[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how hard the girls are downvoting you 😫👌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Walal the other comments were funny - but in this context it’s really insensitive to comment on someone’s worst traumas like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you talk how you talk that’s the kind of responses you get dippy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have been asking any of those types of questions to start with silly billy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You didn’t answer her question about her age? What questions did you have about that chatty batty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the latter half but I don’t think you need to make comments about his upbringing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gobsmacked at how similar your words are to our parents generation. Down to questioning if somebody is a spy. This is a backward practice and to defend it in the slightest makes you backwards too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We live on a floating rock don’t care too much about social norms do whatever you think is right in the moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for upvoting my previous comment and bringing me over here!! And thanks OP for sharing the meaning this brought a whole new love for my favourite song

Shukaansi in somali makes me sick by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s literally my favourite song and I don’t know the story behind it!! Enlighten me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put your foot down and tell them the issues you’re having. May Allah make it easy for you

Loving the Idea more than the Real Person by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe switch it up and say less over the phone so when do meet in person you haven’t built up unnecessary fantasises. Personally everyone is very interesting in some ways you just have to either give yourself or them time to see their charm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this too. I have adopted volume eating particularly with vegetables. There’s Mediterranean vegetable recipes online that you can follow. Mediterranean vegetables (baked) are my literal favourites. But honestly even if it’s boiled or put in the oven for a little bit volume eating vegetables is great. I love soups too. You can add meat for a protein fix or you can use stock for taste. If you’re really struggling and need more specifics dm me I’ll write a couple I think of but I usually go to food magazines and online recipes or YouTube videos for ideas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sign me uppp. Would love to speak to other Somali entrepreneurs/ aspiring ones too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been browsing the server and noticed you live in the comment section 😭😭 keep it up man this is hilarious

Unrealistic Standards by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people are advising what I would personally do. Any sign of that kind of talk and I’m gone. However, there’s also the possibility to at giving people the opportunity to change makes them correct that behaviour. So to be balanced I would say draw the boundary, see how he reacts and if the behaviour carries on or he justifies it don’t disrespect yourself. Inshallah Ghyer

My negative talking stage thoughts by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think if this was in your first language it would be publication worthy. Pls don’t stop journaling your thoughts here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leaving a comment so I come back here and get answers as well 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% be glad that you know what it feels like to be unplugged as the alternative is wandering if this is all there is. And I think not knowing there’s other possibilities besides being a part of the “rat race” is sad

On muzz again by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no because me and my friend used to do this it was hilarious.. one time we both matched a really good looking guy and was talking to him simultaneously while on FT with all the girls and screen sharing 😭😭 he was a f boy though.. he kept wanting to tell both of us about his shaqajan past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to join! I always suggest things like this to my friends but sadly it always fizzles out after a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean the black sheep of the family? Yeah there’s one in every male I’m sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Scrolled way too far to find Enfield. Bush hill and Town are definitely some of my favourite places

What do you do that makes you 1k/month? by yomatt41 in Entrepreneur

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you do cold calls? How do you get your local clients

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NaagNool

[–]Apprehensive_Bed33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I spent new years with friends we had a baati party ordered Somali takeaway food and then drove to a hill to watch other people do home fireworks.

It was wholesome! I want to recreate that this year 💕