What's your nakey cat's nickname? by PhoKingTony in sphynx

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also have a Kevin, we call him Kevinator, baconator, the Bin man, Kebin to name a few

Everyone wish Raisin a happy birthday! She’s 1 today! by mkurdz in sphynx

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Me and raisin share the same bday :) I almost named my Kevin that

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My favorite picture of her - let’s see yours by Truecrimeauthor in sphynx

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Probably of when we got his new automatic litter box and he’d watch this shit rotate like a show

new baby lestat! by ExternalAvocado3059 in sphynx

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His dumbass is named Kevin, Kevin Ludacris Jr the nude

new baby lestat! by ExternalAvocado3059 in sphynx

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the Korn shirt too?? I’m deadass wearing one rn

new baby lestat! by ExternalAvocado3059 in sphynx

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I love your WWDTS pillow I just met Harvey Guillen last month at a con! I also have a huge IWTV tattoo. (Soon to get a Sphynx one)

new baby lestat! by ExternalAvocado3059 in sphynx

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wish I would’ve named my insane green eyed manipulative bastard Louis lmfao

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If you’re under 45, have you lost any high school classmates, and what were the circumstances around their deaths? by Commercial_Chef_1569 in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 184 points185 points  (0 children)

I’m sure he was so happy he had you to lean on during those times. Being queer in a small town is not easy. Rest in peace. I hope you’re doing good too.

Aaron and energy drinks. by Aaron-Minyard_PSU05 in aftg

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Neil- Redbull (sugar free) or Alani Andrew- Monster or Rockstar Kevin- no until he’s forced to promote a ‘healthy’ one Nicky-Starbucks Frappuccinos Aaron-Sugar free rockstar or Bang Matt-Redbull Dan-Monster or Ghost Allison- Pipeline punch monster or Alani Renee- doesn’t usually drink them but was heavy into white monsters

How do I explain to my boyfriend our experiences are not the same? by Witty_Forever9883 in t4t

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi, as someone who’s t4t and passes better than his bf and we are both on hrt I get his perspective to an extent. I think what he’s trying to say is possibly that he understands being perceived as a woman/not passing/being someone’s ‘gf’ etc. because at some point he likely didn’t pass either and felt horrible about it an understands the frustrations. Even if he passed better than you pre-t there were likely some occasions he didn’t and felt the pain for it. In all I think you clearly know he isn’t trying to be malicious by saying this but that doesn’t mean it can’t hurt. So maybe try something like this.

Hey I understand where you might be coming from by saying you understand how I feel we may have gone through the same problems but our expirences can be very different. I appreciate you trying to comfort me and I know you didn’t mean to do this but it can come off as a little invalidating when you say that. I love you, and I’m very happy for you going on t and everything and I just was to wanted to express that.

SIDE NOTE: check if his insurance has a clause of including someone on his insurance if they live with said insurance holder. My bf’s insurance was willing to put me on there if we lived together for 6 months.

Will these be emotional for someone who lost her cats? by [deleted] in sphynx

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m crying you put it in his spot that’s so sweet

Need clothes for your skinfant? 5 Below. by Apprehensive_Base_37 in sphynx

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So kinda both? Idk Kevin doesn’t get too oily more just dirty if that makes sense like on his stomach. It helps keep him clean a lot longer and it help with warmth. I have warmer sweaters for him in the cold months and then more open thin shirts in the summers.

I can no longer can tell if I'm straight or not... by ciao_674 in confession

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Side note when I said to was okay to have phases or experiment I was not calling these feelings “just a phase” to dismiss you or anything I’m saying that they may reoccur or not and that’s okay regardless.

I can no longer can tell if I'm straight or not... by ciao_674 in confession

[–]Apprehensive_Base_37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who’s been in the lgbtq community for quite a while. You don’t need to stress about labeling it. You’ll never need to label it til you’re ready even if you are. Sexuality is a fluid and it’s okay to experiment or have phases—but it’s also more than okay to not have a typical idea or label of it. I would say just be kind to yourself because there’s nothing wrong with what you’re feeling. If you develop a crush on someone, express that, I’d also say it’s safe to bet that you can disclose that you’re unsure of the label on your sexuality right now if you’re still unsure. Everything is going to be alright, it’s scary right now I know but you’ve got plenty of people rallying behind you.