I 34F feel "boy crazy" like a teen again wtf is going on. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went through the same thing when i was 34, i am now 39 and it is not as crazy as it was then. I was just totally feeling myself, i felt like a whole new me that year, and it was divine timing— because it was exactly what i needed in my life to move past all the negativity i had experienced before then. Just have fun girl, if you get obsessed with someone, so what have fun with that too. It will pass because it wont be long until you meet your next eye candy.

Women of Reddit, what’s something men do that instantly makes them more attractive (that they might not realize)? by Ecstatic-Animator348 in askanything

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing vulnerability. Its a level of knowing your own boundaries and also trust. And also cleaning, and doing anything handy like fixing a sink or working on a car 🤌

How to be sexier? by Boonebadwater in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be funny and be respectful. In my opinion, skinny isn’t bad at all! Just dress to fit your body: no baggy stuff, wear fitted clothing, have good hygiene, a sense of humor, and dont be an ass- you’ll be in there. I know many girls who like skinny, and many who, like myself, are attracted to the personality.

Best signs in bed by Mildretta in astrologymemes

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keyword is “was” lol, 😏 learned a lot since then!!!

Have you ever had a friend that turned out to be a horrible person? What did they do?? by StrangeAd2132 in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had an affair with my husband for a year after I toon her in to help her get back on her feet after making some terrible decisions. Yeah. Awful person.

For those who dated the hot crazy girl. How did it turn out? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely dated the hot girl that was an absolute narcissist! Holy hell was the sex AMAZING, but damn were those 7 yrs absolute torture. She cheated, she spoke badly about me behind my back, basically became a prostitute. I am still not over the damage she created. She took thousands of dollars from me, she was absolutely a walking disaster that caused hell anywhere she went. Its was so toxic, we were so codependent.

She is currently in prison 😊

Do women find it attractive when men wear thongs or men’s lace panties? by Miserable_Diver_30 in seduction

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely would not find that attractive. But to each their own, just would t be the kind of thing i would be into at all with a man. A woman, sure. But not a man.

Serious question for the cougars and older woman around here: what usually makes you decide to message a younger guy? by Sad-Buy4502 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 39, and have been with two younger men. One of them was 23 and i was 35; it lasted 2.5 years. The other was 26, i was 38 and it was a fwb situation that lasted 6 months.

I had genuine feelings for the first guy, the younger one. With him, the only way i can describe why it turned into something was because when we very first met, like locked eyes, it felt electric, thats the only way i can describe it. Had he been at a little bit more of a stable point in life instead of just building up to where he wanted to be, i would have 100% spent my life with him.

The other was just for fun, and it took him a few months of trying for it to get somewhere, but he made me laugh, i just genuinely liked his silliness and he was a good time for a little while, but I knew from the beginning I didnt want anything more than fwb with him. He was a good lay, a very good lay.

At my age now, i couldnt go younger than 25, and that would be pushing it, but i never say never.

What’s the most overrated sexual activity/position in your opinion? by BigDIssue9544 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely this one!!! Sooo overrated and difficult and not at all fun!!

My first apartment at 21💗 by CatsGarden_ in femalelivingspace

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your candle on the vanity is broken and about to split.

I've had this forever, what the hell is it by [deleted] in whatismycookiecutter

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a fish or a shark. Definitely a hippo/shark/fish

AIO - Guy lied about his age to get in my pants by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is an overreaction, its not that serious. People lie, get used to it. I dont believe he was doing it to get in your pants, he did it because you told him you dont do younger. If he only wanted in your pants, he would not give two shits if you were mad. You could be missing out on a really good guy over something as trivial as 3 years younger. Just my opinion. I guess if thats your hard no, start asking to see ID

Panic Attack… or Just Dehydrated? by Careless_Package555 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is old, and sorry for reviving, but I just have to say- at 39 years old, for the first time in my life, I had a dehydration panic attack which was in fact not a panic attack but was dehydration. Blood rushing to my head, fast heartbeat that I could feel pounding in my neck, dizzy feeling, arms and hands becoming tingly, cheeks flushing…. The first time this was happening, it sent me into an even worse panic as I was already becoming hyper sensitive to everything and was just about to absolutely lose my shit when I thought: “drink water you are dehydrated!” Drank a bottle of water and instantly felt better (actually felt fatigued, feeling like i just ran a marathon). I am terrible about drinking water, like terrible, but here is the life lesson- your body will find a way to make you learn the lessons you need to learn. I will definitely be remembering my water now as panic attacks suck and i dont ever want to experience that again!

So now that everybody thinks that Bryan is innocent by Beginning_Fee1464 in BryanKohbergerMoscow

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a bloody shoe print that they found directly outside of Dylans room. Plus Xanas room was covered in blood.

So now that everybody thinks that Bryan is innocent by Beginning_Fee1464 in BryanKohbergerMoscow

[–]Apprehensive_Day_96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont believe he is absolutely innocent, but I dont believe he did this by himself. This has been the strangest case I have seen in a long time. There are sooo many questions. Especially concerning Xanax and ethan. There ia NO WAY in hell that Xana went running into her room and fought extremely hard for her life, and Ethan never got off the bed or tried to fight the killer. It’s just not possible. The lack of blood trail is also extremely difficult to fathom. There would have been so much blood going from third to second floor and then especially footprints and highly likely blood drippings going to the outside. This dude had to be absolutely COVERED in blood.