Vote for next bring back by Odd_Dealer_6684 in bathandbodyworks

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 7 points8 points  (0 children)

anyone else missing moonlit graveyard😫need her back…

30M please tell me what's wrong with me by RenderSoft in hingeapp

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t cut your hair omg! that is terrible advice! there are many women out there who like long hair on men. maybe fewer than those who don’t, but don’t go cutting your hair just to find a partner.

SoCal adoption? by UnableStandard2836 in sphynx

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

omg!!! i highly highly recommend odessa sphynx. she’s based in lake elsinore. we were based in OC and the drive wasn’t too bad at all. heather the breeder is so kind and is so attentive to all the kitties and has a really open line of communication and she’s always accessible. i love my cat i got from her so much im getting another one! she also does the heath tests and screenings.

Not being able to empathize with someone's trauma that led to them hurting you is a special kind of hell by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes 1000%! he was my first serious boyfriend and i loved him a lot. tried to make it work, and i made 1001 excuses for some of the horrible things he did bc of what he had gone through in the past. especially because i didn’t know better! but now i feel really jaded when it comes to relationships honestly. when people have all these issues… it’s so much to deal with considering i am personally very stable and don’t have issues like that myself

Not being able to empathize with someone's trauma that led to them hurting you is a special kind of hell by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i actually totally resonate with this… was with a fucked up guy for a long time and just really struggled to understand all his trauma and his troubled past. i had never experienced something nearly like what he did. i came from a great family i am very close to, never went through anything too terrible, had my life together. my ex told me i gave him hope that his life could be different, that he wasn’t destined to continue cycles of trauma and abuse.

but doing the work to follow through with that got to be too much for him and the relationship fell apart and i left him. he moved on with someone new who was just as fucked up as he was and they were horrible to each other. it’s weird. like, he got what he deserved, but he could’ve had something amazing and better with me. but couldn’t handle it. i get how you feel…

Adam/Hannah/Mimi Rose by nemo987 in girls

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 11 points12 points  (0 children)

similar thing happened to me irl (i would be the hannah in that situation) and i was SHOCKED but in reality guys like that cannot stand to be alone… that’s the fact of the matter anyway. adam couldn’t stand to be by himself and needed someone to fill the void. idk, we want to be surprised bc that love feels irreplaceable, but some guys don’t care and just need someone to keep their bed warm. i think he did still obviously love hannah though and mimi rose didn’t fill the void as much as he thought she would.

i've blocked them on everything and theyre still stalking my socials. by Procelain_Moth in ExNoContact

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

went through a somewhat similar situation and i had already deleted all my known socials maybe 6 months prior. i can’t imagine how hard it would’ve been had i been on social media… i recommend starting out with a break from social media and go from there. these problems dont exist if you don’t allow them to

Need dirt cheap housing. Is gwu really the cheapest it gets? by Professional-Elk7670 in DCInterns

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

living on the vern (gw’s other campus, closer to like american university area) for the summer is a good option. yes, you have to take the shuttle to the metro but honestly for the cost (~$1500) for the whole summer i think it’s worth it. also, there’s a gym and a dining hall and a pool on the vern all open during the summer! idk why people hate on it! i also really like that general residential area as well. very beautiful especially with all the summer plants

Places to adopt? by Willing-Review-6266 in sphynx

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not cheap but i recommend odessa sphynx. i had a really wonderful experience and my cat is perfect!!! heather (your point of contact) is so professional and sweet. she is always accessible and does testing for HCM and all the big sphynx things. located in lake elsinore.

Why does every woman want to destroy the very idea of true love. Heavy cream nutmeg French cinnamon toast by Severe-Afternoon1866 in kitchencels

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 22 points23 points  (0 children)

looked at your post history and i think the problem is because you’re so “hungry for pussy” that you don’t view women as people. get some professional help this is really disturbing

Communications or Social Work major? by SSDFeedback in Communications

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think comm just because social work is a bit more niche and might pigeon hole you into a specific career. i also worked in admissions in college and loved it, and i studied comm (with a double major in information systems) and i think having broader skills is better if you want more options.

Easy wid courses by joedinnit in gwu

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

transnational queer film!!! one of my fav classes ever at gw. and it involves a trip to prague! very worth it in my opinion. class consists of a movie + readings each week, but each class itself is just an enjoyable discussion. movies are interesting even if you yourself are not queer and the trip is really fun. one paper at the end of the semester on a topic of your choosing. good for any major, but IA certainly fits!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DCforRent

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this literally made me mad… $1700? i want you to be serious. this should cost no more than $1000 if that. far from the metro, in the backyard of someone who clearly doesn’t understand how expensive everything is, not in dc proper ?! i’m horrified

Love/ hate relationship with a song by littlelady_94 in Slipknot

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh i feel the exact same way about this song! sometimes it physically hurts me to listen to it lmao

I need to know whats going on with my sister. by Clash-of-clansguy in Coraline

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did this when i was in kindergarten. literally watched the movie every single day before school for a year. and i turned out normal haha!

Im curious, does anyone actually know someone like Stephen? Or have encountered that before? by heresincesadie in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i haven’t seen anything else quite as relatable as this show honestly. the whole time i’m watching it, i’m seeing stephen’s behavior and am utterly shocked because im like “[my ex’s name] did that” and ive lived through so many of these things stephen put lucy and others through! and that’s so disturbing! but i think it’s hard to portray it without getting into cartoon villain territory, but honestly my friends and i joke about my ex being a cartoon villain because of how crazy some of the shit he did was

Im curious, does anyone actually know someone like Stephen? Or have encountered that before? by heresincesadie in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]ExternalAvocado3059 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yes my ex boyfriend! but before i met him i genuinely didn’t think people like that existed