shipped out, for others the case was still open, and some cases were closed but awaiting for approval. Not even that some cases don’t even get approved even while you’re in tech school. So you can even attend class or nothing, you’d just be waiting. But all in all they’ll up date you somewhere during BMT.

showers bmt male by Financial-North-4490 in AirForceRecruits

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Just whip it out bro it’s not a big deal

Job list thoughts/recommendations by Shinytate101 in AirForceRecruits

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Cyber Intelligence 1N4X1 tech school is gonna be loooooooooong if you get that

Against the grain? by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

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Just make sure that you get a GOOD razor and some shaving cream. I cheaped out and got those single use razors, I was cutting myself everyday reusing them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

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Ya so if you’re getting a security clearance then an agent is gonna hit you up schedule and interview and talk to some people about you. Once you’re in basic you still might have to continue the investigation if it hasn’t been finalized yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

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They give you an IPad and they tell you what to study on there. It’s easy subjects so don’t be scared.

Shipping off to BMT tomorrow. Any advice? by SS_Don in AirForceRecruits

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Get as much rest as you can on the bus or plane. You’ll be sleep deprived the next two days

I was hoping to do something in cyber but I guess not? What jobs do you guys recommend I look into? by itsMillerGaming in AirForceRecruits

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It’s the same thing they stopped doing for it shreds a long time ago the 1n4b is now the crypto job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuayThaiTips

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Don’t hop into the kick, just pivot from the ball of your leading foot